What should be my next step?

[Anonymous]

I just want to keep it simple...

so there's this guy who fell for me first and I wasn't liking him at first..

but later I found him so pure and gentle.. and he give too much actually,

like everything, and I am not used to it, also the bad experiences I had in my life..

so it was overwhelming for me..

that's why I wanted to give him a chance at least and we went on our first date two days ago...

but now I'm finding it out that he loves me and all that, but it'll be impossible for him to marry me , cause I'm from a different country and it's rare for them to marry another girl from a different country or state...( TMI- the guy is a Kashmiri muslim, and I'm too a muslim)

but he wants to continue this cause he loves me a lot and it's painful for him to let me go... but he isn't sure about the future or more like he can't marry me!!

[Guy13]

Sounds like self-abuse with an eventual crash and burn...

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe he can leave Kashmir and move to your country. At least he’s a Muslim too. I’d say go for it.

[Asker]

he said it might not be possible, he lives in my country... after 3 years he'll go back... and he'll be continuing it until one of us going to get married.. 🙂

[WhitneySnow]

You guys need to talk about the future. It’s not gonna work out long term if he has to go back to Kashmir in three years.