What are your racial preferences in dating?

[CubsterShura]

Preference ≠ racism.

I am open to dating any man from any race as what matters to me the most is how he is as a person. But if I am asked what would be my top preference then I'd say East Asian, Central Asian and Mixed. Interestingly, I least prefer South Asian despite being South Asian myself. I have my own reasons for that.

Mention your race then mention your racial preference. I am curious after watching this video lol, nothing serious.

[simonqq]

I like basically all kinds but I'm slightly more interested in middle eastern, North African and eastern European.

I'm from Sweden myself. A side note, I kinda don't fancy Swedish girls so much because my connection to 99% of them is so off. They don't really like me either so doesn't matter I guess.

[CubsterShura]

Ahahaha guys around me don't like me either but someone dudes online, from other races tend to compliment me a lot so if guess I'm good too 😂

[simonqq]

Well some including my mom thinks girls don't like me because I can see right through them and their weaknesses.

Girls from Ukraine and Russia have liked me a lot but I think it's easier to begin liking someone from a far.

Also you look cute and I haven't seen anything negative in your posts. I don't think you are bad :)

[LittleBird_]

I am Asian/middle Eastern and I think Swedish girls look better than us hahaha.

[CubsterShura]

Could be.

And don't be fooled I'm like the bitchiest lasagna alive 😂 they say that 0K is the coldest temperature possible and I somehow managed to get below that with my coldness.

[simonqq]

There are many beautiful for sure but I'm weak for dark hair and the face shapes of Eastern European or ME girls just resonates with me. Also it just seems to be something special with their eyes.

The main problem is that I just can't connect with Swedish girls at all. Especially my age, many are still in an attention seeking and insecure phase and act someone they are not or they are acting as if they are better than everyone else. This doesn't apply to all but it's quite common. I want a girl I can be real with and feel good talking with.

[CubsterShura]

I feel the same with South Asian boys. I don't know what's with all these mothers in SA pampering their sons till death. I've seen plenty marriages ruin because mother in law is abusive but husband does nothing about it.

[simonqq]

@CubsterShura haha well at least you are honest :)

I see you are one of the 9 year olds too😄

Well I'm pretty warm so it balances out :)

[simonqq]

Understand that, here in Sweden that isn't the problem. Parents doesn't let their parents control their own children. It's a different culture here.

[CubsterShura]

What's with the 9 year old mister? I'm quite happy in the relationship that I'm in now.

[simonqq]

Haha you talked about bitch lasagna, I only heard that from pewdiepie so assumed you watched him.

Glad to hear that :)

[CubsterShura]

I heard that from other people who watch PewDiePie lol 😂 apparently its definition fits me perfectly.

[OlderAndWiser]

I am Caucasian and I have dated mostly other Caucasian females. I have also dated Asian, Indian, and Hispanic women. My current girlfriend is native American Indian. I have never dated a black woman and I have never felt attracted to them.

[CubsterShura]

Are you open to dating Black women?

[OlderAndWiser]

Where I live, black women do not just look different. The overwhelming majority of black people in the Southern US have a different culture that is quite different from my culture. My lack of attraction extends beyond physical differences. Yes, I can imagine meeting a black woman who is a part of my culture and I don' know how I would feel under such circumstances. All I know is that I have never met a black woman who I wanted to date.

[CubsterShura]

I understand. I honestly don't prefer South Asian men because I find majority of South Asian households very problematic. Especially with women that pamper their sons till death. I've seen many of these pampered guys ruin marriages by their lack of personality and needing their mother for everything.

[Allie_Oops]

I'm not opposed to dating anyone because of their race. If I'm not attracted to you then I'm not. I'm black but that doesn't mean I find all black men attractive. Their are cute white guys and ugly ones, physically and personality wise.

Religion is more of the dealbreaker for me.

[CubsterShura]

I don't get into relationship with people from other religion either

[SkyPink28]

I find myself to be most attracted to East/South East Asians. I could find attractive guys in every race, but because of some cultural clash, I may not be looking forward to starting a relationship with them.

[CubsterShura]

For me, it is their mindset, culture and upbringing that's more important than their race or genes/appearance blah blah. Like I said I'm open to dating anyone but the top ones I listed are just because I find these group of men the most attractive 😂 don't get me wrong when I say that I'm dating a Middle Eastern guy, like I said it's about the person, and I love him a lot.

[SkyPink28]

I totally get what you mean! Haha, I guess we're alike!

[CubsterShura]

Seems so. People get triggered when they hear I preference men of my race the least but what else would I want when I grew up seeing so many marriages in my family turn shitty because of abusive husbands and/or in-laws?

[CubsterShura]

Prefer*

[SkyPink28]

Hmm, they shouldn't interfere with your preferences. But good luck with your future partner!

[CubsterShura]

Present partner, you mean. Thanks ❤️ I hope you can find your soulmate too!

[jennifer_bloom]

I don't have a racial preference and I prefer non-Chinese races even though I'm Chinese but I might marry a Chinese man because I don't want a bi-racial baby or a baby that doesn't look like its my child.

[FrostyDaHoMan]

Be careful the PC police will be after you for that comment.

[amarahorrorstory]

If I like you, I like you. I could never skip out on someone over something like race. Cultural barriers are one, but I wouldn't limit myself and say "I don't like Asian guys" cause... maybe I just haven't met THAT Asian guy. Nothing is off the table.

[CubsterShura]

Of course, I am open to dating anyone from any race as well as long as we have similar mindset. But one could still have a preference that's mainly my question.

[amarahorrorstory]

Yeah true, I just think limiting yourself to only certain races is weird, you never know who you'd get along with/have chemistry with, if you're basing it off of race alone. But cultural barriers and opinions do play a factor. I've dated mostly white guys, because there are very few black people where I live that I'm not related too. Explaining 'black people things' to them gets old.

[CubsterShura]

Whatever rocks your boat, girl.

[loveslongnails]

I don't have any racial preferences as long as I find the woman attractive. I have other preferences though. I won't date a follower of Islam. I won't date a political extremist or a Trump supporter. I won't date anyone with poor hygiene, and I won't date anyone who only wants "missionary" sex. :)

[CubsterShura]

"I won't date a follower of Islam." You're well aware that the asker is a follower of Islam, right?

JK, I wouldn't be with someone that's non-Muslim either.

[loveslongnails]

I didn't look to see who the asker was, but yes, I know you wouldn't date a non-Muslim.

[Brutus977]

Only women of european ancestry do it for me. I've had sex with white, black, Asians and latinas but I can only date white girls. It's not skin tone. It's just cultural differences. I find it hard to relate to their families and peers. I can't even date white girls from lower socioeconomic backgrounds. I guess just I want my potential offspring to have the same/similar upbringing I did.

[Ephemera1]

People of color is a preference but not a must. That includes South Asian, North African, Middle Eastern, etc.

Oddly enough, white women aren't a fan of me as much as I'm not a fan of them. Nature works in a funny way

[CubsterShura]

Ahahaha, good for you.

[desidoll]

I'm Indian and my first preference is Arab, followed by White. My fiance is white. I have dated many races except for black guys, but that is because there are not many of them here.

[CubsterShura]

I'm dating a Middle Eastern guy now. I remember telling him at his face that I don't prefer Middle Eastern guys way before we got into a relationship 😂

[desidoll]

Oh wow where is he from? Haha preference can change anyway especially if their personality attracts us.

[HomoFuge]

I am South Asian and I am most attracted to South Asian guys and Middle Eastern guys. Unfortunately, so many South Asian guys are obsessed with banging white girls.

[CubsterShura]

I find majority of South Asian households very problematic so I would only be with a South Asian guy if he isn't like the majority.

[HomoFuge]

I think it depends on the person. I personally find it easier to date someone from a similar culture.

[CubsterShura]

Because I wouldn't be with someone outside of religion, we would both be having a lot in common regardless of difference in ethnicity and culture, so I'm good

[HomoFuge]

What religion do you follow?

[CubsterShura]

Islam.

[Kipperbo1]

I am attracted to some guys of every race. I look more for facial features I like than what color their skin is. I’m white, my boyfriend rn is Chinese

[CubsterShura]

I look more into culture/upbringing.

[Kipperbo1]

That doesn’t bother me either. My boyfriend was raised very different than me but I don’t see that as an issue.

[CubsterShura]

I wouldn't be able to stay under the same roof with a man who has been different upbringing, values and mindset than mine. Imagine the conflict we are gonna have when bringing up the children.

[Kipperbo1]

He has the same values as me. He doesn’t have the same values as his parents.

[CubsterShura]

That's alright depending on how he deals with his family.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Every race aside from East/SE Asian and black.
But you people are my number 1, but you're difficult to snag. LOL
I've had most luck with Latinas though.

[CubsterShura]

We're #1 but difficult to snag what do you mean?

I mean, Asian women are the most picky and selective but that's because we take marriages/children/family and such traditional values more seriously. It's nothing bad 🤷

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Your parents won't let you talk to boys
Especially white boys

[CubsterShura]

Of course but if my parents didn't approve of the guy that I wanna marry I'd marry him secretly anyway 🤷 in a seriousness, South Asian parents no more bother about it some time after marriage and they get rid of all their grudges especially after having kids.

[linaashxx]

Actually were not that difficult, haha. I’ve moved away from my parents I live on my own and free to date whoever I want- even caucasian men.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

@linaashxx Oh, it's you. I saw on you on another post. I didn't know you were Indian.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

But yeah, I was on a tour a few weeks ago. There was this Indian girl, her parents wouldn't let her talk to me.
And once I was talking to Punjabi girl in Canada and her brother drove by and gave me a dirty look and she quickly rushed home,

[CubsterShura]

Mainly because they are afraid that the man would 'use' her with wrong intentions and they don't take relationships and marriages seriously. Honestly, I'd even marry a White man if we share the same values. 🤷

[linaashxx]

Oh no I’m not Indian im Asian but I’m still a little confused whether Afghans are part of the Middle East or Asia.

[linaashxx]

Or even Persia. (But it’s not a continent) lol I usually prefer Persian anyway, that is more correct to me anyway. I think Afghanistan is part of Asia so. Do remind me if I’m wrong lol

[ZeussLightningBolt]

@linaashxx OH WOW! Never would have guessed Afghan. Persian, maybe.
Geographically, Afghanistan belongs to South Asia.
Iran still belongs to Middle East.
Persian girls are also nice.
But I'm guessing you don't live in Afghanistan

[linaashxx]

Oh god no! I wouldn’t have been on this site if I was. Haha. Afghanistan has many many people with different ethnicities. My ancestors are Tajik and they’d Persian. Afghans are part of Persia still as we speak the same language as Tajiks, Iranians and few others that I can remember. So yes I’m Persian and I guess Asian too 😂

[linaashxx]

Apologise for my poor grammar but I’m doing my makeup 💄

[ZeussLightningBolt]

OMG! LOL At least you're not driving.
Where do you live?

Cool. Tajik girls are also beautiful, but you don't look like a Tajik.
Are you Muslim?

[CubsterShura]

@linaashxx you definitely are Asian as you are from Asia continent. But more of Central or West Asian I guess.

Well you do sound like you are Persian, which I believe is still Middle-eastern.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

That's why I don't like this term "Asian"
In the US it is used to refer to people from East Asia and Southeast Asia only, but anyone from the Asian continent is technically Asian.

[CubsterShura]

True. Central Asians are always forgotten even though they are such beautiful people!

[linaashxx]

Oh I heard from Afghans that I look Tajik, compared to others. I definitely do not look pashtoon (2nd biggest ethnicity in Afg).

I don’t really consider myself Muslim no. I don’t pray or follow the ‘rules’ 😂

[ZeussLightningBolt]

@linaashxx Really? Tajiks are more fair skinned and have east Asian features. They also have unibrow, because men find it attractive.
Yeah, Central Asian girls are stunning. Uyghur girls are also gorgeous!

So you're a "non-practicing Muslim" LOL

[linaashxx]

I look different in pictures lol!
I do kind of have a unibrow but I take my eyebrows so a guy will never see that hideous thing. :-)

[ZeussLightningBolt]

@linaashxx Are you serious? LOL Yeah, most guys don't like that. Is that the only pic you have of yourself?

[linaashxx]

Looool not entirely different. I still have the same face of course.

I do have more pictures but I’m going to take some today cause I haven’t taken some in months!

[ZeussLightningBolt]

@linaashxx LOL. Okay

[linaashxx]

What’s your ethnicity?

[ZeussLightningBolt]

@linaashxx Polish

[linaashxx]

Oh I thought you were American 😂

[ZeussLightningBolt]

@linaashxx I AM. But American isn't an ethnicity.

[linaashxx]

Fck 🤦🏻‍♀️

But yeah you should try an Asian girl :)!

[linaashxx]

By the way, where did you think I was from?

[ZeussLightningBolt]

@linaashxx Why fuck? Did you want a Polish guy? I wanna try EVERY race to be honest. LOL
I thought you were from Eastern Europe. Like Romania or Bulgaria. LOL

[LittleBird_]

I find mostly white then Asian guys attractive in general, although I have seen good looking guys in every race.

[CubsterShura]

There are good looking people in every race 😍

[LastRaven]

I am Caucasian and I am open to dating any girl that I find attractive and have an interest in; that being said, I have noticed Asian girls tend to catch my eye more.

[CubsterShura]

I assume you mean East Asian?

[LastRaven]

I want to say East, South, Southeast. I will admit in my area it is mostly Caucasian and so distinguishing the facial features of different groups can be a struggle.

Currently, there is a girl who works at the coffee shop I go to read at who is really attractive to me and I want to say she is Chinese but I could be wrong.

All I know is despite being ex military, experiencing what is like to be under fire and having to remain level headed during that and recovering from depression/anxiety issues, a petite girl makes me nervous beyond my comprehension and I never thought I would feel that again.

[CubsterShura]

Ok so petite is like an Asian thing so I get it now 😂 I thought you're into facial features and stuff.

[LastRaven]

I tend to like petite, brunettes with brown eyes; so that may have something to do with it.

However, the girl in question does have a cute face, she has a cute everything actually and she could be pouring a drink, that's cute too.

It actually concerns me with how cute I perceive her and makes me feel like a creep, also I do go there to actually read and I end up reading a bit and then glancing at her; I hope the feeling fades, I think she could get a better looking guy or someone less broken emotionally than me.

[CubsterShura]

The girl in question?

[LastRaven]

The girl at the coffee shop.

[CubsterShura]

Uh yeah Chinese girls are really cute. I envy how young they look. When I was 15 I met this Chinese woman who was a mother of four and I would look way older when I stood beside her lol, she still looked so young.

[LastRaven]

Yeah, it sucks when you do not look your age, I am shorter, 5'8" and since I am not as heavy set as many American men in my area, I also look like a kid in stature but because I shave my head, I look older to some extent as well. Does not help with the confidence when talking to girls.

[CubsterShura]

It doesn't help to be a young girl and look mature either, believe me. Even a week didn't pass since I turned 18 but it's not fun to deal with creepy old pedo men.

[LastRaven]

Whenever a guy tells me women have it easier, I always remind them that women have to deal with a lot harassment from all the creepy guys in the world.

A huge problem is when a guy is being creepy but they think they arre being a 'nice' guy.

[CubsterShura]

Everyone things that they are nice, but the problem is in people not accepting their own flaws that they have to work on, or thinking that the world revolves around them.

[LastRaven]

Yeah, a lot of people tend to think they are what is ideal.

I am 155 lbs and I am told I am not a real man; guess not since I don't guzzle beer and avoid wrapping everything in bacon.

I ride motorcycles, you see a lot of guys replace their exhaust to shed 10 lbs when they could easily shed more by losing some weight; I went from being 260 to 155 when I decided I want to ride.

[CubsterShura]

Lol a real man doesn't shame others on superficial stuff. You do you

[LastRaven]

I usually just tell people to leave me alone and ignore them; people who go around harassing people simply want validation that they are superior or have the better preferences and are insecure; I like what I like, I know people may not like what I like, so I leave people to like what they like.

[CubsterShura]

Excellent!

[LastRaven]

Now I have to figure out if I have chance with coffee shop girl and if I do, how to approach the situation without being a creep or putting her on the spot.

She shouldn't be put in a comprising position because she's attractive and I happen to be crushing on her, not her fault if she isn't feeling it.

[CubsterShura]

You can figure it out some way.

[LastRaven]

Trying not to get my hopes up, she's really cute and probably could find a cuter guy.

[CubsterShura]

She might as well find you the cutest

[LastRaven]

I'm not the best looking guy and my luck with girls is not the best; I honestly had not really thought about dating or had been interested in a girl for a while.

So, shocked to feel like this; feel like I was caught off guard.

[CubsterShura]

Hello mister. I used to feel the exact same once. I am dark-skinned which is ready very undesirable where I live, but on top of that I have vitiligo which people hate a bit too much in here. For almost entire school life of mine I got bullied and isolated and excluded. I grew up believing I have nothing good in me and I'll never attract a good man.

But I'm in a relationship with the most amazing guy on earth for a year now.

I think patience is key. 😊 I know a woman who got married at age 33. And I'm from a place where a woman is 'too old' to marry if she is past 26.

[LastRaven]

Similar circumstances, happy to hear you found someone.

The issue is, as the guy, we usually have to initiate the interactions and I have a hard time reading girls when it comes to romance; I would hate to come off as creepy.

Just not sure how to approach her and she is at work when I see her, I would hate to cause an issue for her.

I'm not expecting anything to come of it; if I come up with something or see anything that gives me an indicator that she could be interested, then I would go for it.

Until then, I'll just have to try to focus on my programming/statistics textbooks while trying not to stare at her like a creep.

[CubsterShura]

I know a 5'4" guy who got asked out by a girl.

So there's still hope.

[LastRaven]

There is always hope; it may not come in the form you wanted or expected.

I have found out, the hard way, not to invest my self worth in someone else.

There's always something for me to learn out there, there are roads I can drive or ride down and experience for myself, there is more to life than just dating.

Would I like to have someone to share experiences with, would it be awesome to have a cute girl in my life, yeah; if it happens, it happens.

If not, who knows what or who else I will find.

[Xx420xxDANKOxx420xX]

Im extremely scandinavian. And prefer Scandinavian girls. I might get a girlfriend from another race, but I'm 99% sure my wife will be scandinavian or northern european.

A thing about racemixing:
Humans have evolved to best fit the people who they evolved along side with. So that means that whites have evolved fittingly together with whites, and so with blacks and Asians. After knowing this, mixing up races seems like it will take away some good stuff evolution has given us.

[CubsterShura]

Definitely we are best adapted to our own region but as long as it is possible to have healthy babies with other races, variation is not a bad thing.

[Xx420xxDANKOxx420xX]

But mixed babies have increased risks of bad stuff. But don't trust me. Check out the science if you bother.

[Xx420xxDANKOxx420xX]

Im only taking the word from a reliable guy on youtube, so... I'm not certain about the science stuff

[Xx420xxDANKOxx420xX]

A good example of racemixing is dogs.
Dogs are from so different races, because they have evolved separately. They fit together together well with their own races, but tiny dogs and big dogs doesn't always go nicely together. I guess its the same with people, but I'm keeping in mind that people are not dogs.
And yes, dogs from different races can have babies.

[CubsterShura]

When other species differentiate so much that they can't reproduce healthy fertile offspring anymore or it comes with extreme difficulties then yes you can't mix then but humans have differentiated that much.

[MackToday]

White, I like white women, particularly Scottish and Irish girls as that is a large part of my heritage and it is genetic and natural for me to be attracted to them. Your race and tribe are a big part of what you are, their survival is very important because you're evolved to live with your racial brothers. I won't race mix, period.

[CubsterShura]

Preserving culture is great, but there's nothing wrong with mix race either 🤷

[MackToday]

Yes there is and mixing race also mixes and destroys culture.
The bottom line is race mixing is unnatural.
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[CubsterShura]

I've seen enough mix race people in my life to know that upbringing matters a lot. I'm fully Bengali but I've seen mix of Bengali and Black who had some isolation due to her environment but I also saw Bengali and Japanese mix kids who are like, having the best of both worlds. Where I live Bengali is majority and I still faced bullying and I still face mental health issues.

Which is why good parenting is the most important. 😊

[MackToday]

Good parenting is important but the preservation of race and culture is also important to provide a civilization to sustain children and families. Would you want your people to be overwhelmed by another culture and disappear? To never meet another person like yourself and those you grew up with? To see all things Bengali disappear forever to be replaced by some African or Chinese culture and race for instance?

[CubsterShura]

Very hypothetical question. For Bengali people having one of the largest population on Earth I don't even think that it's possible.

[MackToday]

It is possible if your culture is degraded. First your birth rate drops while theirs increases, existing members of your culture stop acting like Bengalis they're no longer loyal to that or interested in it. Then you watch your culture disappear and eventually your race of people. Slowly things just began to look different. Every existing member of your race will die in a few decades if over half have children by another race, the next generation will be only those who stayed Bengali. The entire rest of your country will be disloyal strangers. It can happen in the blink of an eye.

[CubsterShura]

Culture is always changing. The Bengali culture isn't the same now as it was a century ago. So what's the big deal in this?

Don't get me wrong, I'm very serious about my culture and even want my kids to grow up with it regardless of the race of their father. I've seen mixed kids embrace both sides of their culture and having no problem with it. Do you even have any idea how large a population of 200+ million people is? It won't go extinct so easily.

[MackToday]

Once the culture turns into something else that did not come from it, it's extinct.

[ANK360]

I prefer White Blondies , burnettes mostly from EU/UK or Latina/Spanish i gave up on indians , plus middle eastern won't fit due to religious issues and i am quite good around them so its fine with me

[linaashxx]

Not all of Middle Eastern girls have religious issues. I’ve met some who’ve become atheists.

[ANK360]

@linaashxx you got some one around to talk to? hhaha i would be glad :P

[CubsterShura]

I'm also pretty sure there are many Middle eastern women who are not very religious. Maybe search on dating websites?

[ANK360]

AT AGE OF 21 nah , to early i guess

[agermanguy]

I have no preferences, though from experience (not dating, just normal human interaction) I have the impression that Russian/ eastern European girls seem to be more arrogant/demanding, but I try to keep an open mind before any interaction.

[CubsterShura]

But those girls are lovely! I made some friends from there and they were beautiful and very nice.

[agermanguy]

Yeah, like I said I try to keep an open mind. I try to see everyone as an individual, but it can be hard not to think in stereotypes because thats just how our brains work. I know other girls from eastern Europe who are really nice and smart, but just a handful of bad experiences can leave a strong impression.

[Levin]

The paler the better. I like Norwegian and Swedish girls. But honestly, I'll date anyone :)

[CubsterShura]

The paler the better? How racist and colonial.

Jk, preference≠discrimination.

[Levin]

We Brits are very racist and colonial, yes :)

Anyway, every time I tried to date a 'brown' girl, it was always I couldn't, because of her religion and her culture.

[CubsterShura]

Oh ok.

[linaashxx]

I’m Persian 🐺
I don’t really care about race, I’ve met an extremely good looking Indian man. I’ve met a great looking black guy, in all honesty, I don’t think I have a preference.

[simonqq]

Persians in my opinion has some insanely beautiful women. Every ethnicity has beautiful women but Persians just seem like so many are on a goddess level 😄 At least in my eyes.

[linaashxx]

Oh, why thank you. I’m flattered 😊

[Wharvey98]

I’m a white dude as I’m sure you can see from my profile pic. I don’t really have and kind of preference for race although I do find many Eastern European and Grecian women particularly attractive.

[FunkyMonkee]

I prefer humans. Now, I HEAR that some aliens look just like us so, if I happen to get involved with one and don't know they're alien I guess there are SOME aliens I'd be into, too but, mostly, I'm into humans.

[Pink2000]

I like black men. I like Hispanic men. I don’t like white guys anymore.

[Pink2000]

That changed

[CubsterShura]

So did I! I'm actually starting to appreciate dating my own kind now lol

[Pink2000]

Lol. It’s funny how as we get older our preferences change

[CubsterShura]

Indeed