Girls, how do you feel about the 30 plus single guys who never had a girl friend ?

[Anonymous]

Girls, how do you feel about the 30 plus single guys who never had a girl friend?

[Zozzita]

Could be because:
1) They’re asexual/Gay
2) They have no confidence in themselves to approach women the find attractive.
3) They have some type of trauma
4) They are more focused on their career than wanting a relationship.
5) They listen to toxic manosphere podcasts that give the wrong advice to pick up women.
6) Too busy hating women but secretly desires a relationship.


There’s probably more, but this was all I could think of.

[Asker]

Or is it possible that constant rejection, or being average no one desires etc

[Zozzita]

I highly doubt that. There’s someone for everyone. Rejection shouldn’t always be taken negatively. It helps you weed out the bad apples in the bunch. You just gotta find someone with real chemistry. Make sure you got reasonable standards and it’ll be easier to find someone that matches you.

[Asker]

Sad to say that but all women seeking for above their levels and ignore average guys.

Rejections are killing men's souls. You have no idea how negative and depressing it is for men

[Zozzita]

You’re right, I can’t relate because I’m not a man. But I’m a women. so I can speak for some that falls in my category. And it’s not true that all women seek for men that are above average.

I can only give advise, I can’t make you take my word for anything. You can either choose to do better, or stay right where you are in life.

[Asker]

No woman can relate with this. It is all good in the first ten rejections. But after 50th time of rejection, no one can stood confident.

[Zozzita]

Then all I can advise is to introspect. It may not just be a physical appearance problem. It could be your character, how do you interact with people. Do you come off as rude, do you not catch social ques, are you easily argumentative. Just ask yourself questions like that to get to the bottom of it. You may not think you’re doing anything wrong, but to others it may shine a negative light on you.

[Asker]

A polite approachment with decent clothing, not being posessive etc. This is how I am.

I gave up dating. Just asking for opinions of women here out of my curiousity

[Zozzita]

I would have to know you personally in order for me to judge that but that’s good. I wouldn’t encourage you to give up on dating tho :( keep being a gentleman and you’ll find a keeper. Good luck!

[Asker]

I am not over 30 by the way tho. It is just in my question

[Anonymous]

Something must be seriously wrong with them.

[Asker]

Isn't it possible that they are only average, normie, and hence never seen an attraction from the opposite sex