How do I get a guy to like me?

[Anonymous]

What can I do to get a guy (just in general) to be interested in me? Additionally, what are some attributes I should avoid which repel guys? In other words— what are your turn ons and turn offs / green flags and red flags, fellas?

[Anonymous]

This is an interesting question, I was just talking about this with the guys.

There are certain traits that most men find attractive on a woman, listing some of them, and they are all very important, so pay attention to all of them. We can mention: kind, caring, grateful, sympathetic, emphatic, friendly and laught. We must not forget to laugh with him, his jokes, etc... attributes you should avoid that are red flags are being rude, indifferent, careless, aggressive, clingy, intense, attention seeker and many others. BUT, I suggest to you not to clearly show you are into someone at the beginning, but at anytime not showing all the good traits I mentioned before. The main idea is to make him think: " Wow, I really enjoyed being around her, she likes me! right? Right? I'm not really sure..." eventually he will make a move.

It's not a secret that we are very visual creatures, so it is equally important to look good, I'm not saying to be a top model but take care of yourself. Eat healthy, skincare, nice style, use fragances, be attractive, be the best version of yourself.

Finally, and it will sound cliche but be yourself, feel good on your skin so then you'll proyect that to others, and you'll find the right person for you. Good luck!

[Guy13]

You can’t outside of sex. Either he likes or he does not.

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