How many of you think he sounds dumb and is dead wrong?

[millyneenee]

So my boyfriend tried telling me and trying to justify that flirting in a relationship is okay.

[Danny_dan92]

It’s not.


If you wanna prove him wrong, turn the table. Ask him if he would be ok with you flirting with other men.


If he says “sure go ahead” call his bluff and do it.




If he gets defensive and angry. Then you just proved him wrong

[Lenanolena]

Maybe they are not equal because he's a man and she's a woman? We are not the same

[Danny_dan92]

Nope. That doesn’t matter

[Lenanolena]

In my opinion it does. A woman will be worse in this but they are both wrong

[Danny_dan92]

You shouldn’t flirt with others when in a relationship. Period

[Lenanolena]

Yeah but women doing it are worse for me

[Danny_dan92]

Mmm I suppose, maybe cause women entice men. So if men are hitting up a taken girl it means she’s more than likely asking for the attention, so from there if she flirts it’s really bad

[Lenanolena]

I don't know if a woman does it she is seen as a slut and with no morals.
If a man does its more like he's a player

[Danny_dan92]

I agree 100%

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

Not only does he think it's ok

Many people out there, have open relationships, and are even "poly-amorous"

If you aren't though, then you need to explain this to him that this isn't you

[Anonymous]

Well, we flirt with everyone, and our marriage is stronger now than it's ever been.

[millyneenee]

So you guys were okay with that

[millyneenee]

How did you really deal with that

[bowenw]

For me it depends on how serious the flirting is.

[Guy13]

That is nonsensical !!

[Guy13]

What did you catch him doing?

[ZenJen444]

He doesn't like you sis lol