Don’t you think girls are really arrogant/proud?

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I hate them for this.

Girls very rarely go out of their way for a guy, they expect things that don’t exist. They don’t send the first dms to guys they don’t initiate conversations. They think the sun 🌞 shines out their asses. Very entitled.

Yet they want an equal playing field with men. It’s a mockery

BullShark · Accepted Answer

No, I do not think all girls are arrogant and/or proud. A good percentage may be, but there's still a high number of them that aren't like this. Just because all your experiences with girls so far have been bad ones, doesn't mean everyone's bad. That's the same as a girl coming here and saying that all men are douchebags and f*ckboys and all they wanna do is sleep around with as many women as they want.

The world doesn't work that way and having a negative attitude and mindset like this won't get you anywhere. There are girls out there who are materialistic, clout hungry, golddiggers and hoes who just wanna sleep around and have fun as long as there's money involved. And then there are mature girls who have undergone the trials and tribulations of turning into an adult, and realize that money and sex isn't the end all be all in life, nor are looks. They know what they want and they'll appreciate when they see it. That's what separates the WOMEN from the little GIRLS. Get it memorized.

As you quite clearly haven't been with enough women or little girls to know the difference, let me be the first to tell you that yes, for the most part, they do expect you to make the first move in asking them out, for the most part. Or at least drop off obvious hints so that you have clear signs to go for the confession. And yes, I know it may sound stupid and you might be thinking "well if they like me, why don't they just say so?" and that's because girls like to feel wanted and they appreciate being courted by guys they like.

That being said, as I said initially, not all girls are the same and I have known plenty of girls out there who go out of their way to tell a guy they have feelings for him. Truth is, most of them are afraid of what he may think of them or whether or not he'll accept them for who they are. Because when a girl usually asks a guy out, it's usually because she really likes him. Enough to take that big leap and confess her feelings to him. But yes, it's neve out of the question.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

And it's not going to change man. I know it sucks guys really get the short end of the stick in the beginning of things with women. You have to do the little dance, tell them all the things they want to hear, with no guarantee of a payoff. But you have to remember the 2nd half of the game typically belongs to men. Once they're hooked you can cheat on them, sleep with thier friends (the non loyal ones of course). And they generally believe any lie you tell the regardless of whether it's common sense or not. Because women don't want to quit once they've committed to a guy. Just always remember the b. s. is temporary.

Steamnir · Accepted Answer

Girls are separated into two groups

group that has matured and know what they want and want to settle down with someone they love

and group who likes attention and drama and likes going into multiple relationships for food and materialistic stuff and they usually look and act weird

AddylynnNightingale · Accepted Answer

I'm proud, but I don't take anything for granted. My boyfriend is shy so I had to send the first DM, ask him out and plan the dates. I don't expect to be treated like I'm above him. Mutual respect isn't asking for too much, is it?

Avicenna · Answer

Some are. But there are many reasons for not talking to or approaching a guy besides just that.

Guy13 · Answer

No. I do not. I think men are too sensitive and feminine.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

I feel there are women like that, but I hate to break it to you man. Women DO what you just said.

Women do initiate, send the first DM amd do go out for men, but only for the guys they like and are attracted to. Guaranteed when a woman is into a guy and attracted to him, if given the opportunity to spend time with him, she will move heaven and earth to make it happen.

AsaKyo · Answer

So you're insinuating all girls are like this because you had a few bad experiences with some lmao..

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Many do get pride/arrogance, but not all. Not my Flower Girl.

MountAverage · Answer

No, I grew out of my "girls are stupid" phase when I was around 6 or 7.

fonduegirl · Answer

I'd message you. What's your username, hon?

Anonymous · Answer

Ohhh I absolutely agree with you...

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