What are the top 10 reasons why someone should date you?

[Babygirl_S]

[Summeroflove]

Well. Someone should date me only if they want to date me and I want do date them. I’m not going to force someone to date me if they don’t want me. I will simply move on with my life and find someone I’m compatible with and who likes me.

1. I have a good heart. I love to treat a woman like a queen. Just as long as she treats me like a king.

2. I am in it for the right reasons. I’m eventually looking for someone to marry. A best friend. A life long partner who I will love and cherish forever and who will love me. I want to save sex for after marriage (which is good for some women and a problem for others)

3. I’m loyal. I won’t cheat on you. If I loose interest in someone or want to start seeing someone else. I will communicate that.

4. I am a pretty physical person. I don’t touch or liked to be touched by a lot of people. Unless I have a deep bond with someone. It’s special. Someone who isn’t really into a lot of physical affection probably isn’t right for me.

5. This is good for some women and not for others. I’m very Christian. Meaning. I have good morals, values, as well as standards for myself.

6. I’m not one sided. I won’t expect someone to do something for me that as long as I’m able to do it in return. As long as she can do the same.

7. I want to be a best friend. I would only ever marry my best friend. It takes time to build love and friendship both. Again some might find a problem with this if they’re too serious (not that things shouldn’t be serious) someone who just wants sex of my wallet. Whatever else

8. I’m someone who likes to have fun. I find just sitting around watching Netflix to be boring. Definitely something I could do sometimes. But I really do value things like going for walks. Going places going to eat or play games or watch a movie. I love both being out in nature and going to town.

9. I’m someone who really enjoys deep conversation. But only if I know someone well. I love learning everything about someone and I love telling them everything about me

10. I have a good sense of humor. As long as she likes my humor and thinks I’m funny. Also love someone who can make me laugh as well.

[ObscuredBeyond]

That was pretty much everything I was going to say. Here's hoping the women treat you better than they did me.

[Summeroflove]

@ObscuredBeyond thanks. I’m careful about who I associate with.

[Mewzinc]

I'm the same as you waiting for marriage and God is important in my life as well. It's hard to find someone who respects it and I understand that frustration. I have a question for you, but are you willing to marry a woman who isn't a virgin? Like she slept with either one guy or multiple. Do you have a limit on what you'll accept? Because personally I notice that every guy religious or not that I talk to isn't a virgin. I prefer to date/marry a guy who is a virgin like me. But seeing how lust obsessive so many people sadly are, I bet I'll marry a guy who has been around the block maybe a few times.

[Summeroflove]

@Mewzinc great to hear. I could only date a woman who she slept with someone else if she repented of it I would be fine with that.

I don't really know a woman's sex life and a lot of times a lot of things until sometime after the first date as well. So maybe date but if she slept around a lot I would not be in any kind of comited relationship.

I think this can be hard for men too since there are a lot of women who want a guy to sleep with them before being married.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Interesting question, I'd say:

1-I can be very compassionate, you can talk very deeply with me, can understand well others feelings

2-you can relax very well with me and have nice movie nights, I can be a movie geek

3-I love travelling, see and experience (open for adventurous stuff)

4-have a good sense of humor and can be a good friend to have fun with

5-I am a grateful person

6-well educated and multilingual

7-healthy lifestyle, do sports regularly, no addictions

8-if I love you then I will be very loyal and even buy Christmas presents even though I am not someone who gives presents

9-I think I have a sense of romance, like I know what is romantic. Just come with me to the alps and I can be very romantic

10-I dont play mind games and won't abuse

[ShellyB]

There is 1 reason why 1 specific person should date me which is that I am engaged to him, there is 1 reason why nobody else should date me which is that I am engaged to somebody. But I will try to answer the question the way it is intended bc it might be fun.

1. I have never cheated on anybody and I could have if I wanted to.

2. I try to be nice and fair and understand when people have different opinions than I have.

3. I know what makes me happy which is actually probably the most important thing on this list I don't think a lot of people, especially a lot of girls know what makes them happy.

4. I am family oriented, I love my parents, I expect to be close to his parents and I like being around and helping with kids also.

5. When we have a feeling of mutual trust I am v. honest.

6. I am not v. interested in areas that might feel like competition to guys, for example I don't really care about my career or how much money I make.

7. I have some traits that not necessarily every guy likes but a lot of guys like, for example I am sexually submissive and I know how to cook and like cooking.

8. Uhh I am running out of stuff lol. I'm not too hard to look at I guess that counts.

Sorry I only got to 8!!

[AsaKyo]

1. I have pushin' for the cushion
2. I would check on you to make sure you're doing okay
3. Would buy you gifts or make you gifts
4. Would try to come visit you as much as I could
5. Would indulge in a beloved hobby with you, even if I wasn't too crazy about it myself
6. Would cook for you or help you cook
7. Like to clean and keep things neat
8. Will take care of your laundry
9. Will give you lots of love and affection
10. Will love your pets lmao

PSA: Reasons NOT to date me (●´ω｀●)

[DoctorSex]

I like this. It covers all the nature's of the feminine energy. Good job.

[Bethany22]

I'm reliable,

loyal,

I read books on what men need in a relationship (written by men),

I'm easygoing,

I don't play hard to get games,

I don't act cynical about previous guys,

I don't pretend I know them too soon,

I ask directly for what I want instead of guilt tripping,

I admire their strengths

I appreciate their hard work in order to let me stay home and cook for him

[Havthrills]

What books? I wonder how true it is.

[Bethany22]

@Havthrills All of the Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus books by John Gray

[Havthrills]

I might have to look into the main points of that one.

[Bethany22]

@Havthrills Have you read or heard of those books before?

[Havthrills]

I have not. I've seen books like that but never read them or remember the titles. I really believe they are based off of about 50% of what people really want. Not everyone is the same and wants the same thing.

[Havthrills]

Like, give an example and I'll see if it's true for me. Or dm me about it. I'm curious. Lol

[Bethany22]

@Havthrills It says for example that men want to be admired by their girlfriend/wife, as in when she looks at him with marvel and wonder (about various virtuous traits). It does say that's important to women as well, but only after the guy makes her feel cherished, as in when he does little things like initiating stuff to do on holidays, or calling three days in advance to set up dates even after they're exclusive.

[Havthrills]

That is a good one. A man would want the woman he loves to look at him like that and not in disgust. Anyone would want to be looked at in a cherished way by their SO. Even a guy fixing the toilet, most of the time he does it for her, but doesn't show it. He would like a little tiny bit of appreciation.

[Bethany22]

@Havthrills Yes, appreciation is another one he mentions. Saying thank you in a genuine way when he fixes the toilet, and admire him as he tells a story about how heroic he was at work.

[Havthrills]

OK, so far it's been spot on. Men do listen, but they also like to be heard. Most kind of just give up talking about anything if she seems to not care.

[DoctorSex]

Another wonderful book is:

Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs
Book by Emerson Eggerichs

[kylee2437]

1 I’m loyal
2. I have a caring heart
3. I’m romantic / affectionate
4. I love sex
5. Im not the clingy type
6. I have goals and a stable job
7. Im financially stable and I am great with money
8. My sense of humor is endless and I appreciate any humor
9. Im very open minded and I am a person that will ride for you as long as you are there for me
10. I will support your dreams and will connect with your interests

[Ferres]

Men only care that you’re pretty and caring/sweet. Clingy is nice too.

[kylee2437]

@ferres men in my generation care about women having a stable job and goals

[tzdc21]

They're just telling you that because that's what you like to hear. In truth it's not all that important. Good for you, it won't disqualify you, but it doesn't necessarily make you sexier either.

[kylee2437]

Sexier makes you fuckable, not necessarily wifeable

[tzdc21]

Whatever word you wanna use. My point is that guys don't put as much stock into that as you think they do.

[kylee2437]

Not this generation of men unfortunately

[tzdc21]

I think most of them are telling you that because that's what most women want to hear. Guys will say ANYTHING they have to in order to get women. So I wouldn't be too quick to jump to that conclusion.

[kylee2437]

No one has complimented me on that however lol it’s just most guys in this generation want women to pay half and half

[tzdc21]

If you're talking about a date, then that's a whole different subject. Just because a guy wants to pay half and half doesn't mean he wants a woman with a specific income. That could mean that he believes neither sex alone should be responsible for paying, and that it should be a combined effort. Or it could be a way to see if the woman feels she's entitled to his wallet. But very rarely will a guy say, "I want a woman who makes this amount a year." There may be a lot that will want her do so something... but there's no real salary limit most of the time.

[kylee2437]

no one said salary mattered but in order for a woman to go half and half , she needs to hold a job lol

[tzdc21]

I imagine that most guys won't hold her to that standard until she mentions that she works. Otherwise, they probably would pay for both of them, or do something that does not involve money at all. If you were to say that you didn't have a job, that might not always disqualify you from other guys. Some will disqualify you, but most won't.

[kylee2437]

I don’t agree with that lol holding a job has a lot more to just do with money, it also shows if you are a productive adult or not

[tzdc21]

If you're talking about being productive, then that's a better way of putting it, and guys do like that. But if you're talking guys caring about you having a job, that's completely different. You could be preoccupied with doing other things besides a job. But often times, a lot of women think guys are attracted to their incomes and their jobs, which is why they try to lead in with, "Well I'm a successful business women" or "I have a steady job or income." That's not necessarily true. If it keeps you preoccupied and helps you set goals for yourself, great. That's a nice perk. But it's not a requirement for a lot of guys. For some, yes. But for a lot of them no.

[kylee2437]

Okay well there’s guys that think it’s attractive and I think it’s attractive for myself lol I don't know why you are arguing with me about this really. Holding a goal is life is attractive to everyone

[tzdc21]

Saying you have goals for yourself is different from saying you have a job stable job. It's all in the way you phrase it. Saying you have goals for yourself is indeed attractive. Saying that you have a job... I won't say it's unattractive, but it;s not as much of a turn on.

[tzdc21]

God I hate typos on here, lol

[kylee2437]

It’s a turn on for myself lol trust me, I’m currently talking to a guy that pays in person but I can always chip in and help out. Most guys think a woman is in his pocket when she can’t do that lol we live in a generation where one income is unrealistic

[tzdc21]

It is unrealistic. And I'm just saying it's not a requirement from us most of the time. We may like it, and in some instances we may prefer it. But generally speaking, we don't care as much about that. Even if we make say, 50k a year, if we find a woman who makes 20K, that more than likely won't disqualify her. If the roles were reversed... it may have a different ending. Can it be a benefit, sure, but it's not a requirement. That's all I'm saying.

[BlueScorpio]

I'm not good at listing stuff about me cause I always feel there's something I miss. I'm friendly, loyal, easy to joke with, caring. And honestly that's all I can think of lol

[ManOnFire]

There is only one reason someone should date me: because they are seriously interested in me.

[242plusInfinity]

Best answer, sincerely. I even had to switch accounts to tell you. Cause you blocked me.

[ManOnFire]

@242plusInfinity Uhhhhhh, I think you got that wrong🤨 I literally only have one person blocked, and it is a female. It is also extremely rare for me to block anybody anyway.

[Ms_Facesitter]

10... that's a lot...

1 I haven't cheated and I don't plan on doing that ever.

2 I don't want to play mind games with you and I'll let you know, literally that I like you, no hints. No rules like "I wait for you to text me" or any mixed signals like that.

3 I don't yell during arguments and I don't let arguments sit. I want them resolved as soon as possible.

4 You also like anime, gaming, horror movies, binge watching stuff? If the idea of that sort of quality time speaks to you.. well :)

5 I love to pamper you. Caring for you makes me happy. Cooking, massages, overall trying making things easier for you.

6 I'm not really a material girl, and I care about the little things so you don't have to take me on expensive dates or get me jewelry.

7 I'm physical and so if you like lots of hugs and kisses you'll get plenty of those. Cuddle cuddle!

8 If I'm wrong I'll admit it.

9 I'm trying to stay in shape, so if you find that important, there is that.

10 I'm a patient and calm person.

[desperatelyhungry]

I’ve never thought about this but here it is off the top of my head:
1. I have a good heart. I think I would be a good girlfriend.
2. I like to think I’m attractive
3. I’m funny
4. I have a job and could never date someone just because of what I get through dating them; financial or otherwise:
5. I have my own car and am relatively independent.
6. Regardless of this, I am still willing to let my guard down and let my more feminine, submissive side come out for the right man.
7. I want to be there emotionally for whoever I end up with and hope he feels that he can tell me anything and will not be judged for being emotional or upset.
8. I hope to build together. Build our wealth, build our life. c build a family.
9. I am ambitious and have lots of things I wanna do and places I wanna see. This would be an especially good quality for someone like minded.
10. Hmmmm. I have a fat ass. I don't know 😂😂

[DoctorSex]

1) it's impossible to be more loyal than me. I'd rather have my partner deal with anything Female related in my business while I work with young men. I don't even want the opportunity for another woman to fall for me or think she could get me. I'm building an empire with my partner and I don't want even 1% doubt in her head that I love her completely.

2) I have a solution for everything.

3) No one will pay attention and nurture your physical, mental, spiritual growth more than me.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[DoctorSex]

4) I pay attention to your love language and communicate with you in that language.

5) I'm relentlessly successful.

6) I keep myself Well read, I also keep myself in the best physical shape in order to give you the most amount of healthy seeds to pick from lol

7) I'm strong. Built like a tank. Background in wresting and boxing. 6 ft and would easily k*ll a man who threatened you.

8) I'm a hunter by heart, I know how to utilise my environment.

9) I know how to bring you back when you feel lost.

10) I have a whole universe, detailed and magical that I've constructed inside my mind. You could spend a lifetime getting to know me and barely scratch the surface.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I don't think "should" should be the word used because I don't like forcing anyone. But if i just have to tell you the benefits of dating me then sure I can do that. Some of it are matter of tastes actually. For example, i'm introverted, somewhat of a nerd, I love physical touch and I'd feel more like a best friend than a boyfriend because I'm aromantic but all of those are if she prefer that kind of guy. Other than those, I'm understanding, honest, unique, reliable, chill and loyal.

[Rania05]

*Considerate
*Gentle
*Kind
*A scaredy cat but willing to accompany him in most outrageous thing as long as it doesn't break law
*Never hide appreciation over anything
*Never fail to enjoy my day when going out even if we'd argue
*A good recommender
*A good listener
*Thinks out of the box
*Naturally empathetic

[BloodCursedDeviant]

Gentle and kind…. that’s perfect. lol

[Sour-rose]

• I won't give you a child nor hound you for one
• panties choices are always cute
• creative
• assert my dominance when necessary
• won't kill you
• got dreams
• i listen
• my aura is yellow so you know you can trust me... to an extent
• clean
• aaaand you take a ride with me which is bumpy but entertaining or go with some bish

[IceCreamSandwich]

They think I'm hot.

They think I'm nice.

They think I'm cool.

I think they're hot.

I think they're nice.

I think they're cool.

We are at the same stage in life.

We have compatible schedules.

We have some things in common.

Dating is fun.

[Chazmatazz269]

I don’t have ten. I’m definitely scrolling through the responses in a minute to see if there are people with ten. Cuz that seems completely unreasonable to me. Ell oh ell!
I’m smart and open minded.
I’m funny.
I’m compassionate and empathetic.
I have a good job.
I’m affectionate.
I’m protective.
My hygiene is exceptional. (possibly to a fault). Ha!

[NathanDavis]

nobody should date me, unless they really want to... but I will go with one reason

1.- whenever I see these long lists of what women want from a men... I usually check the marks anywhere from 70 to 90% of the items on that list, genuinely as well, no pretending... lol

[slatyb]

* Considerate.
* Funny after I get to know people.
* Good in bed (or so I've been told).
* Open-minded about new experiences
* Enjoy live music, theater, and art.
* Fit enough to do outdoor stuff
* Culturally literate
* Expert driver
* Can juggle
* Can fly

[exitseven]

I am sincere and honest. I am hard working and skilled at may different things. I keep myself in good physical shape. I do not use illegal drugs or alcohol, I am non violent, I have no criminal record, I am a college graduate and I have been to Texas.

[TroyDT2]

1. I'm fun.
2. I don't cheat in relationships.
3. Despite what some of the lame pseudointellectuals on here say, I'm not an idiot.
4. If she's worthy I will shower her with adoration.
5. If she fits #3, I'm not broke or cheap.

Sorry, that's all I have.

[BJP21]

1) Humor

2) Social

3) Optimistic

4) Loyal

5) Faithful

6) Respectful

7) Determined

8) Emotional

9) Vulnerable (It takes a real man to admit that)

10) Thick Skinned (I dont find things cancel culture finds offensive)

[JulianGronkowski]

1. I’m generous and kind hearted
2. I’m smart
3. I have zero baggage (no kids and no past relationships).
4. I’m responsible/good with money
5. I have fulfilling hobbies, and don’t need other people to make me happy


There’s 5 reasons.

[Heolurt]

1. I'm too ugly so, no worry about cheating.

2. I'm not sexual, I don't care about sex so again no cheating.

3. I have money and all it does is gain interest because I don't spend it, I have nothing I want to spend it on.

4. I own my own house, car and bike all paid off.

5. I have amazing credit and no debt.

Well I got half way and that's all I can think of and basically I'm not dateable, so if you reread #1, you'll see why you'd reject me instantly anyways.

[hIopinionated_]

Way to describe yourself 😅

[Heolurt]

@hIopinionated_ only being honest, why lie? Say I told someone I thought I was good looking despite everyone always calling me ugly and then they meet me and now not only am I a liar but they probably see me even uglier than they would've if they knew I was ugly.

[hIopinionated_]

Looks are subjective. Those people who referred to you as ugly have a right to their opinion of course but it is still, in fact, their OPINION. Don’t let them define you

[Heolurt]

@hIopinionated_ that's literally every single person who has seen my face, a lot are vocal while others just show it in looks of disgust on their faces. Even my own mom called me ugly all the time and said I ruined her dreams of the perfect looking family. Besides I do have a mirror and I know I look like sloth from the goonies but with a more normal shaped head. I think looks are subjective within a certain bubble but mine are definitely outside that bubble, mine have more of a general consensus towards it. It's like going to a restaurant and the waitress is being all friendly with her tables but when she gets to me, she doesn't look directly at me and she goes from friendly to business.

[hIopinionated_]

That’s interesting considering your genes literally came from your parents.

No offense but your mother sounds like a dumbass. If you’re supposedly ugly, the blame is entirely on her. If you look like her, she should have never procreated and if you look like your father, she should have chosen a partner up to her standards of looks

Overall, those people may say or look at you a certain way but again, it’s still their opinion

[midnightmoon05]

1. Fun

2. sexy

3. adventures

4. smart

5. youthful

6. easy going

7. have common sense

8. makes smart financial decisions

9. never bore

10. worldly

[midnightmoon05]

11. Logical

[BLP11520]

If I were not married? 1, I am a nice fella 2. Good personality3. Some say I am handsome.4. I have a stable work history 5. Sense of humor,6. Decent in bed 7, Want to love and not behave selfishly.8. Excellent health 9. Able to adapt to someone's interests.10. Not picky or narcissistic.

[Mamaganja]

Don’t lol. I lose interest fast and every little thing will turn me off at some point. I’m not meant to be with anyone and no one should want to be with me. Unfortunately, I am what they call a heartbreaker or the one that got away 🥴 …

[Noahzaid]

There isn’t any top, I wouldn’t trick you into dating me but I will gladly guide you to find happiness.

[Belgie]

"You want to" is the only relevant reason.

[Midgetmcwidget]

I have no reason someone would date me, inside and out I’m unattractive.

[Blackcupcake]

1. they
2. should
3. not
4. even
5. consider
6. the
7. idea
8. of
9. dating
10. me


😁

[Steamnir]

I can't find 10 reasons someone would date me for, i cook and clean and i am not a liar

[Havthrills]

Handy

Smartish

Make good money (that should be 1)

Try to be adventurous

(Can I stop there?)

[Havthrills]

Honest
Reliable
(Still trying to think of more)

[NathanDavis]

funny... they like funny too

[Havthrills]

@NathanDavis oh yeah. But my sense of humor isn't for everyone.

[Havthrills]

As someone said... funny. Not in the looks so much, but funny

[NathanDavis]

maybe throw in some, "Good listener... as in, knows when to actually listen, instead of mansplaining, pointing out the obvious or list all of what you did wrong" they really value that as well... lol

[Havthrills]

@NathanDavis lol. That's about all I do is listen. Past ones, I couldn't get a word in and when I did, I was wrong usually. Even if the color is red it was dark red. I was way off. Lol

[PainusNdeeAnus]

1. I

2. Am

3. The

4. Ultimate

5. Sex

6. God

7. In

8. Human

9. Flesh

10. Plus I make a killer soufflé

[Subarugirl]

Well the first and most important is because they want to.

[Hollywoodhillz]

This should be a dating s. Y don't you all make a d with each o

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I have my positive side but I'm lazy as hell when it comes to dating and giving my time to others.

I don't have 10 reasons. 😕

[Guanfei]

Can't find any.

I'm loyal, maybe? I don't know.

[Owasso]

That's under the assumption that I'm at all interested in dating nowadays, which I'm not.😊

[cuckbetamale]

I cook clean listen well I'll do anything she asks me 2.

[18Uma21]

They shouldn't date me. They should marry me

[Mafia24]

No please I m not free...

[RandomGuy1032]

Please dont try to date me. Thank you!

[Vivaldi]

Why isn't there a woman as pathetic as me?

[jamesgoldman]

Nonewatsooecw hh

[hafinjun]

You mean in inches?