I know that it varies from person to person because it can be sometimes very different but still I thoght you would have a certain person in your mind that you'd define him or her as a potential partner or have a date with?
Let's say you're thinking of your ideal partner or date candidate that shall be: 5"11 or 6"2, beard/none, dark hair? Blone? Brunette?
Strong built? Lanky? Curvy woman? Anything like that.
A normal job? Or perhaps a demanding one (Doctor, lawyer, high position)
I really do find a very wide variety attractive, but just for the sake of the game, I'll try to build an "ideal" date/partner:
Physical: Cis-female, ~160 cm (+/-10), dark hair, light eyes, athletic and/or petite build, firm breasts, freckles, no mouth piercings.
Mental/personality: witty, playful, thoughtful, loves animals.
Career/hobbies/passions: too many possible to list all, but loving nature and adventure
There are some things that I just can't really decide on. One example is I was thinking of hair style/type and on one end of the spectrum I love a pixie cut, but on the other end, I think long straight or wavy hair is also gorgeous. Breasts are another, as both smaller and larger breasts are delightful.
Another thing is that I enjoy learning and discovering about someone, so "building" them isn't that great as I'd rather find out what they enjoy rather than assign them a personality and passions.
One thing I really don't like about dating is, and this isn't the fault of the women, but they are all so scared of being raped or murdered you can't just go on a fun date like a hike or someplace out in nature because they are worried you're setting them up for a rape or murder out in nowhere. Though to me, that's the ideal place for a date because you can just relax away from everything and everyone, and really connect with the person you're with. Talk about everything and nothing and get to know them without distractions.
It is kind of hard to explain. I really would be open to anyone on physical though I do have my type you could say. I like women who are good people at heart. Women who give and take. I loose intrest in women fast if they are too demanding and entitled and want me to put all this effort into them and give nothing in return.
There are guys out there and women willing to be a doormat for someone. I am not one of them. I know there is women who I can treat like a queen who will also treat me like a king.
Yeah I do like stronger built women but again what is on the inside matters most
Mostly I'm thinking about how I feel when I'm with that person. Someone I'm happy with. Someone who's interested in me and my interests. Someone I can talk with, laugh with, and want to do activities together.
Sure, I want to be attracted to him too, but it's not like I have a list of things he has to be. I've been with a red-haired, blond, dark-haired, and everything in between - even someone who colored his hair crazy colors like purple and green.
I do know the kind of type I generally have a soft spot for, but doesn't mean someone who doesn't look like that would have no chance. What's most important is how I feel with them and the chemistry with the person.
I don't think I would e with someone with a very demanding job, they'd probably not have a lot of time to spend together and could be stressed as well.
I don’t know if Bill Gates is nice behind closed doors but I like the personality he shares in public. He is humble, honest, not afraid to work hard, appreciates people, is creative, insightful, happy, and not clouded by pride and ego.
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Strong Mind, Strong Character, Strong Morals, Strong Honesty and Strong Independence:
I strive for open and honest connection, too many guys and ladies out there are so fragile that they need their partner to fill every gap in thier lives. With open and honest communication at least the discussion can occur so each other understands each other and decide together how best to address any issues versus letting them go undisclosed until it is too late to understand or address them.
Hope this helps,
KIK
Black haired is a must, 5’5 to 5’8 in height (im 6’0) . If she wears heels and is as tall as me that would be the best case for me, but no worries if she still is shorter.
i always liked girls that were on the “skinnier” side. Not super skinny, but like being fit but still having thin arms and legs. I dont really like the thicc look. Gym is a must.
I like nails for some reason so if a girl has slightly long nails its even better.
That would be my type. She looks tall and fit. Apologies if i sound shallow. But that’s how i would prefer a girl physically.
In terms of personality, i would prefer if the girl was outgoing because i get shy and nervous around girls. a girl who doesn’t think that flirting with someone else while being in a relationship is normal (i have seen that a lot). Huge plus point if she never used online dating.
so yea im asking for a unicorn probably.
My ideal woman is someone who I can talk with, about a variety of things. I want a woman who is intelligent, compassionate, and also emotionally open. Good at communication. This combo marks someone I can form an intimate connection with. The type of intelligence I look for is emotional intelligence. I definitely have higher standards than most guys, but I view these, when coupled with some mutual interests willingness to make it work, and personal accountability as the key which would prevent something like a breakup or divorce. My parents divorced when I was about 5, and I’ve feared it. So in part I’ve spent my life learning from psychologists and studies what promotes the best relationships. I’ve spent none of that time actually looking for one.
egotistical arrogant non-narcissistic blue-eyed woman.
In the meantime, I would appreciate it if you could comment on my question.
Maybe because originally from my grandparents I’m from the mountains in the Balkans
I do like that typical mountain man with cowboy hat haha ~ I can’t describe it to you they come in many flavors blonde hair dark hair red hair. It’s not written in stone
1. A man who doesn't need to write perfect ideal details in MUST HAVES for a woman like 'skinny, blonde, long nails, perfect.. perfect.. perfect. those guys I avoid. Ladies, avoid those type. He's trouble. Grow up men. These are real women not sex play toys. You're not gonna get what you want unless you bring it to the table. Basic stuff like hygiene, job, education is fine and realistic.
2. I want the basics for a man. Hygiene , common sense, some what willing to learn , a stable job, isn't a total pervert and knows how to charm. Same for women.
s Tall or at least taller than me (I'm 5'5"), dark haired, tanned skin, fit. Funny, smart, open-minded, patient, humble, respectful and honest.
I have no preference when it comes to his job as long as it's decent and legal.
Physically, I like men with dark hair and dark features. Kind of a pretty boy. (vaguely latin or arab looking as well)
Personality wise, I would like someone who's funny (can banter a bit as well), smart, takes initiative, strong character, respectful and humble
Oh and I want him to display a little of sensitivity
Someone who is nerdy, frank, and kind. Someone who would make a good partner and parent. Physically, It varies. I guess skinny - chub, dark fluffy hair, big nose, and pretty eyes? 😊
Oh my gosh, definitely someone who is creative, easy going, playful, intelligent. I want to be on a date with someone who is only interested in having a great time and is confident enough to let things go where they may.
Guy around 6ft tall, 120 lbs, pale, straight healthy light brown hair. Ideally a nurse but with good work life balance.
A woman who's tall, slender, blonde, dorky and nerdy, intellectual, free thinking, kinda shy but really opens up when you get her talking about something she's passionate about, has a style thats a perfect blend of preppy and edgy.
INTJ MBTI personality type.
Fit and proportional in aesthetics.
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DoctorSex
A woman who has at least somewhat similar interests and values. Where we can have a good conversation and connect at least to some degree.
Petite, passionate about her interests, cute, nerdy, crafter, likes to work out to stay in shape, enjoys hiking, likes spooky stuff, enjoys competitive co-op gaming, is open minded, doesn't throw stuff when angry, soft spoken but can bolster her voice when angry, likes me for who i am and not just for what I can do in the bedroom, and is willing to talk about issues.
My ideal guy has blonde hair, blue eyes, he's funny, smart, sweet, likes music, is supportive of my dreams and hobbies the list goes on
Politically Conservative, sexually Liberal. Fair skin, long nails on hands and feet and long black hair. Nerdy/bad girl. Looks innocent, but really isn't
Very blonde, very light eyes
At the same hight or shorter than me
Strong built-up
Aggressive
Assertive
Manly 🔥
If these exist, I don't mind the rest.
Emotionally, socially, physically, scientifically smart
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