So I started talking to this girl?

[Anonymous]

Me and this girl met through tinder. 1st day I couldn’t get enough of her we were on FaceTime for hours. 2nd day we kinda talked but I was busy. 3rd day we met up and I went to her apartment. She is super nice and offered me food and we smoked a couple blunts. She laid her head on my chest when we were on the couch. After that we just were watching tv etc. It was overall a good night. But the next day (today) I almost don’t wanna talk to her as much. But I genuinely care for her and like her.

Does anyone know why I feel like this or something?

[EmbraceThePain]

Normal.

I get that way many a times, perhaps all the time.

You just get somewhat tired or overwhelmed mentally.

Mayne you spent too much time in your head thinking about her which may have burnt you out temporarily?

Also, how did she lay her head on you and you two didn't become more intimate? I don't mean to pry, rather, I'm just wondering how something like that happens and nothing further occurs.

I think it may have been a sign she was giving? Or maybe you weren't in the mood at the time? I'm not sure, again, I'm just curious.

Again, to recap, even if you just meet someone, you can burnt out due to mentally/emotionally thinking or involving yourself with them.

I can spend 1-2 days with a woman and get tired or burnt out from hanging out with her because I may have had her in my head all those two days which is a lot to be thinking about someone like that

[Guy13]

She’s butt ugly in daylight ⁉️
😎🙌 ☀️ 👧🙌😎

[Daniela1982]

Sounds to me like you were both looking for a hookup - Tinder, pot, and hanging on a couch with her head on your chest. But no one made a serious move. So I'm thinking you both got turned off that the other one didn't do anything and your time was wasted. Is that how it is?