Why do people like to downplay the importance of looks?

[Anonymous]

People always bring up personality as the big reason a lot of guys fail in the dating world. That's just the politically correct answer people like to give. But can we acknowledge that a lot of guys are just physically unattractive and won't be given a time a day if they're not passing that forest step? Obviously personality matters but its the last part that matters. The first is being physically attractive. Personality isn't always the reason a guy fails with women. But it's always the go to

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I'm convinced a lot of you are just npc's. Repeating the same stuff without actually thinking about what was said.

[Heolurt]

It's because a lot of people especially females like to give off the illusion that they have substance and not just wanting what looks best.

[Berethor]

Most people would not even want to know someone who is ugly, so yea looks are important.

[Asker]

And there's nothing wrong with that. But a lot of people are always bringing up personality like come on lol npcs 😂

[Avicenna]

Because looks really aren't everything. What do you think happens if a woman is highly attracted to you, approaches, starts a convo and you get embarrassed and can't even hold a convo due to nervousness? 999 times out of 1000, you're finished.

[NathanDavis]

I can already tell your personality sucks... plenty of excuses, insecurity and self-pity, most people don't want to come near any of that, now is this nice to point out? probably not...

so I will "politically correct" instead... looks are not the most important thing and not the only one thing... lol

[Asker]

I didn't say they're the most important thing but they do start everything

[NathanDavis]

your insecurity would kill any chance before anything even starts...

body language, demeanor, the way you carry yourself around others, and all that...

that's the true repellent, not just "the looks"

[Asker]

How is it an insecurity? Bro the first thing most people notice are your looks. If that passes then attitude and personality matter next. Looks are the first 50, persnllosry is the 2nd 50

[NathanDavis]

let me guess... you never had a girlfriend, or friends that were girls... right?

[Asker]

Let me guess you ran out of other things to ask so this is the only one left

[NathanDavis]

thought so... lmao

you can't even get yourself to say it

[NathanDavis]

is not funny though... it's rather sad

that's why people rather go with "politically correct" instead of telling you things as they are really, it just doesn't sound nice

[Asker]

Alright then i dont have to work out anymore. I can get fat with big gut and just hope that my attitude and personality will attract a girl

[NathanDavis]

but your attitude is worse than the personality you don't even have so... yes, you first should work out on that

[Asker]

You wouldn't know that seeing s random person on the street. All you to go based on is looks for now

[NathanDavis]

well, that only goes on to show that you also lack proper social skills and insight...

but how about this, when was the last time you considered giving a chance to a girl that you do not find physically attractive, or how many times have you done that before?

[Asker]

I've never done it. I didn't find them attractive

[NathanDavis]

not... surprised

[Asker]

Im not gonna get to know someone i dont find attractive when it comes to to looking for relationship. Most human beings operate this way 😂

[NathanDavis]

you come here to imply that women would be the superficial ones... just because they would be the very same thing you do

and you see them as the problem, but not yourself? lol

people with shitty personalities do exactly what you do, so go figure...

[Asker]

I came here implying that men get rejected for their looks (which is fine) and that looks are the first thing that matters then everything else afterward

[NathanDavis]

no, that was your statement...

the implied message was the usual whining about "women being/doing this or that"

basically, and as they say... you're "projecting" your resentment against the very thing you do yourself in the first place

[Asker]

Nope. I said that people downplay looks being a reason people get rejected and just say it's personality but most people don't give a person a chance to show personality if the looks aren't there first. Its human nature. Reread what i wrote upstairs my guy

[NathanDavis]

and you already that both your attitude and your personality are fugly... way worse than any bad looks

[Asker]

Lol okay. No one judges on looks apparently. Just attitude and personality

[NathanDavis]

definitely not in the way you claim based on your evident lack of experience...

living life through memes you find on social media and fringe forums is not the same as the actual real life and experience out there

[Asker]

It doesn't take a genius to know that the first thing human beings look at before anything else is looks. Then again for the 100th time everything else matters after. I don't know why people can't comprehend this or deny this. But intrinsically most human beings do this

[NathanDavis]

not that this would ever matter to you because you're so lost in your fixation but... two of the greatest people I've met in life (and yes, they happened to be girls I had something with) I met them at party/reunions and although we met in person,, I did not actually see them first than anything else,

I heard them first, I did hear their voice, the way they would sound while speaking to other people there, the things they would say and talk about, how they would go about it, their laughter, their pauses... there was so many details that got me attracted instantly and of course very interested on them

I was already into them, before I ever saw their looks in the first place and when I finally took the time to actually see who they were, because I wanted to know more about them, yeah, they happened to be attractive looking as well

actually, a third girl one time, did approach me from behind while I was sitting at a desk and busy on a desktop, and she just started to pretty much talk to my ear while leaning forward, did I freak out and turned around to see who she was and why the hell is she coming at me like that? no lol... I didn't flinch I just kept going with that conversation she started and, on what she started it... couple of minutes later... as she walked away, and I finally turned around, coincidentally, yes... very attractive looking

[NathanDavis]

and it also worked the other way around... a few girls here and there, would hear me talk or say things, or make others laugh during parties, reunions or whatever... and I could usually tell when I noticed that for some reason she was interested, intrigued or just check out, "who is this guy... I want to see what's he's about" and I do assure you that I will never be the most attractive guy at large parties lmfao... I've never been anybody's first choice when it comes to looks, very rarely second, and most of the times third, if you want to make it about handsome looking, even my first girlfriend ever said it to me playfully but truly "you were my fourth choice " and she meant looks lmao

but when it came to personality, attitude, presence... and all of the other things she said "but I just could not stop myself from turning around and focusing on you, so... here we are"

so yeah, this is what a lot of people actually mean by "looks do matter yes, they matter but they are definitely not the most important nor defining factor out there"

[Asker]

Dude you're not understanding what im talking about. Looks start everything and then personality keeps everything. But it starts with looks first. For most people this is the norm

[NathanDavis]

what you fail to understand here is that... others do not necessarily have to be obsess with their lives just like you do while sabotaging yourself and yours

others who have it different do not have to accommodate to your bitterness...

just because you feel miserable about certain things, you don't have to expect others who have it better to just feel miserable like you do with your sexist approach to these things...

[Asker]

Now you're just arguing to argue. What I've been saying makes petfect sense. Looks attract, personality keeps the person. But you have to be physically attractive first. This is how it works for most humans. People that deny this will contradict everything they say with their actions. Looks get your foot in the door. But personality makes a person stay

[NathanDavis]

if I asked you... what are the things that make you physically not attractive, I bet you already have a list of items to go with, don't you?

and I almost sure that is a list of things that Jason Momoa, or Brad Pitt or the guy that plays Thor has but you do not... right?

" I am not like them so my life is over " please tell me this is not your mentality... lol, tell me that you find yourself fairly attractive somehow

[Asker]

Bro you took this as if i was complaining that my looks are holding me back. That's irelevent. The point is that looks spark the interest and personality keeps. Why are you arguing this?

[NathanDavis]

so, are they or not... what's holding you back if not your looks?

why be so cynical and bitter against women then?

"happy people do not lash at an entire group of people" as a whole... lol

why are you in denial

[Asker]

Bro its like talking to a brick wall at this point. Lets agree to disagree then because people don't understand what im saying even though they do that very thing

[NathanDavis]

well... at this point, being miserable is a choice... that's up to you

[Asker]

Have a good one sir

[NathanDavis]

fortunately, an option... yes

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I don't see how just simply pointing out some issue makes someone "their personalities sucks" i mean, don't you even consider someone's personality to suck when they just make conclusions like that so easily? Or is your conclusion just really your excuse to deliberately miss the point? Because i do agree that looks matter not that i care someone calls me ugly, the issue is people aren't just honest when it comes to that.

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara I will assume you do refer to me...

and if that is the case, and in order to answer your questioning... allow me to first just ask one little and simple thing... are you someone who goes out a lot? are you someone who often meets with a lot or people?

or are you someone that mostly keeps to himself, does his thing... inside his room/house/workplace... have you spent most of your youth days between walls and online? or have you been more of that "social extrovert mingling around people" outdoors?

would you mind to answer this? because if you do, we would make it way quicker to the answers you're requesting from me...

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Of course i'm referring to you because nobody else is actually making conclusions and assumptions about someone here but you. To answer your questions yeah i do go out and actually socialize and meet people but not doesn't make me an extrovert.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Weather you doubt me or not, it doesn't matter because we have never met in person to actually know me.

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara so, you're an introvert?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Yes and i don't see how that matters

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara that explains enough... thanks

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Explains what? You never actually said anything that explains anything if i say yes or no to your questions. Saying it explains enough is just as easy as just making assumptions on someone.

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara the irony here is... you see to have a problem when you perceive one guy to assume something about another one guy

but when the poster goes on to ASSUME that all women on this earth are just ALL superficial you absolutely agree on that

that's rich...

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara by the way... are you also one of those guys that are insecure about their looks?

because, for what I've seen... you do not seem to be that kind of insecure guy yourself

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I'm not defending him because i care about him, but we just have the same idea and if i were to say the same thing, this is exactly an opinion i would expect from you or maybe from anyone else so i might as well just settle it right now. So where exactly did he say that all women on earth are superficial? He's talking about those women not all women. The issue being talked about here is about the honesty not because they just go for the looks. It applies for men too. People likes to downplay if anyone just aren't honest when they reject someone because of their looks. And no i am not insecure because i know my worth. Many people call me ugly but not doesn't stop me from removing my profile pic. Also i have my face here for years but no one remembers the last time when i asked questions me and how i look

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara so I was right after all...

you're not the kind of insecure and resentful guy, and I knew that

but this anon, he is... even if you two share the same opinion, that is just one point of similarity, everything else about the two of you is entirely different

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I still miss the part how a question like that makes someone insecure. And he's anonymous so it's not like you know him personally. Either way, it's also not different if I go anonymous and ask the same question tho. It's not about him but it's just about you jumping to conclusions just based one what? The anonymity? Is it just because it's another person asking it? That shows you judge just based on the person but not the idea. Actually a lot of people are like that just for attention FYI. Jumping to conclusions to make themselves seem like a victim without even reading anything.

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara just because you missed it... doesn't mean it was not there

it is still there...

also you're wrong about the fact of you going anonymous... even if you were anonymous I would have asked the many questions I asked him, and then I would have reached to different conclusions with you, than I did with him

why? because you're just not like him... he's a bitter person

you? you're just a little bit cynical

so no, not the same thing

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Ok you say it's there yet you never pointed it out. So you do admit it has something to do with just being anonymous? Because that's basically like the only difference. If yes then guess what? Majority of people are including you are anonymous since most people here don't know you in person.

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara as in introvert you might not be familiar with it but...

on this site, people do have a presence and a reputation... and mine has been a consistent one for around two years

so you are wrong again... the anonymous feature does conceal your username yes, but it will not always hide who you are

there's a few people here who are posting anonymous and I can tell who they are... and that's just because of the way they are, the things they say, and how they say it as well

now, you might not notice these things because as an introvert you might tend to focus inwards, but that's not my case, so yes my perception might be much more acute on the outwards than yours is

and you are also wrong about the "basic difference" there is a sea of differences, if I remember correctly you even have or had a girlfriend, but this guy... is more of the incel type, something you are not

but maybe I am wrong about that and you have not actually had a girlfriend before either, and either way, you're not completely lost yet, you still have a chance

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Yeah there are people posting thesame questions as anonymous but you also can't guarantee which is which. I mean if 10000 people goes anonymous, you can't tell if that's the same person also because there are anonymous people who are genuine about their question.

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara I never said I could guarantee 10,000 correct guesses

and that wasn't the point anyway, so this is pretty much a useless argument

also what you said at the end doesn't really have a point either because these is not about someone's history or reputation, it is just about the claims presented within the post

so once, again, you're wrong with your approach just like you've been wrong all along

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And if you're not wrong, you've never even explained what made you determined someone is insecure. I mean there are many other reasons why people use the anonymous options. It's not always guaranteed that they're insecure. If you're not wrong then why generalize?

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara I never claimed that anonymous posters are insecure either...

but the only reason why you still insist on making it about being anon or not is because you know you're wrong... lol

so still... a pretty pointless and useless argument you're trying to raise here, and has nothing to do with the question asked or the actual arguments discussed

[Aiko_E_Lara]

The only difference about if I say this or if he say it is the fact that im not anonymous while he is which is the only difference here so I imply that's what you mean because you're still being vague with your conclusions just like I'm concluding I'm wrong. It's not even different if i just make a conclusion about you and just be vague about it

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara "the only difference"

absolutism... dead wrong from the get go

pointless as well, but at least you're entertaining... he's just bitter which is why he just stopped

bitterness comes in peaks, lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Yet you've never prove yourself right. Also you don't realize that you just sound bitter over an idea jusr made by a different person who is not me

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara I don't have any need to prove the claims made by others, in this case him or you... you come up with the claims, neither of you are able to keep them up, so you both start to fighting the branches of tree...

and if you speak of bitterness... you're the one getting all kinds of salty about something that have absolutely nothing to do with you till you made it your business, of course

now, if you're not able to make sense or stay in the topic, that's not on me... that's all you

don't feel bad about though, you just have the very wrong approach, that's all... lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

If you don't need to prove your claim then i assume you're wrong. This isn't even about him but this is about you. This isn't about him but this is about you and i am making this my business because i have snowflake issues. Snowflakes who make who make excuses to make random conclusions without even proving anything. And don't feel bad, your habit is pretty much common

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara you're the one that came here to whine that some people think you're ugly...

those are your snowflake issues indeed...

if that's what makes you resent women then okay, that is your choice...

but that's certainly not my experience nor the experience of many other who have made it better with their lives

[Aiko_E_Lara]

You just asked if I'm insecure or not so I told you more about me so you can't blame anyone. And be being ugly has nothing to do with "jumping to conclusions" which is basically what you're doing.

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara if you feel ugly and that's why you resent women...

that is your snowflake issue not mine...

[Aiko_E_Lara]

You missed the part where I said it's some people who call me that and you missed the part where I said I don't care and I know my worth. You asked so I answered you. You can't blame anyone. And you jumping to conclusions again as your excuse proves it again

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara I was not the one calling ugly though, so...

don't go around resenting me like you resent women...

don't be the little snowflake whiny boy you allegedly hate

hating yourself is not a good thing... time to grow up and move on

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Except i am not saying that it is you. The conclusion is making is me just simply resenting people and hating myself. So how about your stop being assumptions and stop being a snowflake like a normal person would be?

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara you're the one feeling ugly... and resenting women for it

then claim you don't even care, lol...

but have it, this is your safe space now, melt away... just the same you do it when you're home alone

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And i can also tell you that you are the one feeling insecure about your personality that sucks that's why you feel the need to tell anyone that just because. You asked me the new blame me for answering your question. You just want validation because you're insecure

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara sure and that is exactly why you see me all day every day around this forum... whining and complaining about women not wanting me... right?

that's why most of my activity on this site is to spit all that resentment and bitterness against girls and women, to the point that I even feel the need to go side with male anons who are resentful and bitter as me...

and all because girls keep calling me ugly and none of them want to play with my joystick, boohoo...

now after reading all that, give it a real thought... does that sound more like my case or your case, and you don't even have to really answer, JUST give it a good real thought to it and realize where you actually stand... lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And you still fail to show where exactly is the whining part and complaining about women not wanting him. All is showing is just you jumping to that conclusion just because someone is making a curious question. Basically "boohoo he hates women just because he there is an issue addressed" that sounds like your case. Or maybe a simp's case. Or maybe you are one

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara and... there you go, of course

time for realization number two... if you really look at yourself and what you do here, you will see that you have a lot more in common with the mitches, the MGTOW's, the incels, the small dick guys, the short height guys, the misogynists, and all those who live in the basement with their moms full of hatred and resentment, and that spend all day resenting and blaming women while in fact all you guys do is hate yourselves all day and night long...

your perceptions and vocabulary now with the "simp" the "chad" the "snowflake" "the cuck" and all that dumbass BS is something YOU have in common with them, not me...

so go ahead, and try to tell me that you're not the having a bad day around here... lmao

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And if i have to argue at your level, i can also ask you to look at in the mirror and you will see a doormat who do not really know their worth. You make assumptions on people who just pointed out an issue, making conclusions that he is a bitter angry man and a misogynist which pretty much shares similarities will those sjws, karens, feminists, and other woke groups who throw tantrums when they just disagree with anyone

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara go ahead and try that all you want...

but the fact is that when you look at both histories in the profiles

one one will be shown to be accurate... and it's definitely not going to be mine

now, let that sink in for a full minute... lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I'm not even trying but it's already working and its continuing to prove my point the more you talk and assume.

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara you're the one that has to live with yourself... lol

again, not really my issue...

[Aiko_E_Lara]

That "you're the one" tactic is getting old actually and you just thought it had been working. It is also easy for me to say you're the one having issues with questions like this

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara is it getting old... or has it started to settle?

I understand if it started to actually hurt once I made you realize that are indeed one of the problematic ones in here... and not one of the more sane and happier people around here

but hey, you came here to beat the bushes, so don't be upset if the mean bee got you stung

if you're all that butthurt well, there is always vaseline and I'm sure a safe space around the corner, good luck with that

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I mean those are just the words you keep repeating so it is a fact. And i can also just easily say "you're the one" just like how you do it.

I understand if the question actually started to hurt you. I mean you only come here just to drama and make a functions so if you are that butthurt then you don't have to be here. You just can't answer that's why

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara good thing is, you only have to convince yourself of that, lmao...

a fool's work is always against itself, lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Good thing is, you only have to take your own advice

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara i'm not the incel type here...

I've actually had a fulfilling life so far, and great relationships with both men and women

absolutely nothing to complain about, nor to blame on others for my own shit...

we're not the same you and I... lol

but I am sure you're the most aware of that because it does suck for you, but not for me...

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And neither am i being the incel type nor the karen type here.

And you don't know me and i don't know you. If i were to give you an anecdote saying that i actually have a great relationship and a fulfilling life and you're just going to doubt me anyways then it's not different if i'm just going to doubt you. But even if i were single, that alone has nothing to do with being an incel. Karens like you would make that assumption. And with you being somewhat of a karen yourself, it proves you're lying

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara like I said... you only have to convince yourself about all that... too bad, that it just doesn't work that way when you're back alone at your basement and resenting women all day and night long

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And like what i have said, you just have to take your own advice. Too bad it just doesn't work that way if you keep throwing tantrums all day

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara don't you worry...

we are both going back to what we have and deserve...

I am more than happy with that, and I sincerely hope you are, as well... lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Well it's obvious, and you saw that one coming when i say argue at your level. Simple you want to assume, i can do the same thing. Not a single elaboration to your conclusions.

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara we are what we are... no more than that

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Ok. You agree you're a Karen then. Your basically saying it not me

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara yes... I am a Karen, and all you want, sure... lol

facts are, that you're still going to your bed at night, every night... resenting women for not wanting to play with your joystick and be like "boo-hoo' they call me ugly

meanwhile... I'll just go to be without having to worry for any of that, just like I never have any need to do so

but yeah, if this is what makes you feel a bit better then go ahead, from now now I am an @KarenDavis lol...

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then i can also assume the facts about you being someone who throws tantrum just because you disagree with anyone or everything just basically triggers you that's why you hide in your cave. I mean you agreed while i didn't so yeah you're going to be blame anyone for calling 911 on you and send you to a mental hospital if you start thrashing and whining about an issue addressed

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara yes, I don't mind it... you can assume all you want

but, you know well that you're still going to choke on your bitter resentment for women every day you spend here at G@G

that won't be me... lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then you can also assume all you want but we all know that you're still going to be a snowflake everywhere. That won't be me lol

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara even if it were the case, better to be a snowflake than a incel though...

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Well yeah you think it's better to be a hater to everyone than to be a hater to women lol. Sure with go with that one.

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara don' forget it...

you resent women... because you hate yourself

that's all there is to it

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Don't forget, you hate everyone because you hate yourself. That's all there is to it

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara yep... because all the girls are calling me ugly and do not want to play with my joystick... lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Yep that's basically you. And thank you for admitting that

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara yes, you are welcome... and if you want to be 100% sure, just go to my open public profile, and all you will see is ME complaining and whining about women non-stop... yep, that is me and everyone here knows it very well...

somebody better call me a WAMBULANCE!!!

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Which is ironic when you call someone an incel. So yeah you are both a karen and an incel and you're proud. Continue to prove me right more and more

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara oh absolutely... in fact, I updated my name to @IncelKarenDavis

so just watch me go around this site and all day... just throwing and spewing my bitterness and resentment towards all women, lmao...

such is my empty endless void that I cannot help it... lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And it's a good thing i'm not like you. No one likes to be proud of it but you

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara we're definitely not the same... lmao

I'm not into cutesy anime soft girls like you are...

I prefer something, you know... real, an actual person out there in the real world

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Of course we're not the same. I'm not an incel nor a karen but you are. And you admitted that one

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara now, the more intriguing question in here now is...

how on earth did an anime girl called you ugly and refused to play with your joystick...

are you so messed up that even in your isolating fantasy world, anime girls reject you?

that's kind of fascinating, lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And how on earth did an animate object even call you a moron? Are you so messed up that even in your isolating basement, your pet garbages are cutting ties with you? That's kind of fascinating lol

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara hard to face reality when you're constantly in denial, right? lol

now all you have is to go with your classic "no, u"

lol... was funny at first, now just kind of sad

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Take your own advice because. Like what i said it's just so easy to make assumptions so i can just do the same thing. And you haven't proven a single thing. It's just so hard to deny that you're a moron right.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Oh and you have been resorting to your "u and u" from the start. Indeed it's kind of sad that you are actually losing credibility because all you have to do is make assumptions and that's it

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara "losing credibility" lmfao...

as if you knew anything about that, lol

that only goes on to show just how insecure you are and making this about "credibility"

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Hard to face reality when you're constantly in denial, right? And ask if you know anything about being an incel who gets called ugly often. That goes to show just how insecure you are about your personality, looks and size.

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara oh wow... now you're insecure about size as well?

please give yourself a break... lol

that's just harsh

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And no you're insecure about your existence as well?

Please give yourself a break lol

That's just harsh

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara is it short height why you resent yourself? or the other kind of size that troubles you?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Is it low IQ you resent yourself? Or the other kind of stupidity that troubles you?

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara so it is both... that's rough

good thing though, anime waifus are into anything and everything, you just have to write them and draw them like that... lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

So it's both, that's rough. Good thing you can just mold your own shit into a dildo and eat it like how you like it.

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara lmfao... now it's quite clear why girls would not want to play with your joystick...

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Lmfao... no it's quite clear why everyone wouldn't want anything to do with you

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara well... there's at least 46 other incels, MGTOW, alfadouchebags, misogynists, racist, homophobic, short height and dick sized little angry boys just like you, that have me blocked already so... you're not so wrong on this one, lol

you seem to love it though, which is not strange here at G@G

[Aiko_E_Lara]

well... there's at least 46 other Karen, femcels, femimists, soyboys, doormats, wokes, wimps, short height and dick sized little angry chucks just like you, that have me blocked already so... you're not so wrong on this one, lol

you seem to love it though, which is not strange here at G@G

[NathanDavis]

@Aiko_E_Lara lmfao... femcel, that's a new one

[Aiko_E_Lara]

lmfao... Incel, that's a new one

[Nikki1989]

Guys that complain about this are the ones with the shitty personalities.

[Asker]

Come on now. Its not complaining. Looks start the journey and then everything else comes into play. But without looks most people won't give you a chance to get to know you

[Asker]

Its human nature

[LazerBean]

Looks definitely matter, since I don't want to increase my chances of having ugly children. But if someone has a shitty personality, then I automatically want nothing to do with them regardless of how they look.

[Asker]

Thank you for being honest. Looks are the first 50 that attracts. Personality is the last 50 to keep.

[hafinjun]

Statistically speaking isn't it the mother's DNA that decides such things

[FilmGuy93]

If you've ever dated an attractive person, you'll get what they mean. There are a lot of awful, but attractive people who will make you miserable.

[Asker]

People dont understand though that looks spark the interests. And then everything else matters after that. But people deny it and say that personality is what sparks things like give me a break. For most people the looks are what start the process. Then personality and all those other things matter

[Summeroflove]

It’s important to some. But not the only thing that matters.

[Asker]

Never said it was the only thing that matters. But it starts with looks

[Summeroflove]

Looks are important at least for a lot of people. That is true.

[Summeroflove]

But you see some people who obviously have options with someone less attractive too. Because they like who they are inside. Or whatever.

[Asker]

I like Disney movies too

[Summeroflove]

Okay…. I used to sometimes. But. I learned stuff about Disney that makes me not anymore.

[Anonymous]

Personality in the hook up culture doesn't matter so much as looks, I hear.
When it comes to long term relationships, resources, influence and money are king. Personality matters more.

[Asker]

Yes but what ignites the journey to begin with?

[Opinion Owner]

You take interest in what you see across the room or on a screen, right?
However sometimes, someone you know as an acquaintance grows on you and this may be more personality lead.

[Asker]

Should people base something on chance or something that guarantees a higher chance of success

[Opinion Owner]

Going to an organised dating night for people with similar goals or joining a club which fits your chosen demographic would seem like a smart thing. Makes sense to know the kind of gal you want to find, right?
But being happy in yourself, living your life and improving ones self, as they say, can also attract. Sometimes they can smell unharnessed resource from a mile away and they'll find you. Not as systematic though.

[Asker]

Generalities>exceptions. That's what i love by

[TroyDT2]

Because looks really are not the most important thing.

[Asker]

That's not what i said though. Looks start the interests and then everything else matters after that. People dont actually think about what's being said here

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Some just wanna use that cliche to make themselves seem wise and not shallow. I definitely do agree looks matter but for both genders.

[Asker]

They definitely. That's human nature but people don't want to be honest about it fot some reason

[hafinjun]

Of course , if we tell the truth we're subject to scrutiny and chastisement by our peers

[EaterPeter]

I don't know. People are silly. They don't want to sound petty. Hidden agendas?

[LimitedBenefits101]

Looks is the most important thing, only women would deny it.

[Anonymous]

Looks do matter more, but how you carry yourself can still make you ice cold with women.

[Anonymous]

It's a personal PR statement people say it to make them look better and open minded. In reality every one want looks.

[Zolly99999]

I agree with you.

[Asker]

Bro i don't know why or where people get the idea that i said personality doesn't matter. It does but looke start the interests and then the other stuff matters. 50/50

[Zolly99999]

I think looks are more the 50% for most women unfortunately in today's society.