Nooooooooooo I think he must be a little stupid?

[Rebecca2378]

My boyfriend literally said to me last night when we were about to have sex.
Context; I was like let’s go to bed and he’s like I can’t stop, I have to now. ☠️ i didn’t think much of it until this morning like does that sound bad to y’all?
honestly screams to me - lack of self control? Am I right to be worried about this comment like I just think to myself… what would you do if you were left alone with someone and you were aroused.

would you stop yourself?
the wordinggggggg, it’s bad.

[Anonymous]

In the heat of the moment, people often say things that are meant to be flattering but come out sounding clumsy or stupid, as you put it. He might have been trying to express how much he desires you basically a failed attempt at saying, You're irresistible without realizing how aggressive or literal that sounds.

If he truly feels that his biological urges override his ability to control his actions, that is a legitimate concern. Healthy intimacy requires the ability to throttle down or stop at any second, regardless of how aroused someone is.

The best way to tell which one it is? Test the boundaries when things are calm. If you tell him today, Hey, when you said you 'can't stop' last night, it actually made me feel unsafe/uncomfortable, his reaction will tell you everything.
A guy who just used stupid wording will be horrified and apologetic. A guy with a genuine self-control issue might get defensive or try to justify it as just how men are.

Good luck.

[MittParekh15]

Well you had heated the milk to the boiling point and kept in a freezer

He was ready for something, probably men say so when they are ready to go ahead one stop clearly cooling off will hurt him

Just have a honest conversation with him and find out a solution will ease the situation rather than feeling guilty

[Rebecca2378]

HAHAHA WHAT IS THAT ANALOGY 😭😭
Sir, kindly… and this is why a girls intuition will never lie. ☠️

[MittParekh15]

Yes agree you don't want to have hot milk is fine

Just speak with him as he is hurt and check if cold milk will work for some time..

[ohsheeT]

Ok wait so he had a chance to go to bed with you

and he said What?
What did he have to know?

I mean I can only guess
it would be where did I put my brain the last time I took it out to play with it.

[DonaldDarko]

He probably said it to turn you on or something. Men say stuff like that to girlfriends all the time.

[glennos89]

Its kinda weird to be honest. He should have gone to bed with you and thrown you in every possible angle untill you where satisfied

[ChicoFromThe305]

Most men nowadays are, at least that's what I've been told

[Tomislav7]

wording is bad lol even worse you had time to write this up

[Rebecca2378]

Mate, even worse you had time to comment. 😭

[Tomislav7]

Were all in hell together

[Alex-Snow]

How long had it been since he last had sex or jerked off?