Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI’m sorry to say this but you have to accept the truth that.. you have to attract your own kind.
If let’s say you are 6’1 tall oh wow so great right but have autistic features or not proportional you are not going to attract any women who has attractive appealing features. I have realized women like a man who has a bit of everything. Like a circle who’s a bit funny a bit charming a bit tall a bit lose and not stuck that do not do conversation that are awkward. You would be surprised how some guys are so awkward I don’t know why it’s like their 2 left brain cells gave up on them. For example when you start talking with a guy and they start talking about sexual stuff to connect easily.. it’s a no! So you have to be a bit careful of what you say too.
Sorry for my bad explanation but I think some people can underhand it easily when explained easily.
In my opinion people suffer to find someone because they don’t know who they are. So they look into wrong people when searching for a partner. If Of let’s say you are a take - it -easy -person so slow don’t know much about the world you can’t really match with someone who adventurous.. they will quickly get bored of you. Try to know who you are 1st. It will be easier. Don’t focus so match on if you are tall or I’m tall. Yeah you are tall but your looks don’t match with how I look and how my future kids will look. Like yeah make the calculations.02 Reply- +1 y
You sound like a lonely woman
Opinion Owner+1 yYou sound very happy
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It isn't about height though, you need to be attractive in either looks or brain to attract a good mate, let's face this_ Humans are visual animals
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I don't know about that. Vast majority of tall guys I know are dating somebody
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@WhiteBoyChill how tall are you buddy?
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She’s right though. I don’t have a difficult time and I’m only like 5,8
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DesiUwU, im 6'3" and women have never like me, I believe its because I'm a nice guy fair honest hard working farmer with honor and integrity I treat people the way I expect to be treated and women stay away from me like I have the plague
Most women prefer an asshole that treats them like shit and don't give me the time of day
I've seen this pay out over and over and over in all my years till I finally gave up and walked away from the dating scene and i am content to live alone and leave my 5.3 million dollar in assets to my cat when I die - +1 y
@peedy do you brag a lot? are you full of yourself? are you smart or dumb? good lookin or average? what are your beliefs? politics? do you want a wife who does everything for you and dotes on you, or do you want to share labor? are you maternal? do you SMELL good? etc
height isn't everything y'all
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+1 yFirst and foremost women will deny this. They almost unanimously insist height doesn’t matter when their actions suggest otherwise.
Secondly taller guys just generally tend to have more confidence.
And thirdly its just biology. Women tend to feel more protected around taller men than shorter men.
And I say this as a short man myself. While I could spend my time crying and saying life isn’t fair, it also isn’t fair to all those women who don’t get a chance because men deem them unnattractive.
But that’s just the nature of how life goes. Certain people are always gonna lose out my man.
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15K opinions shared on Dating topic. Because short guys recognize the fact they're short and never move past it
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What about a color pencil?
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u +1 yThis sounds lke something that short guys say when they have problems with women. Like. . . everything that ever happens to a short guy is because he is short!
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Bud. I don’t know any guys shorter than me in relationships. Its really not that simple
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@WhiteBoyChill And I would guess that there are short ladies who have the same complaint.
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I don't know. There’s plenty of short girls I know getting snatched up
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The disrespect
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+1 yYeah why booo hooo hooo hoooey
00 Reply They do? Hmm. I grew up in international communities... and the GOOD women... can be found in Southeast Asian and Latin communities. The vast majority of their boyfriend's... are pretty short. Their relationships last. Living in flyover states... the White/Black American females always go for tall guys yes... and VERY FEW of them have what can even REMOTELY be described as a halfass relationship. Baby mama's, ex con boyfriend's who are unemployed and on child support, dope addicts up the ass, wannabe celebrity/gangsta trailer trash types, etc. Every possible type of dysfunction one can imagine. No halfway decent guys approaching them. The GOOD women... head to Latin/Asian areas. Stable relationships, and not based on Hollywood/gangsta nonsense.
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This is what I’ve been thinking all along. For some reason my interactions with latins and Asians have mainly been positive.
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@WhiteBoyChill We are the B-E-S-T !
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@PinkRose24 Its strange really. How the difference of a country can affect your pairing. Here in the US I would have to spend hours trying to find a girl that I could at the very minimum, spend a two hour car ride with
+1 yQuality over quantity. women that place height as one of the important traits isn't a good woman to be with. They are more likely to not see personality of a guy and place physical appearance before personality. I'm a short guy myself. I wouldn't spend a single second with a woman that places importance on height.
21 ReplyIt's a cliche. A lot of women like their men to be tall, which isn't always great. I am not tall and this has been one of my biggest downfalls (also being not so good looking doesn't help much either haha).
But... there are so many women out there who would quite happily date men that are not on the high end of the spectrum.
Hang in there buddy.
20 ReplyYes. Every single good woman on the planet flocks solely to those of us over 6'. You munchkins 5'11-3/4 and under get the leftovers.
j/k My 5'4 tall friend Phil seems to have found a really good woman, and she is 7" taller than he is.20 Reply- 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yBegs the question if tall guys indeed get all the good women, or are the women dating tall guys all good. Putting the fact aside that good means different things to different people, many short men are happily married whereas many tall men are not. I can tell you as a woman who has encountered men of all different heights, wallowing yourself in self-pity is ALWAYS a turn-off on any man, whether he is 5'4" or 6'4" it doesn't matter.
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+1 yWe do? That's news to me. I'm 6ft1 and slim-fit. Never had a date. So far. Been stood up twice. Go figure huh? ☺️😁
So be merry one and all. Looks can be deceiving. After all: I'm, for one, single ^_^
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Great question, upvoted 👍🏻 and best wishes to you stranger
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And I'm 28 1/2. So go figure merrily 🥳🥳
13.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I'm not tall and had no trouble getting dates. Now I'm happily married.
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+1 yHeight is a factor and it's a big factor but you get plenty of average and below average height guys being highly sort after due to other factors such as looks, d size and stuff. I go out a lot and been to over a hundred countries so I can tell you this with certainty.
00 ReplySaying a short guy gets as much attention as tall guys is like saying 39 yr old women get as much attention as a 21 yr old girl.
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Exactly. Its not even close
794 opinions shared on Dating topic. I'm 6ft1 and compete on a championship level.
Doesn't mean any gal will be interested in me by default.
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+1 yActually they don't. Plenty of tall guys have trouble talking to women
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+1 yPffftt. That is so not true. I've seen tons of tall guys get super toxic women. Height does not equate to being a good healthy minded person.
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+1 ySo all the guys who are average or below average height are dating bad women? Thats a lot of men who must be unhappy then.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yIt's not that we are attracted to tall men, it's that we are attracted to confident men... Confidence is easier to find than inches, but if that doesn't help, find some boots with stacked heels.
Good luck
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Lol what is it about confidence? In playful polite tone here, I mean surely confidence is overrated. No one wants a nervous wreck for a girlfriend or a boyfriend either, sure, but I mean confidence arrogance lol give me a simple down to earth soul any day of the week over 'that' alternative hahaha 🧐🧐😁
Opinion Owner+1 y@Looksnicholas you can be down to earth and confident without being arrogant... I think the kids call it BDE
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I don't know I'm almost 30 so I can't keep up with even people in my 20s even a year younger than my 28, so anyways I for one haven't found it so far and that's probably a good outcome for me if it's hard to find or a difficult quality that doesn't exist. Im sure women say often about men also. If only they were a bit more here a bit more there. You know. attitude quality is so important
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Oh well, laters , 🙂
+1 yAnd here I thought MCheetah was posting anonymously.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 ySays who? I'm 6'5" and I've had 2 women ask me out. If we get all the good women I'd like you to show me where they're at.🤣
10 Reply475 opinions shared on Dating topic. The guy born with no arms and legs, became succesful for his motivational speeches. He is now married to a normal sized woman and has kids.
Height on its own ain't shit.00 Reply4.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not sure they do. Average male height in the America is 5’9”, 5’4” for chicks. Girls just want someone taller than them usually. But even then, if they meet the right person, they might defer.
00 ReplyIn North america... actual good women are a rarity. These men just have sex with the women and there's nothing of substance usually.
20 ReplyConfident guys get all the women
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Asker+1 yAssholes with money
I am 6 foot 3 and a half and I never had a girlfriend in my entire life
00 Reply2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Huh? Where's my good woman then? I'd like to use my voucher to get one.
00 Reply5.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Women prefer tall men, and most refuse to date men they consider "short".
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yTall guys get all the good women? Is this a joke?
20 ReplyThan why am I always single
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+1 yI'm 25 years old, 6'4 and I kind of find that hard to believe.
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+1 yIt's not much easier for us either I'm 6'3"
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m +1 yit wasn't about my height though...
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+1 yOnly the handsome tall ones.
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+1 yBecause that's what women want.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yBecause women like tall guys?
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+1 yThey prefer short skinny guys
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+1 yAccording to who?
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yThey don't.
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