Why girls don't want a second date with me even after we kissed and had sex on the first date?

[badg96]

Is because im ugly?

[Honest-Matt]

Why are you asking us if you are ugly. Are you ugly? Do you feel ugly? That's your answer. Having confidence in your own skin even as the not most attractive person will get you in bed or in relationships with women. I feel ugly all the time, especially putting on weight, but when I get out of it and put myself out there and be genuine, fun and engaging with like-minded women, I have good experiences. And never dismiss the idea that maybe these girls are really not YOUR type even if you're intrigued by them initially.

[Guy13]

Do not be so hard on yourself. It is most likely not you and how you look. It is likely that you have one intention and she has another. Did you have this conversation before date or during? What did you speak about during the date?

[elizamichale1]

If i had a date n had sex with him but it didn't turn out to be gud i wouldn't be dating him again

[badg96]

Do you think is because the sex is bad?

[elizamichale1]

Could be
Or ur behaviour or personality

[badg96]

I left right after sex. I could have stayed with her, you think I didn't do well?

[elizamichale1]

Well u shud hav

[Avicenna]

If they were willing to have sex with you, they probably don't find you ugly. They probably just wanted a hookup. A lot of people flake after the first date appears to go well.

[CharlieDMX]

If you were ugly you wouldn't have had sex. A) Sex was bad, B) she felt guilty for having sex on the first date C) you made her feel bad after sex or D) she realized you are not what she's looking for. Anyway. Don't feel bad about yourself and move on

[Heolurt]

If you were ugly you wouldn't be getting dates. just take a look at me, I am extremely ugly been told so by practically every female I ever asked out.

[Anonymous]

Because sex is all they were after in the first place.

[NewsReader]

Can't answer without more information

[leighbee]

There maybe wasn't a right time

[Twalli]

Possibly they got sex, and that's all they wanted.