What would cheer a man up if he’s sad and depressed over text?

Question

This guy I’m dating is going through A LOT. What would cheer him up but over text as he’s not well at all. Men honestly what would cheer u up. I don’t wanna send a sentimental paragraph as I really don’t think that will help.

Weapon77 · Accepted Answer

Boob pics or something similar are great for me lol But considering the situation, I'd say maybe just a cute pic of you that is also flirty would work well. Like, maybe some cleavage or something is showing but not everything. Maybe wait for that and gauge his reactiom first. And what would REALLY work well is if you can send him a song he really likes, especially if you two have a couple song or something like that. Ypu might even send him a short video of you singing that song to him or dancing or something if you want. Anything that might take his mind off things and show you care about his situation.

Gent207-2 · Accepted Answer

Depending on his love language

Semd a Virtual hug

Offer to play a game i. e play halo on Xbox live or Words with friends (basically any activity that he finds meaningful and fun.)[Quality Time]

Offer to walk his dog or pickup his favorite meal (Acts of Service)

desperatelyhungry · Accepted Answer

Genuinely shocked only two men said nude pics lol. But yeah I would think let him know you’re there for him, or that you love him (I’d care deeply if y’all ain’t there yet) ask if there’s jaunting you could do for him perhaps

BlueScorpio · Accepted Answer

Call him, hearing a voice might actually help.

Amy10223 · Answer

Sometimes humor is the best medicine. If you can think of anything that would make him laugh, then sure enough he'd feel better. Good luck.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

It really depends on what he’s going through. If he’s dealing with a loss there isn’t anything you can do to help other than to offer to be there for him.

QuietVerbena · Answer

Just tell him you love him and you’re there for him

Sparkie460 · Answer

Why does it have to be In a text? Why don't you call him or meet with him? Let him hear or see how much you care by verbally talking to him or meeting with him. Just let him know you are there for him

tfan1 · Answer

Text him if he would like to come over or if you can go to his place. Once you two are together, let your imaginations run rampant. 🙂

SamK20 · Answer

Just let him know you care, and that you're there for him, in the way that you think is best. Be you. Don't get pressured into doing something you're unsure about, or don't want to do.

DCowboy4747 · Answer

I like funny animal videos, especially ones with baby goats. Your best option is to figure out something simple that makes him smile and send it to him.

Anonymous · Answer

He needs to hear your voice, not an emotionless text.

Wise4myage · Answer

Something really funny, or cute pics of you.

Anonymous · Answer

It would depend what he's depressed about. Most time just empathy makes me feel better. Just knowing someone listened helps a lot.

notwoke · Answer

"I want anal" That would cheer me up

chaser3233 · Answer

It’s hard to express yourself in emojis, in person sharing is much better. Touch and emotion, showing your face, helps a lot more.

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing makes me happier than a boob pic. Though that is not for the faint of heart.

aaron210419 · Answer

Just letting him know you're there for him

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Show him your tits

spartan55 · Answer

Nothing, go see him.

In_Trance · Answer

Nudes

OddBeMe · Answer

Boob pic.

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