Just feeling upset... I will not take initiative anymore?

[Anonymous]

I told to my crush that I have feelings for him. We were friend with benefits. My virginity was lost with him. I had never had boyfriend... After that he told me we couldn't see us anymore because he probably gonna date with a girl who he has been talking... I feel stupid to have sex with him and being innocent to told him about my feelings...

Any advice?

[Anonymous]

What’s done is done, you can’t take your virginity back from him and you also can’t beat yourself up forever, it won’t change anything. All you can do is learn from this and try to make better choices with the next guy.

[Asker]

That's totally right

[es20490446e]

What do you expect to get from a person that doesn't appreciate being with you?

[Asker]

:( he was so different in the beginning..

[es20490446e]

And now?

[Asker]

But I think he just did it to have sex

[Asker]

He is so cold. No respond my messages. No a Hi from him... Just if I send a message

[es20490446e]

If I was in that situation I won't insist. It's too much work for nothing.

Instead I will do it easy, and search for someone who doesn't give me these kinds of headaches.

See that if you have already told him what you had to told him, and he doesn't act accordingly, it's now fully his business.

[Asker]

That's right... But I just have that feeling of stupidity hahaha
For being so innocent and let him being with me without a relationship

[es20490446e]

Yes, it was stupid.

But sometimes you don't notice what is important till you make a mistake. You only get the info by doing.

[Asker]

I don't know if he did it on a purpose... 1 week before I got angry with him and told him I will have sex with other guy (it wad no real but I was bored about he didn't answer me faster as he usted to do it) then 6 days later I got bad and sent him a message telling him that i miss him that I want to see him... Then he said "no more, im talking with a girl and probably I'm going to date her"

[es20490446e]

When replying to your messages, what speed is acceptable to you?

Are you both being honest in the image you are portraying on your messages?

[Asker]

He pass 3-4 days without answer me

[es20490446e]

Just tell him what you want yourself, and see if he wants the same as you.

If he does, everything will be easy. If not there's nothing else to fix there.

[WhitneySnow]

Don’t have sex with him anymore

[Asker]

Feel more stupid hahha because days before I send him nudes mines... After he told me this I was 🤡🤡how stupid I was

[Curiosity2006]

Pro tip!