If a man can't physically pick you up, leave him alone?

[Anonymous]

Is she right about this?

[Pinky_what_why]

Loll tbh I don't even know how to reply to dis

Honestly some women would say agreed and u would still catch them with someone smaller than them, no offense I'm not throwing shade just explaining

Then we have some women who would leave 😶

Personally If you really like someone I don't think you should leave the just because they can't lift you... how about both y'all go to the gym to get stronger and fitter together.

[Izzy_3991]

Haha! What? How crazy is that thought?
I don't expect a man to lift 150 kilos - 300 pounds. Men are strong, yes, but they aren't superhuman.

[Asker]

She made me feel insecure about my masculinity

[Izzy_3991]

Understandable.
I wouldn’t listen to that nonsense. Just a feeling... but I think that post is shaming men in general if they aren’t able to lift plus-sized women.

[JDavid25]

That's silly.. It's mainly "Black" women who say that mess.. And you know how heavy some of them are.. What if their SO is handicapped? Nobody is gonna try and bench press some 230lbs+ woman.. Maybe just lose some weight if you wanna get picked up so bad..

[NamerOfStars]

"Right" in what sense? If musculature is what she values most in a man, then her attitude makes sense; if she wants a man who's a good partner, who's intelligent enough to carry on a conversation and bold enough to have adventures with, then it doesn't.

Most likely, she's vapid and rather shallow, but has the decency to be upfront about it (whether intentionally or otherwise). Be grateful for that, and move on.

[NewYorkCity]

As a man, I see truth to his statement. Physically weak man, means he has a weak physical DNA and if that weak guy got super lucky finding a wife, that means his children would also be weak, if not weaker than him and his children, especially if it would be a boy, would have much less if any chances of getting laid.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Who ever wrote this is stupid. They don't know that every man and woman is different in bodybuild?
I am not a petite woman. I won't be disappointed if you can't pick me up.

[Looksnicholas]

I'll be honest, I'm pretty weak, so I guess that means I should keep embracing my happy bachelor lifestyle 😅 hooray me

[inhua]

or maybe she should lose weight otherwise every man would leave her alone?

[Agape93]

No, that's a dumbass metric