Friends with benefits confessed feelings, but wants to stay friends with benefits?

[Anonymous]

so I’m a guy, regardless pick user was an accident, but this girl I’m friends with benefits confessed to liking me and wanting a real relationship. I suggested she date other people because I’m trying to focus on my education. She then said that she agrees, but wants to remain friends with benefits until she does find someone.

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should I remain friends with benefits with her since she wants to?

[SnowedIn]

No. Don't do that. All that's going to do is feed her feelings for you only to hurt her. Not cool or fair. Good on you for asking, but I say let her down and let her go.

[Asker]

i mean she is an adult and she was drunk when she said this. texted me this morning and told me she knows we can't date so she wants to keep this up for fun while she dates other people

[In_Trance]

So what's your question?

[Asker]

should i remain friends with benefits with her since she wants to?

[In_Trance]

Do you have other options?

[Asker]

not at the moment. im not looking for anything serious and she's the only friends with benefits i have

[In_Trance]

So why wouldn't you keep doing it for now?

[Asker]

she admitted to having feelings for me so I'm wondering it that's wrong to continue, even though she said she'll date other people. she wants to keep having sex w me

[In_Trance]

That's her problem not yours. Look after yourself

[Asker]

so its cool if i keep hookin up with her

[In_Trance]

If you talk about it and discover your both cool with it then yes