In my perspective, lower quality guys will lie, cheat, verbally abuse, control, and abuse. Not the hot guys, of you. Low-quality men can be any man, and I have date small men who some men thought were hot, but not all men are going to appeal to other women. Similar to other girls, I don't really care for hot, foolish guys.
I'd want a partner who shares my interests and values. like pets, such as cats, dogs, video games and other animals. I had a lot of previous relationships while I was in college, and I did receive a lot of attention from guys did assist a few guys who were having trouble open soda or other fizzy drink cans. I tried to learn from my mistakes after having more negative experiences with past ex-boyfriends who were really awful. I've also made mistakes in terms of friendships where I assumed that some woman would find a way to tempt a guy if he was a good guy, but this was not the case. Is a group of intelligent men who may learn from one another and share knowledge.
What do lower quality guys, in your opinion, mean?
A guy doesn't necessarily only need to be a "cheater" or a "liar" to be a low-quality guy.
I, personally, have higher standards than that.
A low-quality man is
- a man with absolutely no ambition along with a huge sense of entitlement such as a poor man who demands his wife to be a stay home mom even though he clearly would struggle to afford one.
- lack of social etiquette: He disagrees with me so he never allows me to finish my sentence when I am speaking. (I have dated guys that are like this)
- making offensive jokes at other people's expense (I have literally dated guys who made offensive jokes.
- egotistical- Once I pointed out that he had an accent and he felt offended, so he lied and said I had an accent too. He also felt the need to put down anyone who he felt was more successful than he is. Imagine being married to him listening to that for the rest of your life.
- a man who expects his wife to conform to his desires. If she wants to get a job, he says no so she doesn't get a job. There are still guys out there who are like this.
- Bad tempered. I grew up with a father who screamed and yelled every single day. It was a nightmare. The man you marry not only affects your life but also your children's lives.
- very cheap, shallow men who only care about looks , status or money. Trust me, when you're with a guy who prioritizes how you look above everything else, don't be surprised when he starts checking out other women once your looks are gone.
Men who watch that Andrew tate guy. I despise them. I don’t want to be near them I don’t want to see them NOTHING.
Low quality males are the men who rely on their own fantasies about women and expect us to be what their perception of a women is and once they realize that not all women fit their “perception” of what a woman should be they go completely insane. That’s when they begin to mistreat us “hate” us because we’re not a little anime girl they idolized their entire lives.
If you're going to judge someone, and we all do, know what your grading system is. Some of your qualities you listed are not for a low-quality male, but instead a bad or poor-quality male.
There are different types of guys. Some are better than others, but there will be some that will be better for you, than others. So what I call a low-value man is going to differ than what you will call it, because you need to know who you really are?
For me, a low-quality male, as I would describe him would be not living to his full potential. That means he is fat, not applying himself to better himself, working towards his passions, and helping others accomplish theirs. He is wasting his resources and time.
That said, everyone hits bottom at one point or another. Knowing that you are or have turned into a low-quality male, is that critical decision to correct that, and make the necessary changes to improve yourself and your prospects. Resources and new opportunies tend to follow.
As for a woman, looking at men, they are grading a man on what he brings to the table. Is he worth his weight or just more of the same, not interesting, dull kind of guy that is going now where?
And most women will wait at the finish line. Very few will struggle with you from the beginning. If you find a young girl who falls in love with you for the right reasons, she might stick it out. Most Western women, nope, if you are not somebody, she will find somebody.
You'll know what a quality man is when your female friends actively try to seduce him and steal him... or worse when it works you'll be motivated to try and seduce him right back with you. Thus the meaning behind women being more willing to share a top-tier man than have a lower tier all to themselves.
With that said your line of thinking doesn't sound like your age. It's something I'd expect to hear from a woman that's "hit the wall" ... meaning she's closer to 40, can't pull the same caliber of men as before, and she's more interested in something "serious" because she's done having any fun. Just google "hitting the wall" if I sound stupid or nonsensical right now.
So what is top tier? You ever heard the term "Beta-bucks, Alpha-fucks?" (can also be googled) It's a reference to how some men have to earn money and provide the bucks to get a girl at all. That A tier guy does it with looks alone, and I guess S tier would be a guy that has it all..."the mark of the beast" (can also be googled, just avoid the religious definitions and look at the sexual market place definition).
I could go on and hope I'm helping with understanding, but if I'm just pissing you off I'll STFU.
I don't really believe in calling a person "low quality".
I think there are men/people who I like and don't like. Some may be "gross" or "not ny type", but i wouldn't brand them as "low quality". Sounds like an object.
Well, I suspect that if you asked 40 different people this, you'd get 40 different answers. I think it's completely dependent on what you value in a person. And I think no one person's answer to this could cover everything that could make a guy "lower quality", so you'd need to synthesize answers from the responses you get, i. e., the ones you find useful for your situation.
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