I added this guy from my university on instagram and did something for the first time in my life… dmed a guy first. I told him I thought he was cute, he was very responsive and nice, would ask questions about me and tell me things like about getting to know him better but after a couple of messages he would always stop answering. It’s been a week since our last texts and honestly I think he’s really nice, cute and funny and I’m really interested in getting to know him better but I don’t know what to do next, if I should wait to see if he reaches out to me (since he basically ghosted me and I honestly don’t know if he’s interested) or if I should try again and maybe be more direct.
Please keep in mind we’ve only ever exchanged conversation by text, we’ve never seen each other in person and also i’m F21 and he’s M24. I also want to know if it would be too intense or desperate from my side since he has basically ghosted me a few times but I really don’t blame him, I’m basically a stranger and I don't know if my intentions were clear to him