Is he saying because of me he canceled his plans?

[millyneenee]

So I decided to take my things and leave my boyfriend house because I needed a break. Today he tells me had a cookout and things planned. He then told me everything was canceled because my problems outweighed it all.

[20yearsolder]

Sure sounds like it to me, pretty silly question. You should tell him to continue with his cookout, you just won't be attending

[millyneenee]

I was making sure he was basically trying to blame me for it.

[20yearsolder]

Kind of sounds like it and that's why I said tell him to continue with your cookout. I'd also include that it doesn't bother you that he canceled it. It's not your fault, it's his choice to have it or not

[nickaboy]

Yeah , you broke up with him. And will never love him again he is sad and heartbroken Just leave him alone now

[Stevefiveo]

Yes, that is what he is saying.

[millyneenee]

But I didn’t tell him to stop his plans.

[Stevefiveo]

Right, but he is trying to show you how important you are to him