My bfs ex still has "spicy" photos on her Instagram?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend's ex is a quite well known YouTuber with over 2million followers in Canada. She still has a "spicy" photo on Instagram of her and my boyfriend. She's moved on with her new boyfriend. My question is if you were me would you ask her to take it down?

[Anonymous]

I feel you. My bf’s ex also still has all of their pictures up on her IG plus she likes to repost old pics of them on her story (making it seem like they’re still together), all these makes me very uncomfortable so I know how you feel. But you gotta remember, your boyfriend is with you now and not her. Is he still in contact with her ex at all? If not then there’s nothing you need to worry about, just ask your boyfriend to post more pics of the two of you together to help make you feel more secure 😊

[Asker]

We live in a different province now. He has texted her a few times. About picking up his mail. Or to ask her yoga questions. But that's really all I know. Not sure if he texts her more often than he says. I never look at his phone. I am trusting he doesn't. He deleted his social media. I'm just annoyed at it. I would show you the photos but I don't want to reveal who it is.

[Asker]

But I'm glad someone at least understands

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I get you, it might seem like it’s not a big deal but your feelings are still valid. Especially since your boyfriend still talks to her. If it makes you uncomfortable, you should talk to your boyfriend about this. Is there really a reason why he should still be talking to his ex? I mean she’s his ex for a reason, there are still boundaries that aren’t meant to be crossed since he’s in a new relationship now

[Changiis07]

No I wouldn't. Maybe she is just the type to leave good memories. If your relationship is going well then no need for that to affect you

[Asker]

I hate how it's out there. I try not to let it bug me but it does

[Changiis07]

It's just a picture. You can block her so you don't have to see it

[Asker]

But it's still out there and I know it

[joeldalton]

No, I wouldn't ask her to take it down. It'll only make you look insecure.

[Asker]

I am insecure though lol but I don't want to look even more insecure

[In_Trance]

If I were you, I'd get off Instagram

[Asker]

You're not wrong