What's your opinion on dating someone who lives 2 hours away?

[tstarr17]

So I went on a date yesterday with someone who lives 2 hours away from me. We agreed to meet in the middle. He had a good time, had lunch and went bowling. If she lived a little closer, I definitely would give her a 2nd date if she wanted. But right now, I'm very conflicted. 2 hours away is quite a while, especially for someone I've only met once. I know some people do it, but they already knew their other pretty well. Plus, gas prices aren't helping much. What do you guys think?

[LazerBean]

If everything went fun and comfortably, if all of our interests aligned, and if our values and goals were compatible, then it would be a shame to let 2 hours get in the way of an extremely good match considering how hard they are to find. Of course that only applies to when you are looking for a serious relationship.

[tstarr17]

I was thinking something like that as well, but this was just the first date. I don't think we have a huge amount in common, but it's also not like we have nothing in common.

[BJP21]

Meet half way somewhere? Just a thought. One hour for both of you.

[tstarr17]

We did do that for the date yesterday. Even then, that's still quite a drive, especially with today's gas prices. Although it's not as bad here as it is in other states.

[Guy13]

Too far away

[exitseven]

That would be my absolute limit.