Most women will never grasp what it is like being an average or even an above-average man and that women are not interested in us. I'm not gonna mention the "top 20% of men" because that's already a 'dead horse' to beat.
I think that women think, that we have girls messaging us on the regular kind of like as much as random blues are contacting them out of the blue.
It's not happening. At all. Most women show zero interest whatsoever. That's why many of us are single for a very long time.
norah vincent did commit suicide. RIP to her
ever since birth, boys have been placed in the box of an oppressor and girls in the box of a victim thus any male accomplishment is meaningless and failure is "his fault" even for something outside of his control i. e. his looks, height, money, status etc. whereas any female accomplishment is celebrated and failure is due to the "patriarchy"
more and more these days, a man's worth is being determined not by his achievements, his skills, his competency but by the number of women that like him. even if you're a man who doesn't wish to seek out women's validation, society will force you to want it or risk letting your bloodline die out. rappers be singing degrading songs about women all the time but they have no problem attracting women but let an unattractive man point this out and he gets all the negative labels thrown at him.
the responses I see on this site in regards to posts from people being unable to find a partner is quite eye-opening. for women it's just coddling but for men it's endless gaslighting so it's easy to see why a lot of men do get driven to suicide. while it's not a good thing to be coddling men, we aren't honesty with ourselves when we scream out "male privilege" and "we need gender equality" when shit like this happens.
when a man (who is likely unattractive) commits suicide, no one cares. it becomes less competition and weeding out undesirable traits from the gene pool. men have and will forever be expendable in society no matter what time period and women will always be valuable and protected. that's just how life is.
Well I'd assume a women transformed into a man would act pretty gay. They would probably be shunned by most other men and find no friendship. They'd probably get a lot of female attention from women that wanted to friend zone them.
I hate that MEN HAVE IT BETTER TROPE!!! Men die sooner, they are over 90% of workplace accidents, they often work the most dangerous jobs on earth (hint, police officer isnât even in the top ten), they get screwed by divorce courts, and they receive greater prison time than women for the identical crime!
BUT⌠I also hate the âWomen have it easy trope as wellâ. We are more likely to be the victim of a violent sexual crime, while we commit domestic battery at roughly the same rate as men, we are 90% more likely to die as a result of IPV! We pay more for dry cleaning, deodorant, RAZORS (#PinkTax), we definitely pay more for underwear even though there is considerably less fabric, and we are almost exclusively cat-called just for walking down a street to get to school, work, etc⌠Oh, and periods!
Neither sex has it better! There are drawbacks to either gender, and if we just stopped trying to compete for victimhood status, we would realize that women's weaknesses are usually mens strengths, and vice versa! If we just called for a gender detente, and sat and talked, weâd realize that we are different BECAUSE we need each other, I believe itâs by design, and Iâm certainly no religious fanatic!
I was tempted to vote for calling you a noodle just for laughs. But in all seriousness, no, I donât think we would kill ourselves. I am NOT saying that there isnât truth that women do not typically have to work as hard to date. But I feel like generally we also develop deep intimate, while also not romantic, relationships with friends. There probably would be some that reached the point you feel in your frustrations. I donât know, you canât really generalize all women or men or any group of individuals. But Iâm sorry youâre having a hard time, genuinely sorry. Because that isnât a good feeling. But donât give up. I know this is easier said than done. Keep going. Work on happiness within yourself in the meantime and keep trying. You miss opportunities when you give up. Good luck.
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Are you implying one of the main reasons for high suicide rates in men is because they don't get enough attention from women?
Or the shift from woman to man and not getting attention is what would cause the suicide?
Can I just choose to transform into an attractive man?
Well, do you think if men transformed into women they would commit suicide because of all the attention? There you go, they would love it, at first. Grass is greener on the other side after all. Women endure catcalls, inappropriate touching/sexual assault, and constant leery comments all in the name of this "attention" you speak of. I'd say singleness is the better of the two.
Lol absolutely not, I've had more men bullying me than showing interest me in my whole life and I have still always been doing quite well. I kinda enjoy pissing off the brats now.
Yes.
What I think is that people who think that others commit suicide because of dating problems, have no idea what real problems are...
I was JUST wondering something quite similar, yesterday!!
If I was a man, it wouldnât change anything because Iâm already not getting any attention.
Plenty men will settle for a feminine boy.
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