What are your top 5 undesirable traits in a man or woman?

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letuswaltzforthedead · Accepted Answer

Doesn't do any kind of drug (like smoking pot or cigar[ettes], alcohol is fine if it was occasional).  extremely Impulsive in any sense, I want to know if the guy is actually able to think things through for more than 5 seconds lol.  has to be a fair person, at least considering other opinions and point of view sometimes. it would help to avoid conflict.  Emotionally unstable and extraverted, especially the latter but it seems like the two things go together A completely cold person, I understand not being emotionally fickle but complete apathy would be another extreme.

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

1. TOXIC

2. No respect for my time

3. Unstable, such as unable to keep a job, any job.

4. lying, including lies of omission

5. Secretive, keeping things from me.

Really though everyone has bad traits, and some try to work on them to do better, others just fall into old habits and don't care.

I've had guys break into my apartment (in the past) because I wasn't answering their texts or phone calls, needed a break cause they were too obsessed... how's that for Toxic?

DenizLikesTennis · Accepted Answer

1. Being narrow-minded

2. Only into small-talks, shopping talks, no any deep and meaningful topics/conversation

3. Dishonesty and pessimism

4. Being passive

5. Only into looks. Putting way too much effort into her looks, like extreme. Trying as hard as possibe. Perfectionism. Brings no personality to the table.

Girls, I actually don't care about your looks that much 😒😒... just be a good and attractive human being. I want 70% personality so I can fall in love

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

Moody

Inconsistent in doing and thinking when compare to professed worldview

Does not consider consequences

Inability to serve while emotionally connected to spouse... I enjoy it for soft eyes berse Oh Shit, I better or going to leave me.

Demands Respect and acts like The Fool

kylee2437 · Answer

1. inconsistency  2. Lack of communication  3. Being emotionless/ thinking vulnerability is too much  4. someone that doesn’t know what they want 5. Someone that doesn’t stick to their word

NathanDavis · Answer

I don't even think of this stuff lol, let's see what i can come up with...

- heavy drinker/smoker/druggie... very unhealthy

- sedentary life, couch potato... not my style at all, unhealthy as well

- any kind of the big hateful traits... racist, homophobic, far-extreme views

- someone that is truly selfish and/or takes advantage of others carelessly

- still thinks Aaron Rodgers is better than Tom Brady

CateM · Answer

1. Dishonesty!!! I can't stand being lied to!!

2. Is a Republican

3. Drinking too much, smoking, or doing drugs

4. Boasts offensive symbols such as a swastika or the Confederate flag (pentagrams are ok, though)

5. Having no heart

MichaelEspinoza · Answer

This is my opinion on this subject , my top 5 undesirable traits in a woman would be

( 1 ) she doesn't like my parents - ( obviously )

( 2 ) she doesn't love to spend time with me

( 3 ) she makes excuses to see someone behind my back

( 4 ) she doesn't love or desire to go to church with me

( 5 ) she is not a Born again Believer

ShadezMcgee · Answer

1.) Too masculine, always have to lead or be right, cannot admit when being wrong or can't apologize and always combative

2.) Doesn't respect boundaries or time

3.) Rude and disrespectful to others

4.) Horrible communication

5.) Extreme views with politics, ideals, etc.

DevikaButts95 · Answer

-Extremely mean or mean spirited -Disrespectful of boundaries -In men only: disobedient -Men only: Alpha -Men only: dominant.

Izzy_3991 · Answer

Great question! 😄 1. Smoking (cigarettes or vaping)  2. Drugs (the illegal kind) 3. Excessive swearing 🤬 4. Drinking alcohol (A bit occasionally is fine) 5. Arrogant, rude and boastful

Beatrix7 · Answer

1 not keeping promises to much 2 lying 3 doesn't respect boundries 4 trys to control me but a wouldn't let him but trying to i still hate 5 not a lot of contact and makes excuses for it

USLegionary · Answer

1. Disloyal  2. Fat. 3. Lazy 4. Can't cook 5. Won't clean

lilyanony1 · Answer

Men: Meanness  Secretive  Power hungry Massive ego  Mansplaining  Women: Jealousy  Bitchiness  Vengeful  Adopting negative masculine traits Being exclusive

Msputiton · Answer

1. Obessed with sex. 2. Obessed with their size 3. No respect for others  4. Got a big ego 5. Treats others with no compassion

BJP21 · Answer

This goes for BOTH sexes.  1) Cognitive Dissonance 2) Gaslighting with being Mentally/Emotionally Abusive with no filter.  3) No Confidence  4) Indecisive  5) Socially awkward

4ngelic · Answer

- being really insecure - dirty - really shy - being a cheater - being boring

tzdc21 · Answer

1. Disrespectful 2. Inconsiderate 3. Rude  4. Selfish 5. Trump Supporter

dustybiker · Answer

Aggressive behavior Addiction. Thoughtlessness Procrastination Poor hygiene

mstbooblover · Answer

Lying, secretive, lack of communication, violence in any form.

Pohjolan · Answer

1. Immoral or evil. 2. Severe mental illness. 3. Lack of intelligence. 4. Bad smell. 5. Obesity.

exitseven · Answer

1) LAZY 2) Stupid 3) Dishonest 4) Undisciplined 5) Disrespectful

Anonymous · Answer

No f***ing clue. But I'm sure if I asked the women of G@G they'd come up with a lot more than 5. 🤣🤣🤣

suzzieQ · Answer

Bigotry, sexism, racism, narcissism, and selfishness

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