Is it normal that my girlfriend still has pictures of her ex on social media?

[khayav]

She still has pictures of him with group of friends on her instagram page.. Is this normal?

[fairytale]

It's pretty common for people to have photos of their exes on social media, especially if those pictures also include other friends or are part of good memories. It doesn’t necessarily mean there’s still something going on; sometimes, it’s just a reflection of their past and the experiences that have shaped them.

If it’s bothering you, it might be worth bringing it up in a non-confrontational way. Just share how you feel about it and see what she says. Communication is key in relationships, and it's totally fine to express your feelings if something makes you uncomfortable.

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[Anonymous]

If it’s with a group of friends then sure it’s normal, doesn’t mean that you can’t be uncomfortable with it though. Definitely an unpleasant sight to see the ex still on their feed… My bf’s ex also still has all of their couple pics up on her account but my boyfriend has deleted all of their pics together (even the ones with friends)

[HighValue]

Any contact with an ex is unacceptable. Is her ex still on her contacts too or messaging her?

It is "normal" these days for women to cheat and their friends to all be supportive of that behavior. Pictures of exes, messaging them, doing stuff behind their SO's back and screwing them over is all "normal" for many women.

Should you accept it? No. Tell her that it is unacceptable and see how she reacts. If she makes a big deal about it, you know she is still doing inappropriate things with her ex.

[Mikeysoda]

Yes, it's normal. Every stage of life, people do not need to delete the previous stage. You just add on.

Those pictures are memories and experiences in image form. They definitely happened whether you like them or not. She could delete them off media but doesn't change the fact that those experiences occurred and those memories will still be in her head forever.

[Floda]

cope

[Avicenna]

I don't find that problematic since it's with a group of friends.

[bobalife]

Depends. Some people do cuz they’re lazy to delete old pics such as myself since I’m not active nor used my Facebook much besides messenger and updating profile pics lol. Other times can be concerning if they’re not over their ex. But if it’s bothersome, talk to her about it.

[spartan55]

Considering how girls throw a complete fit if a guy even likes a photo of some random hot chick... I would be having a talk with her about that. Guys will tend to forget about shit like that because we don't care. Not girls. They know exactly what they are putting out there.

[HelpfulWoman]

yes.
again, if you can't handle a past, don't fucking date someone with one. thinking they should erase memories for you is HELLA insecure and weird. (No sane person who isn't some weird incel will argue with this.)

[desidoll]

I still have some photos of my ex in my phone. They mean nothing to me. I keep it as a memory because we broke up in a good manner, no resentment at all. We had a great time together but things didn’t work for some reasons.

[sage2021]

Personally it would hurt my feelings if my current boyfriend had pictures like that.
She should have a big picture of you on her phones face page or whatever you call it.

[dustybiker2]

Did she legitimately forget about them? I'd ask her to back them up somewhere and remove them from places live, as it would make you feel better.

[SolitarySolace]

Probably just didn’t delete them after they broke up. I’m sure a lot of people still have pictures of their exes from back when they were together. I still do. I mostly keep them there to remind myself when we broke up and to remind myself why.

[Haraklus]

It takes active effort to remove the social media pictures. Just leaving them there is the default. So I definitely wouldn't call it weird.

[Starwitch23]

Yes and that's disrespectful. That means she has not moved on

[he-takes-a-part]

It won't be normal if the trend continues after you become her ex. Then she's filling her diaries only. Better take maximum advantage for yourself. Or ask straight away. at least thrice in different circumstances.

[Olgamasha]

If the ex is with other people it is considered normal for some people. But if the ex is alone or there are photos of them touching each other then it is a red flag.

[supercutebutt]

It is normal. Are they screengrabs from her onlyfans?

[WhitneySnow]

As long as it’s with a group of friends that’s fine

[elizamichale1]

Tht doesn't really mean anything honey specially when its part of a group photo

[annabananna]

Yea there’s a lot of people that will keep the pictures up.

[Jay-_-]

It's normal for this sick world, but it is far from okay.

[slatyb]

Yes, it is. Don't worry about it.

[sheikalana]

Some people don't delete their pictures.

[boobliker]

Yes,,, it a girl thing