Wow, that's a great question and really makes me think.
No, I don't think I would date me. Well, maybe I would? I don't know, it depends on what I was looking for. I think I would be a lot of fun to hang out with, and I can be very nice, fun, generous, &c. So, a pleasant experience for the most part.
I also think it is tough to date me, I'm also selfish and have boundaries so I don't always please the other person first, which I think is what a lot of people look for. I know I look for someone who wants to please me, and I want to please in return, but I also run into issues when other people expect me to put them before myself. I don't know if I expect that of other people, I don't think I do. I might be too independent to be good for dating, unless the other person is also comfortable with independence.
I think I would be a good friend with benefits, an occasional lover, or someone even to have a deep connection with, but not a good candidate for a "attached at the hip" type relationship.
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First time I've came across with such question. It's quite interesting to be honest because I doubt we often ask if we would ever date ourselves!.
In terms of "Would I", like I said, I've never thought till now so let me see.
If it's about my loyalty, kindness, support, love and affection. The answer is YES.
To be fair and honest, I do have some traits I need to work on. Such as some insecurities because of my childhood traumas or my past experiences.
So it would be challenging to understand deep down myself. So I'll say 60% yes. But I would of encouraged the remaining 40% to be a better version of myself. And by doing so, I would be a very supportive partner to overcome those scars.
Yes.
Even though I’m a pretty detached person. I understand I can be this way for a reason though. Pretty much everything negative about me, I am that for a reason: my introversion, highly opinionated, I also judge harshly, etc but for reasons. For example, If a person says they admire Andrew tat (I just learned who that was). That is extremely questionable to me. I would be highly skeptical of that person and I would ask them questions because I hate wasting my time especially on the wrong people
I also know I am loyal, kind, and considerate for the right person. I’m never fake I’m actually pretty bad at pretending. If I’m having bad sex, I won’t moan or stroke an ego. That’s just me. And I won’t do out to make a guy feel bad, it’s because I’m horrible at lying to myself and others. I’m also super genuine. Pretty sure I’m perfect for myself lol
I dint think so? There's a high chance we would never meet or interact cause I'm very introverted and keep to myself. I'm sure my male self would be the same way.
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We might show the same type of guilt when one person doesn't talk too much. Other than that, I'd probably run for the hills.
I would. But I probably would find it hard to understand me.
Of course. I'm interesting, good looking and pretty good in bed. Why wouldn't I, as a girl, date myself (the guy).
Honestly, I would in a heartbeat. I don't think it's cocky to believe this. I always wanted a girl who's just like me. I think I'd get along with myself so well, and I would feel confident in knowing how faithful we'd be to each other. In fact, the last girl I dated reminded me of a younger version of myself, and I loved that, but it didn't work out in the end because obviously we had our differences. Different cultures and she was not mature enough, but I did find myself thinking she might be great in about 6 years. That's our age difference by the way.
Yeah, I think I would. I'm pretty humble and easy-going... not something younger women necessarily want but a lot of older women like those attributes.
I'm still attractive and in decent shape (for 54).
Positives: I have a good sense of humor, try to be "happy go lucky", wear my heart of my sleeve, and have a passion for music (been playing guitar for 40 years now).
Negatives: I've never been very ambitious. Money is just a tool to me, not something I really strive for. A short temper but then I'm over it. Baggage! My love died July 4th 2018, we were planning our wedding for that December. I think about her every single day. I've dated a few times in the past year or so and I'm honest about my feelings but I don't think most women want to deal with a man trying to get over his grief.
It's certainly an interesting topic you bring up though!
Yeah, most likely. Although I'm not sure how girls are wired, on one hand, (going by how girls seems to be) I'd see that he was a very kind, loving, loyal, caring guy, very tall and not bad-looking (possibly very good looking, according to some girls), and he's the kind of guy I've been looking for for a long time but, on the other hand, I'd see how wonderful he is and start running for the hills to get the hell away from him and into the waiting arms of the nearest abusive asshole I could find to spend my life with!! But, I'd at least keep him on the back burner as someone whose shoulder I could cry on when I get beat up by my new boyfriend!
From what I can see, THAT'S the way girls are!! Just thinking about it is actually really bringing me down!! It's REALLY SAD!!I don’t know… as a woman, being raised when I was, as a girl? Would I be like a lot of women or would I be more like ”me… me?”
My interests would probably be a little different … so let’s say like my sister, though younger. Would I have had the difficulties dating guys that “guy me” has had dating (women)? Would I expect “Guy me” to provide, and would I expect a level of income outside of my league? Or would “girl me” be unattainable (maybe I have just married some shmuck of a guy early on to get out of my situation, and girl me is either stuck in a bad marriage, or divorced with kids)?
I know a woman who I personally would have thought I would have been successful with. But for all we are so similar, she’s not interested. So would guy me date girl me? Probably. Would girl me date guy me? Harder to say.Assuming my personality remains pretty much the same as a guy, not at all. I wouldn't be my type in both looks and personality. In a relationship, we would clash a lot since our ambitions and wants wouldn't mix well. I would get along with male me as a friend (same vice versa) but not as a relationship. I wouldn't do it, as a man or as a woman.
No, I’m a nightmare…
I need lots of attention, reassurance and I’m jealous.
I don’t really have a wondering eye anymore (I say this generally) if I see someone extremely hot then I note this but do nothing. I do like attention from the person I describe though.Hard to say. I wonder if you could truly step outside yourself and observe yourself for awhile, would you be surprised by what you see and observe? I'm pretty sure I would be... Even the sound of your own voice on recording can be quite shocking.
100%. Would be pretty fun we would get into some right kinky shit. Along with knowing how to respond to each other and when we are both not in the mood. They would buy similar shit so we could always just share. We could keep the same amount messy.
Of course I would definitely want to date somebody who doesn't play video games doesn't watch sports and doesn't want to stay home all the time and doesn't drink or smoke pot but loves coffee loud music and an adventure even if it's only an hour away from home
No, because I'd be a woman and women notoriously do not like short guys or men who are less than physically perfect nowadays. If I WERE a woman and knew me as well as I know myself, I'd admit that I - the true male me - would be one of the smartest, most profound, but complicated and flawed people I'd ever meet and would make a truly interesting partner "to someone" out there. But still, "he's only 180 centimeters and he's black and he's overweight and ugly; Michael B. Jordan he ain't! I only get with Michael B. Jordan and Chris Pratt types!" As a woman, I wouldn't be good enough for female-me being less than an 8.5.
It’s a difficult question if you overthink it. If I had a similar mindset and life experiences almost without a doubt. I could get along with me pretty well. But realistically and gauging from how different my sister and I am, I would probably be a completely different person, so I don’t know- maybe not?
I forget what the show was but I saw this thing in Amazon prim that was basically a B rated gamers show about people getting sucked in to a game they all played and then needing to live it out until they could find a way home. Kind of a sword art on line kind of thing but live action and super B rated. Anyways one of the main characters ends up finding out that a man leading this camp she has been trying to get to for a long time was actually a male version of herself. She had made herself two or three characters in the game. So she had sex with him. It was wicked weird!! Haha!
For me though. I would maybe want to have sex with myself so I knew what I was doing… haha! But no!Nah, I'm too much of a romantic. Also, I'm not adventurous. The house will be dull. I go out with women who are fierce and like to go out cos it helps me move to rather than only go to work.
I also love crazy cos the sex is always fire. I mean so far the ones I've dated.
I'm too calm that I tend to handle crazy girls. They rarely have one over me.Absolutely. I want someone who is chill, who doesn't make a fuss out of everything, who doesn't feel the need always be out and about, and who appreciates the little things. That's pretty much me in a nutshell.
Oh hell to the yeah. we can pool incomes and do wicked cool shit. I consider myself pretty reasonable and love to spar verbally. I don't know might be a bit weird sometimes but we could talk through it and reach a good compromise.
nah. I'd want someone taller, stronger, better-looking and has more money and social status than me. he has to be better than me in almost every single way for me to feel feminine. more importantly, other girls want him too.
I like this question lol
I dont think I would, mainly because, what I (would) look for in a partner, is not what I provide in a relationship, so someone would end up feeling like their needs werent met.
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