Always takes too long to reply Has a lot of male friends Is always out drinking Is really materialistic (expects expensive things all the time , and will ask you a lot of questions relating to work and how much you earn )
someone with multiple kids by different men always a very telling sign even when i meet females as friends. someone who lies about the smallest things, negative, lazy, hates to work, no ambition etc.
Too aggressive. Not aggressive enough. Wants nudes in the first message. Wants sex before the first date has even started. Wishy washy/unwilling to commit. Only talks about sex. Talks about exes all the time. Disrespectful.
My biggest red flag is if she wants me to take her "shopping" as a date. That's an obvious red flag for a gold digger. I also don't date women who start talking about their religion all the time. I'm okay with dating a different religion but if you're super religious and talking about your God (s) all the time, then that's a red flag and I just leave.
And I don't really like women with a ton of tattoos. Some guys like it, but I don't.
Anger is a common one for men, a general inability to understand what appropriate social behavior looks like in a given context. General personal sloppiness, poor hygiene.
- You have to chase him. This doesn't need explanation. - He demeans you in front of his friends. - Always has some sort of issue with your friends no matter how nice they are. - Contrarianism. If you see this, run away.
- Overly aggressive - Everything is alpha or beta (this is a way to guilt you and control you) - Simping - Women can do no wrong mentality - Doesn't know how to dress or decorate -Apathy -Disagreeableness -Black and white thinking
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(25-29)
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As someone already mentioned, it's definitely a red flag if a guy wants/expects sex on the first date. Unless casual sex is all you're looking for, that type of guy should definitely be avoided.
Another big red flag is if a guy proudly supports feminism. That one should require no explanation.
Wanting just a one-night stand, Men take Ladies out to Dinner then they expect to go back to his place for sex or go back to her place for sex on Ladies these are Red Flags
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)
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1. When she's negative, 2. when she says a guy HAS TO approach her first, 3. when she has children (by more than one man), 4. when she has a significant body count, 5. when she's in a lot of debt, 6. when she asks how much I make/what I do for a living, 7. when she overly flirtatious/oversexed, 8. when she repeatedly makes the same mistakes, to name a few.
Women: Clingy, dependent on you for an identity, and gossipy. Men: Acting entitled to sex, feeling entitled act out because of anger or jealousy, calling women bitches.
This is coming from a different GAG post but if a dude is attractive, he has a lot of girls behind him and he's not going to treat you any special. If you want to have a long term meaningful relationship, stay away from hot guys
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(25-29)
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Always puts her wants and needs first
Doesn’t like food, music or other sensual pleasures.
Not adventurous with trying new food or experiences
Puts down normal guy hobbies like sports and games and generally acts like a princess
Too good for oral and anal but wants the guy to go down on her.
Why bother with half measures such as red flags? If someone is doing something illegal/immoral why not just call them out instead of wasting time on flags?
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Always takes too long to reply
Has a lot of male friends
Is always out drinking
Is really materialistic (expects expensive things all the time , and will ask you a lot of questions relating to work and how much you earn )
someone with multiple kids by different men always a very telling sign even when i meet females as friends. someone who lies about the smallest things, negative, lazy, hates to work, no ambition etc.
Too aggressive. Not aggressive enough. Wants nudes in the first message. Wants sex before the first date has even started. Wishy washy/unwilling to commit. Only talks about sex. Talks about exes all the time. Disrespectful.
My biggest red flag is if she wants me to take her "shopping" as a date. That's an obvious red flag for a gold digger. I also don't date women who start talking about their religion all the time. I'm okay with dating a different religion but if you're super religious and talking about your God (s) all the time, then that's a red flag and I just leave.
And I don't really like women with a ton of tattoos. Some guys like it, but I don't.
Anger is a common one for men, a general inability to understand what appropriate social behavior looks like in a given context. General personal sloppiness, poor hygiene.
Going by male friends I've had... here goes.
- You have to chase him. This doesn't need explanation.
- He demeans you in front of his friends.
- Always has some sort of issue with your friends no matter how nice they are.
- Contrarianism. If you see this, run away.
- Overly aggressive
- Everything is alpha or beta (this is a way to guilt you and control you)
- Simping
- Women can do no wrong mentality
- Doesn't know how to dress or decorate
-Apathy
-Disagreeableness
-Black and white thinking
As someone already mentioned, it's definitely a red flag if a guy wants/expects sex on the first date. Unless casual sex is all you're looking for, that type of guy should definitely be avoided.
Another big red flag is if a guy proudly supports feminism. That one should require no explanation.
Wanting just a one-night stand, Men take Ladies out to Dinner then they expect to go back to his place for sex or go back to her place for sex on Ladies these are Red Flags
1. When she's negative, 2. when she says a guy HAS TO approach her first, 3. when she has children (by more than one man), 4. when she has a significant body count, 5. when she's in a lot of debt, 6. when she asks how much I make/what I do for a living, 7. when she overly flirtatious/oversexed, 8. when she repeatedly makes the same mistakes, to name a few.
When they are holding a red flag. Watch out.
Women: Clingy, dependent on you for an identity, and gossipy.
Men: Acting entitled to sex, feeling entitled act out because of anger or jealousy, calling women bitches.
Being hot and attractive
This is coming from a different GAG post but if a dude is attractive, he has a lot of girls behind him and he's not going to treat you any special. If you want to have a long term meaningful relationship, stay away from hot guys
Always puts her wants and needs first
Doesn’t like food, music or other sensual pleasures.
Not adventurous with trying new food or experiences
Puts down normal guy hobbies like sports and games and generally acts like a princess
Too good for oral and anal but wants the guy to go down on her.
women
- avoidance of accountability, living in excuses and delusion
- low self-esteem, insecurity, jealousy, and doubt
- entitlement, selfishness, and being self centered
Why bother with half measures such as red flags? If someone is doing something illegal/immoral why not just call them out instead of wasting time on flags?
I think a red flag for us would be asking a lot about money and mainly wanting a partner for their money.
We're all different but I think incel men who are simps/feminist/liberals/Bi (Gay)/SJW/cucks/Bums
Are all red flags and all demasculated themselves making them someone you should watch out for
Fake hair (the kind that makes her look ridiculous)
Fake nails
Fake eyelashes
Fake big breasts
Wear/has a butt lift
Botox
Etc.
A woman that always competes with other women. In groups, openly compares herself to others to make her self look better.