We broke up a couple of weeks ago and since then she started posting her selfies on Instagram. She didn't use to do that. Is she trying to get my attention? Why does my ex girlfriend share selfies all the time after we broke up?
the better question is if you are no longer together why are you following her on instagram?
Just stop looking and move on.
It really doesn't matter what she does, she is now an ex-girlfriend.
That is the really nice part about the ex moniker, it means you don't have to care.
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Girls sometimes will do this for validation or to make you feel some type of way. Just ignore it, if you’re truly broken up I’d suggest unfollowing and/or blocking so you two can both move on properly. It’s easier to grow when there aren’t any distractions.
Maybe She is Trying to Get Other Guy's Attention or Yours... xxoo
She is probably trying to get new guys to notice her..
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if she posts them on Instagram then she's definitely not trying to get YOUR attention. she is just feeling free to do what she couldnt do while committed to you in order to get likes and feel better about herself; and to possibly find your replacement.
however if she sends them to you them to you directly then she is most likely using the attraction frustration to her advantage
female that age wants attention, security, to mate and reproduce... and everything else she wants. targeted at you to get you back or others to get praise she is still viable. makes her feelgood.
such women love to show their skin...
who knows what other emotional issues she has... maybe you do...
@bongo - when I read the title I thought she was specifically sending you selfies.
As it is she's just enjoying herself and you're been the creepy stalker following her on Instagram despite the fact you broke up.
1. Because you have not blocked her
2. Because she is trying to get you back
3. Because she is wanting to hurt you, piss you off, make you jealous.
Maybe it’s a hobby. Maybe she’s looking for a new love or just loving herself since she’s by herself now. If she isn’t bothering you why do you care what she’s doing?
What makes you believe that everything is about you? She’s your ex and because she’s posting pics you believe that she’s doing it for you? Lol get over yourself buddy.
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Maybe it could be a way for her to rebuild her confidence or seek validation
Maybe she wants to make you regret not having her. Just don't pay attention and move on, you broke up for a reason.
She is trying to get thee attention of other guys, maybe yours, and validate her physical desirability.
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Because ahe is trying to attract guys and live her life
Because she's a narcissist like everyone else who constantly posts selfies.
I think to get other guys attention or to make you jaleous.
She wants new attention and has moved on. You need to do the same and stop worrying about her at this point
She's probably trying to advertise herself to find another guy, and since you broke up, you shouldn't care.
She’s probably using her looks to peg a new boyfriend because she forgot to have a backup before you and her broke things off
1. To get attention that she lost.
2. To make you miserable by showing how much fun, how many actives, how happy she is.
she’s seeking validation still… until she gets a new guy
Stop...
Why do you care?
Mind your own business and grow up. You are 35 years old.
Maybe she is trying to find a new boyfriend on Instagram
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