Why is it when I go to parties people make me feel like my energy isn't good enough?

[Anonymous]

[DaveJord]

Here's the deal, nothing bring out the insecurities of other people more then insecure people. I am highly confident person, but put me in a room with a highly insecure person and it triggers the worst type of anxieties within myself. These types of insecure people have all types of non-verbal or sub conscious and passive aggressive ways of projecting on to people.

That's the effect insecure people have on others and they are blind to it. So you apparently have some type of negative energy about you. So assume its not everyone else, it really you. So do some self reflection on it.

[Asker]

Not insecure just quiet with people I don't know. I tried to talk with them but they didn't seem very nice

[DaveJord]

Be lease quiet... puts people off.

[ANDYB88]

Maybe your energy ISN’T enough - what I mean by that is that if you don’t want to be there or if you’re not enjoying it you’ll give off that vibe. Insecurity is contagious too, so if you’re there and feeling insecure then obviously the insecurity (not the energy) needs addressing. If you’re there and don’t want to be then don’t go in the first place - your time is precious and you could be doing something better. I don’t know - I don’t know you

[Asker]

Yes I didn't want to be there maybe that was the problem

[AddylynnNightingale]

They don't care about your energy, they care about the music and having a good time.

[boggboss]

How?

[Anonymous]

Because your energy is not good enough.