Why do women dismiss me immediately?

[Tomisworthless]

one day ill upload a pic of myself so the pretty girls on here can judge me accordingly but I just left mcdonalds and this was another example. So after having my order taken rather quickly i pull up to the window and mind you i drive a BMW Mseries so it tends to draw attention until they see whose driving. So i pull up to the window and there are 2 girls there a pretty one and an average or so one. Immediately the pretty girl as she sees my arrive leaves and doesn't return, the other girl hands me my order in less than a min wo eye contact and doesn't say anything just closes the window and leaves. Being a 28yr old virgin im unsure of my sexuality given my experience with women throughout the years. I get ignored, dismissed, rushed, no responses, laughed at, insulted and so on.

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my male coworkers joke saying that car pulls bitches but i tell if it was anyone else but me then yeah lol. No i didn't buy to attract its my dream car in a sense and my 2nd ever vehicle first had 07 honda accord for 5 years prior to this

[BlueScorpio]

You where at mcdonalds, what did you expect? For them to roll out the red carpet? lol They probably just tired and didn't really care/notice you and wanted to get your order out the way. You drive a pretty decent car, but cars really just don't impress me that much.. it's just a car, like ever now and then I'll see a pretty cool car but that doesn't make me want the person who's driving it.

[Tomisworthless]

Jesus christ doesn't matter where it happens women will want to interact and be around men they are attracted to or respect and be overly friendly not closed off and dismissive.

Happens to me everywherre i go, work, restaraunts, college, public and stores

[Tomisworthless]

Exactly so thats what i said in the post i didn't buy my car to impress or attract attention i bought it for myself but i know what it brings

[BlueScorpio]

calm down i was just joking. Look at your name, you are calling yourself worthless. You are not worthless, this is why you need to be single for a while.. you need to find your self worth. How can you be in relationship and love someone when you think you're worthless? You have to love you first.

[Tomisworthless]

You do realize I’ve never dated nor been intimate at all. Shit I can’t remember the last time I was even hugged.

[Tomisworthless]

I treat myself the same way others do

[Tomisworthless]

How can others hate me when they don’t hate themselves first?

[BlueScorpio]

All I can say is talk to God about it. You need personal and inner growth in your life before you get into relationship.

[Tomisworthless]

Apparently im the biggest trainwreck then fuck it still haven't suicided despite all the requests to

[BlueScorpio]

dont do that, this is temporary problem. Throwing away your life over women isn't worth it.

[Tomisworthless]

Im probably just gay like everyone says ill be ok

[SnowedIn]

@tomisworthless you asked the same question yesterday and got a lot of GREAT answers. (See in particular the response from @AmandaYVR). Those answers are equal answers to the question you're asking here. The first Guy Anon answer below is another great reason.

Here's my answer: if you're going to ask questions about "why" but then not listen to the answers or do nothing for self improvement you won't find any improvement. Girls don't want perfect but they also don't want Eeyore. You have to demonstrate a willingness to make yourself better not wallow in pity.

[PrettyPriya]

That is a tough sell given his chosen username...

[SnowedIn]

@PrettyPriya agree...

[Tomisworthless]

Would agree so people are meant to be this way, as everyone has a role to play in life

[SnowedIn]

See, @Tomisworthless, I think that's where you're not correct. And what me and all the other answerers in this question and your other question are trying to say. Your life may suck. And you may not be able to change everything or make all the changes at once. But you CAN change. But you have to do it. Asking these questions is an awesome first step. But then you have be willing to take some of the advice and act on it.

[Tomisworthless]

Act on what exactly can’t change the way people view or treat you as if you’re the dirt to be stepped on and spit upon

[Tomisworthless]

Self esteem and confidence comes from how people value you and I have no value

[Tomisworthless]

I think my issue is I want to be straight but I’m so deeply closeted that everyone can see it and I’m miserable because I’m chasing a life not meant for me to live

[PrettyPriya]

You couldn’t be more wrong.

[Tomisworthless]

But I don’t want to be gay because I love God as he is my only companion in this life and I pray I don’t burn for an eternity for this life already is hell on earth for me

[Tomisworthless]

@PrettyPriya yeah ok youve yet to see me or interact with me in person to say such things

[PrettyPriya]

Don't need to. I can read. It is all right here and in your user history.

[Tomisworthless]

@PrettyPriya Ok well can you comprehend what youve read?

[nolabels]

McDonalds? Seriously?

I'm sure you can find better places to have your mechanically inflated ego popped, which it will continue to do so until your personality surpasses that which you perceive of your steel horse having.

Good luck to you, truly, good luck, you're gonna need it.

[Tomisworthless]

you're delusional i was adding context to the situation. I can be on foot in the mall and be treated as such just as i was the other day at macys

[Anonymous]

If you see yourself as the user ID you've given yourself, then in general most other people will pick up on that energy and follow suit. 'Death and life are in the power of the tongue' (Proverbs 18:21). Therefore you give your reality power each time you post, with each thought, and each time you see it.

[Agape93]

Lmao 😆🤣

[In_Trance]

Read your description and you'll see why

[AsaKyo]

Lmao..

[PrettyPriya]

Well said...