+1 ySee there isn't anything that can be said here. That would change your mind just from your disposition and your statement before the question.
I will give you this example though. During my marriage I slept around, however I talked with my then wife about everything well before hand and we had agreed it was okay as long as I talked to her before it happened.Does that still make me a cheat, with her having full knowledge of the actions I was partaking in? I don't think so. As she knew, and had agreed.
So that you can't try to blow holes in this. I had a way higher sexual drive than she did. She wasn't able to keep up with me, and it got to the point she was saying no more than yes. So it was brought up as an option to help take some pressure off her also. No it wasn't a short conversation either. This was something that we discussed in length as to ensure we were both okay with and had agreed upon it.
So again did I cheat in your eyes?
Regardless of your view, no it was not cheating as stated above. Nothing with change that fact. However it changes your statement. Even if you are unable to accept it, if you are then kudos to you.
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+1 yI believe more women cheat. Why are so many women these days proposing "open relationships" to their monogamous mates?
It is much harder for a man to get sex, especially when the woman knows the guy is in a relationship. Any halfway decent looking woman has to do nothing at all except to be willing to have sex and there would be tons of guys biting at the bit to hook up. Guys can't do that.
With the gobs of cheating going on in this culture, the dynamics of sex and mathematic probabilities of who has to be willing to do it the man or woman... points that more relationship women have to be stepping outside of their relationships.
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+1 yI know plenty of perfectly happy couples.
Maybe you've had bad experiences and seen bad experiences. But that shouldn't shade your overall worldview. Expecting someone to disappoint you will only attract that behavior. Then you will always prove yourself right because you never gave them (or yourself) a fair chance.
Changing the people you date, how you perceive relationships, and growing as a person will help decrease the amount of times this happens to you. How you treat yourself will effect who you attract.30 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yHmm.. increase your standards from dating any moron that says hi, how are you at the local bar and you'd be surprised how local men can be when you're not "hooking up" with gutter trash that'd fuck anything with a vagina.
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+1 yWe are biologically created to pound as much ass as possible. Change my mind?
10 Reply 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes, all men cheat!..
Yes, Some women cheat!..
Hence, Some women are Men!
Hence, Men who don't cheat are women!..
Sweetie Loyalty is a construct, as long as you are Giving more than your partner is giving you, and you are getting raw end of the deal, and they think they are getting a good deal, depending upon what they desire!..
They will stay loyal to you.
Dogs are loyal because we feed them and also protect them and give them humanly comforts!..
Thus the quote go, "Hungry Dogs are seldom Loyal."
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Drugs are bad.
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@MadKez No, I don't want worshipers, I have flaws and I don't want anyone to be hurt when they see those.
Instead be a friend or love me, life is too damn short,
Me to my partner, "I know no one can be loyal for a lifetime, so when we wake up besides each other, every morning, we promise each other we are going to loyal today, and the day we don't feel loyal, just say 'I can do it today' and we will know we need to do something,, because one of is becoming a hungry dog, take things one day at a time."
No you change his mind! you keep him sexually satisfied and mentally happy he will do the same for you and never leave your side. Men are kinda like dogs you feed them, rub their bellies and say lovey duvy things to them they stay. Its when women start acting stupid like "you dont pay attention to me anymore" well have you been dressing sexy for him when he gets home? etc. etc. There are ways to keep your man happy and at your side but it takes the two of you to work at it! it doesn't take much to keep a guy happy.
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+1 yBrutally False statement. Hardcore religious Men would NEVER cheat on their wife's, because they are scared shitless of eternal consequences. That being said, most women in 2022 and beyond don't like/HATE religious men, because it is not ""trendy"" or cool or up to modern standards. So, they get exactly what they deserve which is cheating.
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Asker+1 yLmao my ex claimed to be super religious and still cheated 😬
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If that is true, he is not religious At ALL and that also means he is lying to himself. I'm sure you can agree with my statement.
Asker+1 yAbsolutely however I don’t agree that religion stops people from cheating
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Of course you don't, because you have never met a TRUE religious man. Believe me when I'm telling you 100% hardcore religious men and women place God and Jesus, before everything else and they would never ever EVER cheat or do something stupid to their life long partner, because they fully and truly understand and are aware of their eternal punishment.
+1 yI've never cheated, so even if I'm the only one (I'm not), then you're incorrect.
I've been cheated ON, so to suggest that I, being a man, would do something so horrific, disgusting, and hurtful to a woman is both insulting, and offensive.
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+1 yI don’t know if I can change your mind or not. I have certainly never “fooled around“ a partner. I can’t imagine ever doing that. But, and this is a very big butt, I have slept with a number of married women. I didn’t go after them. They came to me. But I certainly enjoyed myself and I worked to make sure they did too. So, am I a cheater? I don’t know
00 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. there are a lot of men who can't afford to cheat because they aren't attractive enough for a relationship so if you're drawn to attractive men whom women throw themselves at, then yes he's more likely to cheat due to having more options. but the vast majority of men are invisible to women anyways. those men don't seem to count.
00 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. A poll found that 73% of men said they'd cheat on their partner if they knew they'd never be caught while 68% of women said the same. Taken from Los Angeles though, so not good people sampled but yeah, people these days are pieces of shit, especially men
Not all, just 3/4 of them are unloyal pieces of shit in LA although if you move out to the country, you'll have much better luck00 Reply- 792 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yI'm gonna fix that status for ya.
The hot bad boy types like me who you REALLY desire all cheat. But face it, we're too hot and always have bigger D than the average beta boys that worship the ground you walk on. I know I'm right too, just gonna wait for your little azz to CONFESS to daddy
> ;-)~~<
00 Reply I can't i won't try to. BUT a lot of women cheat as well so its an unfair accusation. But more realistic than we realize
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yMy dad has never cheated on my mom. They've been married 26 years. While it may seem there's a lot of cheaters, there's still some loyal guys out there just gotta find that person who won't hurt you.
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Asker+1 yThe thing is, is you won’t ever know if he has or hasn’t lol
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yMust be nice to be so incredibly sexist. The same could be said for ALL women with your logic. Men are not one hive mind. It just does not work that way, to suggest otherwise is to show how stupid one can be. I personally have never in my life cheated, But i have been cheated on. Weather or not you believe this is irrelevant. You obviously won't because you're the typical feminist who believes he is right no matter how wrong she is.
00 ReplyNo thanks.
You can think whatever you wanna think
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+1 yI've never cheated, Most men have never cheated. If a world mostly full of men who don't cheat does not change your mind, nothing will.
Stop dating assholes and your problem will go away.10 Reply 4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. All the men you know cheat. That says a lot more about you than men. Apparently, you hang out with shitty people, maybe change the people you hang out with. Unless you consider porn cheating in which case a better statement is "everyone cheats".
10 ReplyThe only way I “cheat” is looking at porn videos. But I switch out the people in the videos to my wife and I in my eyes and mind while I masturbate. by the way my wife knows I masturbate and look at porn videos. 👍🙂
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+1 yhow about you post stats and proof to back it up first.
in the mean time ill just post this famous Christopher Hitchens quote:
00 Reply 4K opinions shared on Dating topic. No need to waste time debunking nonsense from an anon troll. @PrettyPriya
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Asker+1 yMy question doesn’t violate any rules, idiot lol and I haven’t fought back with anyone on here really.
Asker+1 ySo you deleted my comment but replied back? Lmao also, why do you think you are a threat? Using your title to be a trash person on the internet is rather no life status. Glad your only source of power is using your internet title to feel superior. Next.
Asker+1 yNot a mode on GirlsAskGuys acting like she’s god though 🥴😭
Asker+1 y🥴 Girl evidentially being a mod on a nobody app is a power trip to you, I feel bad lmao
Asker+1 yI’m breaking rules for asking a question and challenging people, haven’t argued with anyone regarding the topic at all lmao makes since. Remove my question idc. Where am I joking? I feel bad for people that only feel superior through the internet
Asker+1 yMakes sense*
Asker+1 yI haven’t insulted anyone on here besides you because you use your Mod title as a power trip. You could’ve left the question alone especially because I haven’t answered really anyone on this at all. You are the issue here. You need some serious therapy. Your MOH is literally 26% . As a MOD you seem problematic
Asker+1 yYou’re weirdo if you think you saying you’re a MOD will get me to feel any kind of way. The internet isn’t real life my dude lmao
Asker+1 yWeird*
2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Nobody should or can change your mind because that is strictly a you problem.
10 ReplyImpossible to do. Even if you dated one who does not and never would, you'd drive yourself crazy trying to catch him and would waste your whole time together instead of enjoying it.
00 ReplyNot all of them, my husband is a cheater though...🤷🏻♀️
00 Reply565 opinions shared on Dating topic. Well if you had proof, I be willin'... buuuuut
00 ReplyI don't cheat. Plenty of men don't cheat. No, I can't change your mind; it's already made up.
00 ReplyNot all men can get other woman even if they want to, women are the gatekeepers of sex.
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+1 yNo they don't the ones that cheat are cheaters its there lost there are actually good men out here
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+1 yNah, statistically, this is IMPOSSIBLE! I do not cheat under any circumstances.
00 Reply13.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. I never have and can't imagine a situation where I would, not as long as my wife is compos mentis.
00 ReplyI've never had to cheat because I absorb knowledge like a sponge.
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+1 yI never have!! All 3 of my women did, though!!
00 Reply I'm a man. I don't cheat, even though I have had plenty of opportunities.
00 Reply7.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes they don’t‼️
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Asker+1 yYeah they do lol
I don't think that's the case at all. My brother wouldn't ever cheat on his girlfriend. She might
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+1 yThey don't. Don't be delusional. If they do, then all women cheat too
00 Reply I've been with my wife for 11 years and haven't even thought about cheating.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yAll women are not trustworthy. Change my mind?
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+1 yI'd rather just laugh at you and continue scrolling, lol.
00 Reply 711 opinions shared on Dating topic. Some men cheat. Otherwise every marriage would be a divorce.
00 ReplyI don't, I'm just grateful for female attention that I wouldn't risk it,,,
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+1 yyou ladies do it as well... change my mind...
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+1 yAll women lie and be bisexual and charge they phone
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+1 yIf you think all men cheat then you think all women cheat. You can't change my mind.
00 Reply 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. I can not make you do anything, changing your mind is something you will have to do.
00 Reply798 opinions shared on Dating topic. I haven't cheated, I won't be cheating and you can't make me cheat.
Ergo you are wrong.
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+1 yIf your sex game is up to snuff, and you aren't otherwise a bitch, your man won't cheat.
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+1 yYou know, maybe just find different men if you’ve been having this problem
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yNo point. There's no helping women like you. I'd just rather. 🤣🤣🤣
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yIts true, i be on adult website live streaming and the amount of married men on there is mind boggling even the cam model is amused.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yIf your gonna be that general, then I say all women cheat too.
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+1 yBeing hurt clouds rational thinking.
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That's true, but she's just trolling and wants a reaction... lmao
Asker+1 y@sriderpsalot123 honestly it’s not a troll post hence why I haven’t replied back to most people lol
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I didn’t think troll. Too much pain there.
+1 yNo, you're right
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+1 yCan't cheat if you never dated anyone 😵💫
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+1 yI've never cheated.
Checkmate.00 Reply Not all men cheat, tf lmao
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 y"Most" men cheat.
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00 ReplyCan't change your mind but all men don't
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+1 ya man is only as loyal as his options.
00 ReplyI never did till my xe-wife did it to me
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+1 yI have never cheated.
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+1 yAll woman are whores, change my mind!
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