I met a trans person that I really like. What should I know about dating a trans person?

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Thirty-OddSix · Accepted Answer

With all due respect, consider the role that sex with the opposite sex plays in your satisfaction. There are other ways to please each other, sure. And maybe that'll work for you both and that's fine. Just something to consider.

if this is the first time you've been attracted to someone who is LGBTQIA2+, congrats. But maybe also consider why. Again, respectfully, and purely in the context of your own mental health or unfulfilled needs, what are you longing for, and has this person filled that need? What's different that others have not fulfilled?

all the best. Hope you both find happiness.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Accepted Answer

There is one thing to expect for sure, you're facing a person struggling with pretty much entire societies, it has tremendous consequences on how they view themselves, and this world, and people in it. Which consequences? That's the part about meeting a person, there is a whole story, always, as you know, for any person. In that case, do not expect a simple story. Expect an extremely complicated one.

It is highly likely this story is going to challenge what you know, and what you take for granted. I hope you have an adventurous spirit. Good luck🍀

GOLDFISH_smile · Accepted Answer

Don't call them "a trans" call them what their gender is, add trans if it's needed (example: trans man, or just man if don't need to specify).

They will more likely like you back if you respect them and don't out them to people irl without asking first.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

What is their real biological sex they were born as?
You can do as you wish but I personally wouldn’t want to date somebody born female just like me. I think most people are like me though. They only want to date somebody born the opposite sex.

Daniela1982 · Answer

That they tend to wear bullet-proof-vests, because people they are being intimate with tend to kill them when they surprisingly find out that they are not the sex they thought they were.

Anonymous · Answer

A messed up childhood unhealed trauma A massive coping mechanism instead of actually dealing with it Also they will behave closer to their biology of origin no matter how many surguries they get

bowenw · Answer

I don't think you need to do anything different that dating anyone else. If you aren't sure about something, ask them.

Abbycado · Answer

Do what you want. You don’t need anyone’s permission here.

lorenzomichael · Answer

Well, if you don’t already know, let me clue you in what you should now know is that you’re gay? There’s no other way of saying it. You’re a homo and you like guys that look like girls.

Nikki1989 · Answer

They are just people like anyone else. Stop referring to them as "trans."

kaucky1 · Answer

If the boobs small think balloons gelid pinch twist nipples to right n blow inside of self not need sack so upsidedown u with line going down middle of it

emlaraine · Answer

You should know that if it looks like a manly woman, it has male genitals. It if looks like a feminine man, it has female genitals. Make sure you know which genitals you are into.

Finchie40 · Answer

They are actually a girl

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

They have very serious mental problems.

Adel50 · Answer

I won't advice on dating a trans person.

jahaims · Answer

You're 63 make your own choices

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Try asking them, not us

Ladsin2 · Answer

How would I know?

In_Trance · Answer

Do whatever you want to do

seanscoopers · Answer

If you like to do it  Then enjoy your date

ForevrLonely29 · Answer

Vomit 🤢

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

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