Finding a partner who aligns with my belief system?

[Anonymous]

Due to beliefs, my mate will have to align to my belief system, and I'm finding it's extremely hard to find a partner who does. Some of my beliefs there are no compromising on.. it has nothing to do with political. I let a lot of friends go who don't serve me or my belief system.

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WHy is this hard?

[JamesDiaz11]

It would only be hard if you have extreme, potentially unreasonable beliefs. If I was a sheet wearing Klan member, and it was important to me that my wife hate black people as much as I did, it would probably be hard to find one.

I don't know what your beliefs are, but you seem inflexible on them- inflexibility isn't conducive to relationships.

If your beliefs are not helping you live the life you want, you may want to reconsider them.

[Asker]

Nothing about my beliefs are inflexible their pretty firm and not changing.

[JamesDiaz11]

Do you know what inflexible means? I don't think that you do.

[Asker]

I know what it means people need to stop wasting their time even considering me as an option when they know they have no chance even after things are discussed where my beliefs are and where I stand. What I'm noticing is people don't care and continue to ignore my beliefs and feelings.

[JamesDiaz11]

"nothing about my beliefs are inflexible (defined as firm and unchanging) their [they're] pretty firm and not changing." This statement shows you don't know what inflexible means.

[Asker]

I just said that and idc whose approaching me trying to change my beliefs or stance it ain't happening

[Asker]

I literally just said that

[JamesDiaz11]

You said your beliefs were NOT INFLEXIBLE, then followed it up with how they were inflexible. The definition of inflexible is firm and unchanging. I feel like I'm speaking to an IQ 70. With this intellect how confident can you really belief that your ideals are correct?

[Asker]

My beliefs are not changing not once did I say my beliefs were changing can you read? I said people approach me thinking they can get me to change my mind about what I believe in or ignore my beliefs and feelings

[Asker]

I hope you can read

[ShellyB]

Well I mean this in a helpful way, you sound kind of angry about something. That might be as much the problem as anything else. That said to answer the question, if you believe something that 50% of people believe and will only date people who have that belief, that cuts the dating pool in half, if you believe something that only 10% believe, that cuts the dating pool 90%. Since we have no idea what belief it is except you said it is not political, it is hard to suggest places to meet like minded people but, I would consider what kind of clubs or gatherings people with those beliefs attend and focus there, that is the best suggestion I can make. JMO good luck!

[Asker]

Not angry at all dating pool is already cut in half by 70% -

[Ms_Facesitter]

It's hard because friends are there to support eachother, not to serve. And if you put your beliefs first place and reject the other's point of view, they'll just go find someone with less of a dictator mentality.

[jayhams]

Isn't it common sense that the more criteria that needs to be met the less likely it is to find someone to check all of the boxes? Think about going to a car lot to buy a car. They have a set amount of cars. So the more features you want the less odds the car lot has that on site.

[Asker]

My mate will have to align with my beliefs

[slatyb]

It depends on whether your beliefs are commonly accepted or not. Of you insist that your partner also believes the Earth is flat, you will have a hard time finding a partner.

[Asker]

It's not even that I don't want a sheep partner

[slatyb]

Meaning someone who understands and accepts established science? They don't want you either.

[Asker]

I don't want anyone infected in my life with mrna and follows science

[Asker]

Sheeps need to stick with their kind - I don't need their plague or sick mentality following me

[Asker]

Most likely a liberal or Democrat and I deal with neither

[Berethor]

You fanatic? why are the belief system is so important to you? men and women are different.

[Asker]

Idc about men I don't date men