Girls, Am I going Crazy or do you think its nothing to worry about?

[FireWheel]

I am 26 and been Single most of my Life I take Love personal and just haven't found the Right person... Until 3 weeks Ago This Girl messages Me saying there Shy and always had a Crush on me Since High school and Really wanted To Date me... She seems beautiful but the thing is I dont remember Her at All... I decided to Go ahead and Date her... She won't Send me any personal Photos of herself witch I find odd... She calls me "Daddy" I don't know if She playing with my Heart or this is a Real Thing She Really Sweet and I do want to Care I just dont know if this is a freaking Mess with my Anxiety so High or She is So Shy she just won't send me those... this is stressing me out too much.. -FW

[SueShe]

Define the term "personal photos".

If those personal photos are meant to be nudes, then obviously she will not send them because she has enough intelligence to know that those pictures will be lost in the depth of the internet once this relationship is over.

If those pictures are only non nude portraits of her, then it could be a little odd since she is the one that contacted you to tell you she has a crush on you.

I would be very cautious with that person because one does not just call someone else "daddy" without knowing that person more in detail.

If you are stressed because she will not send you nudes, then forget about her and work on your issues and you should perhaps seek the help of a professional.

[CA4444]

Why would she be lying or playing? you’re suspicious because she’s not sending nudes? There could be explanations, first she’s shy, she may want to be more intimate with you before sending nudes (like just meeting with you maybe and trusting you more) or maybe she has insecurities? To me sending nudes sounds like just hooking up on tinder not like proper dating, a little bit anyway… nudes can come later of course, she probably expect real sex more than nudes, just explain to her what you want it doesn’t always make sense to girls to send nudes girls are not visual

[Anonymous]

You must be doing something wrong.