Why do women only care about money and what a guy has when it comes to dating/marriage?

[Anonymous]

[BlueScorpio]

Why do men seem to care so much about youth, beauty, and sex from women? And it's not the only thing women want from a man, but a man who shows he can be a good provider for their family is bonus in many women's eyes. The reason women look for this in a man is cause we don't want to financially struggle, they don't want to see their kids go hungry, their husband's stressed out, and possible living on the streets.

One minute we're told our standards are too high then the next they aren't high enough if we a choose a man who turns out to be crappy partner that abuse or leave us behind with a couple of kids. This is why women are highly selective and need to be cause when we aren't, men and the world are not kind to us about it.

It's the same way in the animal kingdom. The males know if they want to mate they have to prove themselves as the best option possible. They aren't online angry about the female being picky, they up their game and skills with each mating season. A male bird will dance his heart away and rebuild a nest many tines over until he finds a female that approves. That's how it's always been. But today to many man want women to come easy and often tines when they do. They don't respect such women.

[Anonymous]

Only a guy would post something as silly as this.

Nice try though.

[GreenLanternI0I]

Guy has to have a sufficient amount of resources to be able to provide for his potential future family, but that also mean a girl has to give what a guy wants (sex at any moment he wants). UNLESS a girl/woman is able to provide all the resources herself, but having such an advantage would dwindle her chances from getting a Real man, because if real man is unable to provide all the resources himself for his potential family, would mean he would not be considering himself as a man of a household. Meaning a girl with all the resources will be getting not a Man, but rather a boy who will be sustained by a girl and most if not all girls do not want to have a boy, they want to have a MAN.

[Fireguy17]

There are a lot of women that don't care, but there were many that do.
When I would start dating someone I would use my pickup.
It was older, but clean inside, very reliable, didn't smell.
If she was ok with that and we were to date for longer, I would start using one of my cars.
I tell them I was an aggregate transportation specialist.
Back then I drove a dump truck and operated heavy equipment.
I never told the what was ahead of me, and that was something to do until my parents retired and I was going to take over the family business.
Most couldn't care less, but there were a few that weren't thrilled.

[Guy13]

You are naïve…. Self interest and preservation reigns supreme in a fallen human heart 🫀

[GreenLanternI0I]

Well said Guy13, Well Said. You have wisdom over knowledge.

[Anonymous]

They young and foolish, probably lacked good male role models growing up and as a result have zero clue on how to determine a guys character. So they erroneously look for the the guy with fat pockets thinking that'll make up for it. 🤣🤣🤣

Pity them, they're going to be in for a world of hurt until the wise up (if at all). Some never learn.

[UniquelyBasic]

I dont think its all they care about but id say women care about money because of living a certain lifestyle and to know they will have security along with their kids being provided for.

[Berethor]

Because in old days women was not having jobs, nowadays it's a gold digger trait.

[BJP21]

If you are referring to financial stability yes that is important in any given relationship.

If your saying caring about money in terms of being a gold digger thats no good.

[MannMitAntworten]

I cannot say that is true by any stretch. Plenty women have married men who have less and earn less then she does.

[Anonymous]

The divorce where she gets half is like hitting the lottery for some of them.

[bamesjond0069]

Because everyone does what they find is in their best interest. Its human nature.

[Anonymous]

What else has a man to offer to a woman in relationship?

[Cedman]

Because running out of money sucks.