Dating: Do you have a racial preference and why?

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Valso · Accepted Answer

I don't have a racial preference. If I like the person (visually for the first impression but the most important is the personality; they may be the hottest person visually but if they're an a55hole, I most definitely won't like them), it doesn't matter what color their skin is - black, brown, blue, purple... The skin color doesn't matter to me at all. I'm beginning to think racism and generally hate for people aren't in my genes. The only hate I've ever had was for a girl and only because she broke my heart and even that hate didn't last long.

Years ago the local media (mostly) did its fair share of attempted brainwashing to make me hate African people and muslims, even gypsies. But first hand experience with all of them showed me the most of them are not even half as bad as the media presented them, so the media brainwashing failed. Sure, there are some a55holes among them but that's a small percentage and definitely not good enough reason to hate all of them.

mattdzz · Accepted Answer

Yea- I prefer dating Asian girls.

When I'm single, and on dating apps I'll swipe on every race- maybe not as much black girls unless they have more Caucasian-like features, thin, not "natural hair," etc. Because I live in the USA I'll end up matching with mostly white girls, who I'll date/ try to date. But it just seems that of the attractive girls I actually go out with, the ones who actually match my energy and create some chemistry are the Asian girls- which is why every girlfriend I've had in my adult life has been Asian.

I don't have a preference between White an Asian girls- I think they're both beautiful, and even probably would give an edge to white girls with light hair, and colored eyes. But as far as who I usually end up with, it's the Asian girls.

A_Bell · Accepted Answer

I don't really consider race a thing. I find lighter skin and smaller featured guys more attractive, as well as softer and strsighter hair.

As for cultures, i don't care, as long as it doesn't overpower your personality.

Basically, I like going out with melting pot Americans.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

White or Spanish, around 25-28. Thats it, I used to date black. But after hearing what “CYNTHIA G” has got to say. I wouldn’t dare!! LOL!

Summeroflove · Answer

I think that everyone has some kind of preference But honestly I find most races attractive. Depends more on the individual. Most people are mixed race at least to some degree

coachTanthony · Answer

I am an equal opportunity dater.

Apraxia · Answer

I have a racial preference cause I’m human and have a preference to things.

I like dark skin more than light. I like long hair. I also like red hair, n dark hair, I like green eyes, silver eyes, I like wavy hair, straight hair, curly. I just like certain things. Does that shit determine solely who I date fuck no, I’d still date someone that didn’t have my prefered racial profile, if I found I had liked them. Ain’t anything wrong with being attracted to looks same as personality. It’s being attracted to those things alone that’s wrong.

best quote ever: “ It's not about personality matrixals and charts - it's all about the bu-bumps in your heart! You can't stop the pumps and bumps! Pumps and bumps!”

~J T dogg

bamesjond0069 · Answer

I have a preference for whites, Hispanics, or native Americans. Any of those because they have no major racial stigmas. I'd expect to not be treated any differently for dating them nor to have kids who are discriminated against.

That being said I've dated both black and Asian girls before and I would again with the right girl. It just introduces more problems if it's serious. It wouldn't scare me away If the girl was awesome but I'm not going to invite that trouble into my life. But like I wouldn't date a black woman into BLM. Total deal breaker. And I'd be worried if we had kids they might get sucked into that bullshit and turn into retarded losers. Where I'm less worried if I had non black kids. Same with Asian they have some racial issues too in America and I'd rather just continue to not have to worry about that stuff ideally.

menina · Answer

I wouldn't call it a preference, it's more like something I can't control. It just happens.

Usually, I'm more attracted to white guys, and I don't know why. But I'm open to date any man who loves me, respects me and of course who is single and available.

VanillaSalt · Answer

I dont date black unless they get the chance to show me their not what I expect. I prefer Asians because how short they tend to be but rather then races for the sake of race it seems traits that consistent within a race is the real reason I date by race.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm probably going to get hate on this. I find almost all races attractive but I will only date white guys because I know my life will be less difficult. Interracial relationships are hard from everyone's racism. I just don't have the patience or the balls to do it and ignore all the hate and shit I'll get. by the way I'm white. I'd rather be invisible so I'll only date and marry a white guy.

Physics-Man · Answer

East Asian and East Asian/Southeast Asian & European Mix is my highest preference.

East & Southeast Asian Mix is my 2nd.

Southeast Asian is my 3rd.

White or Mestiza/Latina is my 4th.

Black African and everything else is my 5th.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Nah, no preference.  My "type" so far has mostly been fulfilled by black men though.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m not dating Asians - Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese, Korean, etc. no thank you. These girls are weird and something is wrong in their heads from my experiences with them. It’s like they enjoy being abused and mistreated and having this warped idea of life.

MementoMori_ · Answer

I'm white. When I was younger I was only attracted to white girls. Now I am only attracted to girls who are not white. My tastes changed. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Not really, no. Whoever I clicked with and found physically attractive were women I liked. Native American, Hispanic, Caucasian, Asian, Biracial, Black, etc.

Nomina · Answer

Yes, I do. I just love the skin contrast. And I think white men are more attractive in general.

treetreena · Answer

I can’t date a person who looks like they can be my brother… I have never dated my own race. The guy has to look different than me.

Talldutchie · Answer

For me, no I do not. My man is black, however I can see beauty in any race! Both when it comes to men and women.

cryscrys1 · Answer

I like European guys but “white” Americans come close to it since genes can't help it they gotta show somehow

sheikalana · Answer

All my life since I was very young I always tended to gravitate towards black people. I've dated other ethnicities but I always go back to what I'm comfortable with.

JustiReno · Answer

Asian, Latina, or mixed black white My girlfriend is Thai but I don’t really think of her ethnic, she might as well be a Jewish girl from LA she pretty modern chic

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Kind of, but it's solely based off of looks, not due to culture, as aesthetically, I'm more attracted to girls from certain cultures.

lululemonangel45 · Answer

naaaah preferences are silly there are hot people in every race - i go by your values, how you treat me + other people and personality

Biancam13 · Answer

I don't gaf as long as they are physically attractive to me.

DancingQueen16 · Answer

For some reason I've always had a thing for white boys with blonde hair and blue eyes I don't really know why though

Brandi555 · Answer

Race isn’t a factor. It’s who ever I’m attracted to.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

I like most different cultures and ethnicities I like dating people of different backgrounds.

JessicaEarl · Answer

I don’t have a conscious one that’s deliberate, but I do have preferences according to what attracts me

msc545 · Answer

Caucasian or Latina or Asian. Although I find black women incredibly charming and fun to be with, I am just not physically attracted to them, sadly. They are terrific as friends and people to work with.

Kreneman · Answer

I love women and nowadays, women are very attractive, no matter what color or culture race they're. I am currently engaged to one right now.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Not really… I tend to prefer brown skin because I find it more interesting, but it’s not a strong preference.

Blackcupcake · Answer

I don’t. why? well, it just never mattered to me… I’ve dated a couple of different races, and I’ve enjoyed them all in their own special way

mandyfire98 · Answer

No racial preference because there are attractive people in every race.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Percentage wise it's white but I've been attracted to people of all races. There are simply more attractive white people here.

Starwitch23 · Answer

I prefer dating Indian guys because we have same values. That's why.

sassy_receptor · Answer

i prefer white men because i find them most attractive physically and mentally

Berethor · Answer

I have a racial preferences, because of compatibility and some races are more attractive.

simptopia · Answer

honestly I don't have a racial preference when it comes to attraction but I would be quicker to find dating chemistry with my own race due to us having a similar enough experience in the world

Vegasrunner · Answer

I don't discriminate, beautiful woman come in all colors however my hierarchy goes. 1. White blond 2. Puerto Rican 3. Brazilian 4. White Brunette 5. Native American

Rapport · Answer

Usually I'd say no, but at this point I feel like I do because of culture reasons. From my experience it's just so much easier to be "with your own kind" rather than any other race.

LiamSawyer · Answer

Not really a specific preference , I date white, black or Asian chicks.

BJP21 · Answer

I have three rules... Single, Available, Compatible. Color or race don't matter.

Agent_Elflord · Answer

I like white women the most, though I’m not against interracial relationships, especially since I’m mixed myself.

Twalli · Answer

I think I may have a slight Asian preference. I find a higher percentage of Asian women attractive than women of other races. I don't really consider it when I choose who I want to date though.

LovingJo · Answer

Yes, I do, but it's largely based on my "childhood"/adolescent years!!

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

I’m not racist. I ain’t no racist, bra! Shiver me timbers, all them lasses who have a groovy good heart please me eye!

Luopio27 · Answer

Blonds are just too pretty not to have a preference. Im black and refuse to date other races except whites.

Anonymous · Answer

I feel like I’m attracted to white people (including biracial people), sometimes Asian people but I think that’s because I really love Caucasian facial features. I still think other races are good looking though and who knows what could happen.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes. I just always feel much more comfortable being with my own latina sisters and being with my own community of people.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Doesn't matter. However I have a thing for Asian women though hehe

Zolly99999 · Answer

No I do not.. I don't care where she is from.. if I'm into her then I'm in to her.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Hmm, I guess I usually go for White, Asians and Latinas.

Hardworkingguy · Answer

Well if I could choose I'd love to try a relationship with a black girl. They seem attractive in many ways

RandomGuy1032 · Answer

Like a lot of guys I tend to find more Asian girls attractive than oher races. But I prefer a good looking black girl

LordOfThePines · Answer

No, there is no point to that. Skin color means absolutely nothing, it is just melanin levels.

Anonymous · Answer

Anything but black because it makes my mom mad lol she's like you can only date a black man. like who says that

Counterclocking · Answer

I only find women of my own race attractive (white).

Philyouup · Answer

i’d have to say perhaps i do, but i’d find i would date anyone that was a sweet and kind.

larry69 · Answer

Latina, and White and Native American women. It's what I am attracted to.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I go by personality, eyes, smile, breasts, and butt in that order.

dolemite89 · Answer

i like brown girls 😂 latinas, middle eastern/indian, Asian etc. I still like white girls but they’re def not my fave.

TallAnon · Answer

Yes, mainly because some races just look hotter to me on average

BLP11520 · Answer

I do and it is private. Do not hate any race, women are beautiful skin color means nothing.

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