A guy cancelled a date on me last minute 2 times because of work - I haven't responded, what should I do?

[cdimples99]

[JamesDiaz11]

You've already done all you need to- gave him a second change. Dating isn't baseball, you don't get three strikes and you're out. Most people only get one chance, and if that doesn't go well, then it's over. If you get a second chance and flub that one up too, then you're done.

Clearly this guy must be pretty great or you wouldn't have agreed to go out with him, let alone given him a second chance after cancelling last minute. But, clearly he doesn't see you as someone worthy of any sacrifice; so, I suggest moving on.

[Guy13]

Stay away and no contact until he reached out…and has time to get away from wife ❓

[CrazyGirl2]

Talk to HIM! Only he can tell yo anything that will satiate your questions. From the tone of your question either you don’t fully believe that he had to work, or you feel that this won’t work if his job is always going to interfere with your dating life! But again, these are all things that you need to discuss with him, not strangers online. Good luck, sweetie.

[MCheetah]

I'm literally in the same situation right now with a girl! I think I'm done speaking to them. I have no answers for you, but just wanted to comment this.

[SlothySlob]

Rule of 3. Give him the last chance with the mindset that he'll flake on the last minute because of work again. Afterwards you just don't interact with him no more.

[Adam1978]

Cross him off the list. A person that can't commit to a date can't commit to a relationship.

[DavidRaul]

He clearly has no time for you and isn't serious about this whole dating scenario. So you should move on

[BarryLiverstone]

Three strikes and you are out. But when did you last see him irl?

[cdimples99]

I never did - I went on a dating app and he cancelled on me 2x saying he was stuck with work issues - I don't know why he is doing this? It's the 2nd time already, does he get a high off of disappointing women

why bother trying to reschedule with me

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s not a high, he clearly will not meet with you irl and is using you online. Could be to alleviate boredom, could be a power trip. He could be cheating. How often have you face timed with him?

[cdimples99]

I actually haven't face timed him, but he called me and I guess his co worker knows my dad and then after the call he flaked... no face time though but the app has my IG which has modeling pictures...

[BarryLiverstone]

If your dad can confirm he is who he says he is then give it one more shot. But this time just let him know where you will be and see if he joins you like on the weekend. If he doesn’t then no need to keep on giving him any time. That’s the third strike. Then you can ask out the coworker ;)

[Alex8736]

delete, block and replace. men can be replaced but time can't be

[Anonymous]

dump him he's stringing you along breadcrumbing you

[BJP21]

Ask him when his lunch break is.

[cdimples99]

lol! you are so funny!

[Snedger____]

Next time you cancel the date

[cdimples99]

awww that's game - thank you... I just dont get it, I don't know why he'd even bother trying to reschedule a 2nd time only to cancel again :' - (

[Snedger____]

Yeah that's weird. Show him how weird it was.

[In_Trance]

Move on