A girl i'm seeing is very emotionally distant but says she likes me?

[Anonymous]

is it true she actually likes me?

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she says she's interested and likes me but she is emotionally distant

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i meant talking to not seeing because its long distance relationship

[SueShe]

There is a distinct difference between liking and loving.

One can like somebody but be emotionally distant. If she would be emotionally closer, that could signify that she does like you more than just a little.

I believe that you would like her to like you much more and you are perhaps frustrated that she only likes you to a certain extend.

Would you like her to "like" you more? In that case, you have to work on it. She is not going to like you more just like that. If you give her no incentive to like you more, then the situation will remain the way it is.

[Asker]

would it be wrong for me to use marriage websites behind her back?

[SueShe]

There is nothing wrong to use marriage websites. I just don't see the relation between your question and using marriage websites.

[Asker]

if i find another girl is that morally wrong? would that be considered lying or cheating

[SueShe]

No, there is no problem since she is emotionally distant and never stated (according to your account) that she loved you. There is a huge difference between liking and loving.

[Asker]

thank you that makes sense

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[Asker]

welcome :)

[Anonymous]

As she is saying then there are more chances that she actually like you.

[Iron_Man]

Keep working on her

[Asker]

thanks

[Iron_Man]

Sure

[Iron_Man]

Thanks for most helpful Award

[Asker]

welcome :)

[Guy13]

She feeling yiu out

[Anonymous]

How would we know?

[Asker]

she says she's interested and likes me but she is emotionally distant

[Anonymous]

Just give her time to warm up to you.