How common is it for men to want to get the partying out before a baby comes along?

[Anonymous]

how common is it for a man to say, " let me get it out of my system before the baby comes"

My boyfriend just turned 31

He wanted this baby.

Now I'm 6 weeks pregnant

he's worried his freedom will be taken away. Now he's got cold feet?

So why can't he go hang out with his friends...

Sure, fair enough. But what about me?

[Summeroflove]

Well. I don’t know what to tell you. He needs to be helping you and taking care of you. Being pregnant is no easy task.


But I would recommend. Getting married before the next one. If you don’t see yourself marrying him. Maybe you should consider other options.


Both the child and you deserve a man tk love you and take care of you. If you take care of him and love him. It’s not unreasonable to expect the same

[KrakenAttackin]

@summeroflove. Not married and don't have kids, do ya sport?

[Berethor]

He is acting immature, and women have less time to waste with not having children than men.

[KrakenAttackin]

What about you?

Both of you are about to lose a lot of freedom, kids are a lot of work.

[Pterodon]

Most aren’t ready to settle down till mid thirties and some not until early forties