Why do I feel drained whenever I hang out with certain people?

Anonymous
I have two best friends which I love very much. But lately, I have been feeling that one of my best friends has been draining my energy quite a lot. Whenever I hang out with them I feel emotionally drained and physically. I feel bad for feeling that way because I know that they are a genuinely a nice person. But I feel as if my personal space and my overall happiness are drained whenever I see them. Hanging out with them feels more like a chore they don't understand the basics of personal space at times which frustrates I have talked about the personal space situation with them but they don't seem to listen. I am starting to feel guilty as I know they have not done anything bad but I still feel that way about them

On the other hand, with my second best friend I feel a lot calmer and happier whenever when I hang out with them.

So I don't know what to do. Or if it's a sign of depression.
Why do I feel drained whenever I hang out with certain people?
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