What do you think about Christian Grey? Would you date a guy like that?

[Babygirl_S]

I don't think he's an abuser.

[USLegionary]

If Harvey Weinstein looked like Christian Grey he would never have got jail, in fact there would be no problem. Christian Grey is a young, handsome, well educated, 6ft+ billionaire if he wasn't this is would be an episode of a crime show. He reminds me of Patrick Bateman in American Pyscho.

[A_Bell]

Somebody's jelly.

[USLegionary]

@A_Bell am I jealous of a handsome billionaire that coild get nearly any woman he wants including a unicorn like Anna Steel who is pretty, young, innocent, a virgin, gullible and willing to do anything sexually you want to do yeah sure what man wouldn't be...

[A_Bell]

See, I WAS RIGHT!!! ;)

[USLegionary]

@a_bellyeah but sure who wouldn't be jealous of a billionaire. Just look at Elon Musk looking how he does he's able to have a threesome with Amber Heard and Cara Devigne

[WonderBell99]

I mean, it’s BDSM… which is consensual. Not really abuse. Two very different things. Though, he did emotionally drain her and the stalking part was creepy. Agreed with everything else.

[USLegionary]

@WonderBell99 how about the beating her ass with a cricket bat?

[Mewzinc]

No I'm not into what he's into. He's messed up with his sadistic personality disorder and his rules of how he wants the woman to act otherwise she gets punished. Weird and disgusting.

His obsession with sex is really bizarre and unhealthy. I mean like yeah guys like sex. But this guy wants to have sex every day all day. Like wtf how do you run your business? How can you do other normal stuff without like wanting to have sex every second. That would get annoying after a while.

You know he's not going to be able to finish every time. He'll finish twice maybe... three times. But then that'll be it for him and this guy wants to have sex all the time?

Well it better be him on his knees pleasing the woman. She could orgasm fifty times and still go for more.

Anyway no he's not my style.

[A_Bell]

I take it that is the character from the 50 shades books. I read like 1 or 2 chapters, but it was bad fan fiction quality, so I stopped there. I did read the plot summary and it seemed to go into a ridiculous ritualized bdsm lifestyle. That doesn't sound interesting.

However restraints, blindfolds, gags and such can add excitement to a night or weekend. But it needs to be in the moment and not a 24x7 dom/sub situation.

[PositiveFlight]

I really dislike how guys like this have been glorified in books and in movies. This is not how a man should treat a woman! It’s unhealthy and psychotic behavior. Sex is supposed to be loving and respectful. It should never hurt or make a person uncomfortable. It shouldn’t objectify. Sex is supposed to be pleasurable, beautiful, loving, selflessly serving, thoughtful, and feel safe. Blindfolding, whipping, pulling hair, slapping, hitting, banging, restraining, and using various torture devices is not loving.

[Babygirl_S]

Some women like the idea of being owned and used like a toy.

[PositiveFlight]

I realize that. And it’s their right to have it. But as a man who was taught to have respect for women at a young age, it’s heartbreaking. My perspective is different than many I guess. Just putting my 2 cents worth in because I care

[A_Bell]

Luckily white knights are saddled up and waiting to save us silly women from our bad choices.

Three cheers for protecting our virture from kinky pleasures, sir.

[USLegionary]

Turns out if your a handsome 6ft+ billionaire women are OK with you forcibly tying them up and beating their behind with a cricket bat lol of course I'm sure Anna Steel Grey may pull details like this out in the court when it comes to the divorce and child custody lol.

[A_Bell]

@USLegionary when we're married, I'll take some of his money to give to you to go to school. Somewhere there is a class on punctuation so I can understand you without rereading it several times.

The next time my wealthy hunk paddles me, I'll try not to scream your name, my hero and rescuer.

[USLegionary]

@A_Bell if you've gone to college recently you'd know that remarking or correcting on a person's bad spelling, grammar or punctuation is now racist in 2022.
Why would I rescue you, I'm sure Dorian Grey or Patrick Bateman will keep you locked up in their sex dungeons and the only way out is in a body bag.

[A_Bell]

@USLegionary you paint quite a picture by mentioning Dorian, but he would have me locked up in his attic for our Wilde times, not underground.

[USLegionary]

@A_Bell yes but it puts the lotion on the skin or else it gets the hose again.

[A_Bell]

@USLegionary once again quoting serial killers. Should I fear kinky billionaires or you? I'd rather be dismembered in the Ritz than in a run down unleveled single wide on the bad side of the trailer park.

[ChefPapiChulo]

@A_Bell lol you’re an idiot. But a funny idiot.

[hIopinionated_]

I am not into sadists so no, I would not date a Christian Grey. If he wasn’t a sadist though, I would date him without the belting and tying me up though. Spanking seems fun but all that other extra. . yeah I don’t think I’m into that stuff.


I like sweet guys who are super nice not men who gets off on hitting me. I’m not messed up that way

[dustybiker]

Having read the books and then his version of the books. He’s a survivor. Even his bodyguard said he's a good guy. There are tells when someone is truly twisted.

Personally I liked the bodyguard better.

[BlueScorpio]

I never watched the movie, but what I got from it was that he's into bdsm? Bdsm is not abuse, some people just have really strange kinks. As long as the person agrees to it and its mutual thing, then it's fine I guess.

[Chubbychick]

He's... Not my kind of guy for sure. In addition to the abuse stuff, I don't find him cute. Dakota Johnson, her I would date if I dated girls. Cutie

[Bratsondanielle]

I would, and indeed I do.

And no, he's not an abuser. Slapping her across the face for fot cooking would be abuse. A whip in the bedroom ain't the same thing

[mermaidcancermoon]

Im into Dominant men but his swag is unattractive to me. The way he talks and asserts himself is just not what I find arousing.

[musicbrain5]

I would not date a guy like that in a million years. “I don’t think he’s an abuser” lol, that’s hilarious.

[TrueConfection]

I didn't see the movie, but read the series. Based on the books... No way.

[melanieeeB]

Never, I also see him as abusive and narcissistic... from just watching the first movie

[PainusNdeeAnus]

narcissist don’t like narcissistic behavior

[Makeushiver]

I looked at him for a second to see if anything ca, me toi mind. I deecided I liked looking at your eyes much more

[lauraanne02]

I'd literally let him do whatever he wanted to me. He's so fit

[ZenJen444]

Girl are you okay? Lol like you're self esteem must be really low and you must be accustomed to trauma and abuse. Get therapy hun and quick

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Ok how is he still an abuser when the woman was willing? Even f it’s what she wanted he is still the bad guy? Wth

[Guanfei]

Of course you don't think he's an abuser, he's good-looking. If I did the same as him, you'd report me to the police immediately.

[IdentetarianimSucks]

This man is just Harvey Weinstein in a good-looking body.

[dustybiker]

You didn’t even read anything lol

[MrTaboo]

I am a guy like that. 'Ish. I'm a Dom, but not like him.

[perpetualsadnes]

Definitely not. I 've got enough problems in my life already.

[LazerBean]

I wouldn't even speak to someone like that.

[Agape93]

He's an abusive cunt. No, I have self respect.

[tonamimargaux]

Hmmm the guy is hot but no thank you