Girls, Would I find my soulmate here.. Smh, don't get it twisted?

[Toybaby]

I'm a shy guy and i couldn't see myself stand that not like I'm scared but im not use to that and i realise that i need a date i want a serious one with me but i couldn't go straight to tell my feeling hopefully i find one i could tell...

[SueShe]

Unfortunately, GaG is not the right place to find a soulmate. The only thing you will get if you insist will be trolls and spammers.

I suggest you find yourself your soulmate in real life and not on a social platform. Those kind of platforms like GaG are not really made for that but are solely a question and answers place.

You would be much better off concentrating on your area to find what you are seeking. Go out among people and introduce yourself in person.

But first, you have to work on your shyness and you are the only one that can help that situation.

In order to have friends or a girlfriend, you must be pro-active and find friends. They will not just pop up in your life without you being involved in the relation. Best is to join a club, take a hobby where you can meet people with similar interests.

If you are good at one specific occupation, then see if you can find a club or place where others meet that share that passion. The rest will just fall automatically into place. Sharing the same interests with a person is always a good start to get to know that person better because you have common grounds.

If you are shy, you can train your approach, your attitude and expression in front of a mirror for example. Think of what message you want to bring across and rehearse it until you are satisfied. The next step is the most difficult one and that is the one where you have to put in practice what you learned and rehearsed.

But without you wanting and acting upon it, nothing will ever happen. You have to get out of your comfort zone for it to happen. The most important is not to be afraid to fail. If you are rejected, get back onto your feet and try again.

[PrettyPriya]

This is my second attempt to post an opinion. Airline wifi is not what you would call good. If I fail, I did notice that @SueShe has pretty much said what I will opine.

This isn’t a dating site, so the likelihood of you finding someone on this site is almost nonexistent. Not only is it a small online community, it is an international one. People are from all over the world. Finding someone that is even remotely close to where you are from is pretty low, unless you live in a large metro area. Even then, probability is low.

If you do live in a big city, your chances of meeting someone in person is much, much greater. Users here (especially girls) are very wary of giving personal information to other users. You never know who it is you are really talking to given the anonymity even with a public profile. Best find someone jn person rather than relying on this site. Best of luck.

[SueShe]

Good luck on your long journey to happiness. May this trip remain memorable your entire life :-)

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe Thank you! We have a little less than 2 hours on this flight to C***** in Singapore. Then a short break before they send me back into the air. What a long day this is going to be.

[SueShe]

Better you than me. I will be thinking of you the entire month but mostly on 12/31 :-)

[dustybiker]

Doubtful. It’s not a dating site. Everyone that has stuck around has a few screws loose. Including me.

[Nikki1989]

Yeah, it is probably not going to happen on here.