What would you do if your partner chat with am opp gender colleague in a very friendly way?

[Snedger____]

Maybe slightly, very very slightly flirty.

[Guy13]

Have a serious discussion, lay down some ultimatums, and be prepared to move on them.

[Snedger____]

Not sexual flirting, but using lot of emojis and cracking jokes.

[Guy13]

That is sexual flirting. Emotional bonding, outside of primary relationship, with another woman is cheating. This is wrong in my view and intentional.

I woukd expect more of my spouse and the distrust would be entrained. I would move to protective mode and prepare for the writing on the wall by someone who would willingly sacrifice our relationship.
And, I would be a fucking asshole and leave nothing put a. trail of 💩 and quicksand for spouse to sink into.

[Snedger____]

Yes I agree