My friends are all taken but me?

[theresyourgravy]

not necessarily friends but i live with them. i’m only truly friends with the sweet one. i have one ‘friend’ in a 3 year relationship, one in another, one girl who’s in a talking stage with a guy, and the other one with a sweet guy. all of the guys treat me all well. 3 out of 4 are these girls are controlling, very rude. when the last one is very sweet so it makes sense. all these guys make it now that they’re into them, they never have to chase them. but i’m the only one who doesn’t have any guy chasing her. i keep trying to make moves on guys and it doesn’t work. it also makes me feel bad that i have to do all this just for someone to like me. i’m thinking maybe it has to do with personality. i am pretty quiet but when i’m not quiet, i’m really nice, i love having small talk with people, and i like to have fun and laugh. they keep telling me that they’re sure there’s guys into me. but i don’t really see any of them. but i do see them flying out at all of them. is it just me?

[SnowedIn]

It is NOT just you. As much as this is going to suck to hear, time. Keep talking to guys and putting yourself in safe, same, fun situations where you can talk to and interact with. They'll notice you and get interested and you can draw them in. Guys are interested in so many things -- when one isn't interested in you, that's not a statement about your value or beauty or anything else about you. That's on them.

[theresyourgravy]

the thing is i have a friend group sorta, it’s like 11 guys and 3 girls (including me), i talk to them a lot. i’m not close close friends but i have no problem talking to them at all. but i have yet to see a single one show interest.

[SnowedIn]

So, I am far from an expert. My only guess would be maybe that they're you're friend group? Maybe they think great friend but never really considered you for relationship or physical? That's still on them but it's also great to have a friend group and find your relationship outside that group.

I wish I had a better answer for you or a more fulfilling answer. But, the point I can't emphasize enough is that it's not something wrong with you. You may need to work at it more, but it's not a flaw.

[Makeushiver]

Well I checked out your photo of your midriff with the belly button jewelry and everything looked pretty damn good from what I could see. It took me about a second to think how much fun it would be to wriggle your ass out of those jeans and I decided I liked thinking about it. It gave the reaction that scientists term "a boner"

[WhitneySnow]

Sometimes guys don’t pay attention to the quiet girls. You need to attract their attention. Get your sweet friend to show you how.

[theresyourgravy]

i’ve been more loud now, there’s this group of people and we all hang out in the lobby. so i’ve been making conversations with all of them, we’ve been hanging out since August. but i don’t talk in class

[WhitneySnow]

Wait till you see a cute guy you like then try and flirt with him

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you still in high school?

[theresyourgravy]

first year of college

[OlderAndWiser]

If your friends were responding to this question, what do you think they would say is the issue?

[lucas262]

My best friend moved away a couples months ago to be with his girl.

My brother moved in with his girl,

Iv been picked on by my friends and family because I didn't have a girl yet.

I felt so bad I downloaded the apps and tried talking to women online partly because I was lonely but mostly to get them to shut up.

I don't know but I feel like something about me puts women off.

At 1st I thought it's because I was out of shape but I got into better shape it's not changed.

I thought it's because I'm not good looking. people tell me I am, and Iv Seen girls with way worse looking guys.

I wouldn't admit it but my confidence has hit a low point. I don't go out much and I'm vla quiet person for 90% of the people I know. That's just how I am, people told me It's my confidence.

Now I'm worried im so inexperienced I'll meet someone and I'll make too much of a casual thing and get heartbroken.

[BJP21]

Sometimes you as the girl have to be the chaser. Some guys actually do like it when you do approach us. It may surprise you.

[theresyourgravy]

but i’m always the chaser. and it makes me feel upset when literally one was walking on the elevator and the guy made the move on her. the other one got approached. everyone got approached, so what’s so wrong with me that i have to chase every guy

[BJP21]

@theresyourgravy Try this, make eye contact, smile and wave them over. They will come to you.

[Havthrills]

Not you, just not the right guy. Maybe soon you'll meet him.

[theresyourgravy]

i’ get that but i still don’t have a single guy even telling or showing that they’re interested. all four of these girls are being treated with love and care. another one just got asked out. and the other one (sweet one) was just told how another guy is interested in her. i don’t have a single thing and it makes me feel shitty

[Havthrills]

You will. It has to be tough with your friends having dates. When was the last time you went out with someone on a date or had a boyfriend? I don't see why you wouldn't. Are you really shy?

[Nsync]

Don't rush it. You are have plenty of time. If you rush it you will get the wrong guy.
Life brings certain things together at a certain time. Trust it and stay true to yourself

[Andres77]

They’re intimidated by your beauty?🙄

[theresyourgravy]

but the other 4 girls are extremely beautiful, how come the guys weren’t intimidated to go for them

[Andres77]

Ya got me.
Sorry. You seem like a sweetheart

[cth2188]

Same boat still haven't met Mr Right

[cth2188]

I doubt he exists

[theresyourgravy]

you’ll find him<3

[cth2188]

I've given no more energy for it

[AngelOfLight258]

Go after a guy you like :)