MEN AND WOMEN, when you think someone isn’t getting the hint they like you. Do you ever consider they’re just not into you?

[Summeroflove]

It’s kind of annoying. People say someone is dumb for not catching the hints. But. Does it not occur in their heads. Maybe the person just isn’t into them?

[Anonymous]

But why do my crushes initially seem to respond to my flirts, or maybe even initiate the first conversation, but when I reciprocate the interest, they never actually ask me out on a date? Are men just as guilty of being attention whores as women are?

[Summeroflove]

Some men are. Some women are. Not all. Sometimes they might get scared. They might loose interest for one reason or another.

Who really knows why. If you want someone. Goes for both genders. Just ask.

[Summeroflove]

Also many cases where someone thinks someone is flirting or flirting back but really aren’t

[Steamnir]

Yes i think so

[Summeroflove]

I think a lot of people do. Just some people seem to be too full of themselves.

That or they are hinting at random strangers who frankly aren’t paying attention and simply don’t care.

[iamaMAP]

There's adult... females who smile at me in public sometimes and try to flirt but I'm just not interested in them. So I ignore them instead.

[Bethany22]

I knew it!!

[Summeroflove]

I will many times smile at someone. A smile isn’t always flirtatious. Sometimes I notice someone following me around. I usually ignore them unless sometimes they get in the way and stuff and I might give a dirty look.

It’s a little creepy sometimes. I mean it’s a public place don’t get me wrong. But. Just in my space. Almost like it’s intentional

[Summeroflove]

@Bethany22 knew what?

[Bethany22]

I look at men while on the street, and they look away. I had never been 100% sure that they were sending a no-thanks message, but this guy confirms that they were indeed.

[Summeroflove]

@Bethany22 maybe. Maybe they just don’t want to be awkward. But. It’s definitely possible.

Just figure. Many people are out and about and want to be left alone minding their own business and if they don’t know you. Many guys are taken. You could be the most beautiful and amazing woman in the world. Not everyone is gonna be attracted to you.

I would say. If you want to ask a guy out. Be direct.

But. I’m sure you send a no thanks message when you notice someone flirting you aren’t really into or are taken at the time.

Doesn’t mean there aren’t guys out there willing.

[Summeroflove]

@Bethany22 I do kind kid laugh sometimes. When a woman (or guy) says. How oh guys are dumb. I send hints and clear hints and they don’t get it.

But. Neve seem to think. Maybe they’re not interested… I think they’re missing the hints lol.

[Bethany22]

Helpful, thanks

[Summeroflove]

@Bethany22 you’re welcome. When you flirt. See who flirts back. You can be direct and ask someone out.

But. That’s why we flirt. If someone seems uninterested. I leave them alone.

[Guy13]

Yes and that would be a good assumption to make and probably a great time to back off.

[Summeroflove]

I agree. If someone flirts and they don’t flirt back. Many times. Either they did not notice. If you have pushed and push without a reaction or they walk off. Then probably not interested or you weirded them out

[Guy13]

Thrr Red n we are right given two agree. Confirmation has been done.

[Anonymous]

No. I assume if she isn't getting the hint then clearly she must be gay. Because... c'mon look at me. 🤣🤣🤣

[Summeroflove]

Lol. There are some people who really think like that. Just because someone isn’t into them. Even if they have someone.