Asking a guy who you slept with if any of his guy friends are single?

[Aphrodite-Venusx]

I had a hookup with a man a long time ago and I want to ask him if any of his guy friends are single. Because I think I would like the type of friends he has. I've never actually met any of his friends. But I've seen his friends on his Facebook. And they seem like the kind of people I'd like.

I would ask him if I could hang out with him and his friends but I doubt he'd be down for that.

I have been doing online dating (I'm tired of it) and I actually told this guy I've been out on a date. So he knows I'm dating men. I really don't see what the problem is.

[CanadianLearner]

How secure is he, and how close is he to his friends?

If he is secure, and not in a scarcity mindset (i. e., really wants/needs you again), then he might be willing.

If he is close to his friends, then he might want to be their wingman of sorts.

But, this question might be hurtful to him.

Imagine the roles were reversed, and maybe you wanted to hook up with him again, or more.
He contacts you, and asks you to introduce him to some of your lady friends.
How would feel?

[JPresidente]

If you're not in a real relationship with him, I don't see any problem in asking him about his friends. Just be forewarned that he may tell his friends about what happened between the two of you.

[Guy13]

Aphrodite love queen. You are brave ⁉️

[Aphrodite-Venusx]

How is it brave?

[Guy13]

Asking a guy you were with about one of his friends seems brace to me. I must be very conservative 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Twalli]

It might a bit awkward to ask a hookup to essentially set you up with his friends, espcailly as you never actually met.