Why is it when I’m on one on one dates with a man, they always seem attracted to me and like me but strangers that are men ignore me?

[Anonymous]

And don’t even glance of look at me

[Jamie05rhs]

🤦🤦 Because you're with another dude! 🤦. ... Wow...

Look. Let me try to be nice and explain this to you as carefully as I can. Gentlemen have a thing called the "Bro Code.". It's a system of chivalry among males. Decent dudes follow this code, in the same way that good citizens follow the law. It's a common code of respect among fellow members of the community; and it's a way to keep the peace in society.

It goes like this: If a dude has a girl, you leave his girl alone. You don't look at her. You don't talk to her. You don't flirt with her. You don't "peacock" in front of her. You don't do anything. You leave her alone. You maintain a respectful distance.

This is a way of respecting the "game" of another dude. He got there first.
Don't be like Putin and start a war because you want to take someone else's land. It's not yours. It's theirs.

In addition, this is also a means of respect for the woman. You are trusting her judgement. She chose HIM, not you. So by following the Bro Code you are also giving deference to the autonomy and self-determination of the woman.

[Asker]

Lol, thank you but I mean when i'm alone, nobody gives me attention

[Jamie05rhs]

Ohhhh. My bad. Lol

[Asker]

LMAO ur funny

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, thank you! Haha 🙃

[Sevenpointfive]

he's really not. oh shit! bro code my bad. carry on

[Jamie05rhs]

@Sevenpointfive Haha thanks lol.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO!

[boggboss]

Because if your on a date they have already to some degree made it clearly they are attracted to you random strangers don't tend to just treat women as a whole like they are dating them when going about there day

[Asker]

True true, but it’s like I notice other women getting attention

[Asker]

Ooo I see, as a whole

[boggboss]

Maybe they are more attractive then you or dress more provocatively or are able to get guys attention so guys feel she wants to approach

[Asker]

Ooo true, do you find short or long hair more attractive on girls

[boggboss]

I find longer hair attractive but know some girls look amazing with short

[Anonymous]

Well, you’re on a date and showing attraction to you if they feel it is expected. Random men on the street obviously won’t have that same energy, especially with all the awareness around catcalling and stuff these days.

[Asker]

How can I make them all like me

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you need every man to like you? Besides, that isn’t possible. Everyone has different tastes, even the hottest celebs have people who don’t find them attractive.

[inhua]

do you want the attention of random strangers? is the man you're on a date with not attractive enough but the random strangers are?

[Anonymous]

Guys on dates are trying to get something and since they are in that environment, there is more chance. With strangers it's different. It's like how a hungry individual will act inside of a bakery Vs just walking by.

[RavVid]

You are on a date and want to crack onto other men or other men to crack onto you?

[Anonymous]

Because you're not attractive to attract our attention.

[Asker]

LMAO true but why is it on one on one dates they always seem to like me and want more?

[Opinion Owner]

If you put food in front of hungry man than he will try to eat no matter how ugly food is.

[Asker]

LMFAO not really cuz I tried not dressing up and guys immediate didn’t seem attracted to me

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't seen you yet than how can I decide ma'am. It's better you post your pic.

[Asker]

Maybe it’s my personality

[Asker]

Is that u in ur pic or somebody else

[Opinion Owner]

No Ma'am personality came into game after meeting... but at first your look matter.

[Asker]

Yeah then why they so nice to me and like me but no stranger give a shot about me lol

[Opinion Owner]

Again for stranger look matters first...

Yeah it's me in pic

[Asker]

Wow ur good looking, what do u do to keep fit

[Opinion Owner]

Workout. & Sex.

[Asker]

LMAO

[Opinion Owner]

Sex is great exercise trust me

[NerdInDenial]

They don’t want any negative accusations.

[Anonymous]

🤣🤣🤣