I used a dating app, matched with this guy, we texted for a week and then he suggested meeting in real life - IRL. So we met in a nice coffe shop, I was quite nervous, but then I thought that the conversation was going good. But after that he stopped texting me. I know that it could be any reason for that but in general I think that I give not a good first impression. How to change that? Any tips for first IRL date?
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The first in real life date issue can be solved with practice and I have a real-life solution. Have you ever checked into www.meetup.com ? All one does is put there zip code in, select hobbies, sporting events, and/or social clubs of choice. Every event has real people and almost all are Single. It is a great venue to practice, interact, and get comfortable with being who you are.
You seem sweet, concerned, and conscious that you may have some rough areas. The meetup site is like a practice field and you make new friends who also have single friends, etc !! I am sure that you will be okay. :-)
Always try to be yourself and you should be fine. Consider asking him why he stopped texting.