Can I make a comeback?

[Anonymous]

Long story short is that I like this guy who completely friendzoned me. We were sleeping together , but he felt he didn’t find me as attractive as he did before. I also held back a lot as I’ve been hurt before which didn’t help, and yes I explained it to him.

I have tried so hard to make a comeback here , but I think I’m fighting a losing battle. I want to back off and give time for him to miss me maybe , but me not trying hard enough was an issue in the first place.. I also don’t want to keep chasing a push him further..

Is there even any hope?

[CanadianLearner]

Well, if you chase now, then you are more likely to come across as needy, given the circumstances and your current mindset.

You could try seducing him like someone else suggested, with various teasing.

Or, you could be direct, say something like,
"Friendship doesn't work for me, I cannot be around you now and not be with you. If you change your mind, then let me know".

Then walk away, and be willing to never return unless he reaches out.

[Kryzo]

No there isn't. You'll likely end up a cat lady and die alone.

[Asker]

Well that’s lovely lol

[Kryzo]

Just telling you the truth.

[In_Trance]

no, move on