I'm transgender (male to female). I have my first date tomorrow with a guy. Any advice?

[engineer_weight_loss]

[Anonymous]

Assuming you mean that you have a date with a guy that doesn't know you're trans, then it would have been a good idea to disclose that detail BEFORE the date... because now time and money will be potentially wasted if he so happens to find out it in person and not be so into it, souring the relationship.

[PrincetonGirl97]

That's what I thought too. Turns out it isn't that.

[PrincetonGirl97]

Probably should open with the reveal. It's like ripping off a bandaid. If he doesn't appreciate you, he wasn't meant for you, sweetie. Don't hide it, it'll just hurt more later.

[engineer_weight_loss]

He knows I am post op transgender

[PrincetonGirl97]

Then I don't see a problem 😊

[engineer_weight_loss]

What should I wear on the date?

[PrincetonGirl97]

Whatever is appropriate for the location.

[engineer_weight_loss]

He's taking me out to play pool and than to dinner.

[PrincetonGirl97]

What do you think is appropriate for that? :)

[engineer_weight_loss]

I was think a nice blouse, skirt snf high heels

[PrincetonGirl97]

Sounds nice

[engineer_weight_loss]

and high heels*

[engineer_weight_loss]

I know he loves thigh highs

[PrincetonGirl97]

Most men do

[engineer_weight_loss]

A woman at work told me he has dating a few women in the office

[engineer_weight_loss]

I think I'll wear the thigh highs tomorow

[PrincetonGirl97]

You're dating a man that has women on the side?

[engineer_weight_loss]

No I heard he's dated a few women from work

[PrincetonGirl97]

What happened in those relationships

[engineer_weight_loss]

I don't know

[PrincetonGirl97]

Might be good knowledge

[engineer_weight_loss]

I appreciate you advice